HopeFloats Diary

HOPEFLOATS

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This is my first day here but it was suggested I come here and start my diary. I have been working on and off on my weight loss for a few months but seem to be stuck at 202. Arggghhh. Well I have started 1 gallon of water a day and have made it through the first couple of days without drowning.
I have been doing the elliptical for 36-38 minutes a day (Hubby bought one for us both to use) and tonight I did 20 minutes of Pilates. It was tough as I have never tried it before but I think after awhile I will grow to like it.
My oldest daughter is 12 (13 in a couple of months) But has been putting on quit a bit of weight the last few months. She is close to being considered overweight, not really overeating per say as being very inactive, maybe 5 pounds away. While I have not said anything to her as I do not want her obsessing and thinking she is fat I also try to challenge her every day as I have been challenging myself. I went about it in the way that I told her I really needed someone to work out with and since she was so young and strong that I thought she would be a good partner. So after I do the elliptical she hops on and tops what I do. LOL of course this works perfectly as she doesnt want her dumb old mom to do better than her.
And I believe it helps keep me going on the days I would rather lay on the couch all day. And that is easy to do. I am a SAHM and we homeschool all the kids but the oldest so we do a lot of sitting for schoolwork during the winter and do more up and about during the warmer months.
I have been adding new things and taking out bad things for us slowly. My husband has been resistent but slowly catching up to us. He is at 265 high blood pressure and high cholesterol so I am hoping the changes I am making will continue to catch on with the rest of the family.
I am watching my calories but not staying within a certain range. For example one day this week I ate 1952 calories and the next was 1546 and today it was 1389 and I am burning between 2500 and 2990 for those 3 days. I have been keeping track of that at Fitday. Today was so low because it was my youngest daughters 4th birthday so I was extra careful with what I was eating so that I could enjoy a piece of her cake with her. But I munched on grapes in between meals today and tried my best to stay away from the things I was really craving.
I was on the Adtkins about 3 years ago but ended up gaining all of it back. This time I want it to stay off!! So I am not going that route again. I am just trying to change things a little at a time. Until recently I had not been working out at all and not doing to many activities even around the house. The last 2 weeks we have been taking trips to the library 4-5 times a week and I have started redoing my sons room. Now this probably seems petty to most but I was spending my days sitting doing schoolwork with the kids and the rest on the computer minus cooking meals and some light cleaning. So not only is my body looking and feeling better so is my home and my family.
I think my biggest worry is slipping back into the life I have been living the last year or two so that is how I found this board. I just needed somewhere to go to say hey this has been a bad day and have others understand why and also understand why losing 1 pound is such a huge deal. My hubby is great as long as I am doing the motivating but he is not much of a motivater himself so I really believe this board with be a very strong assest for me.
Well I am done with the last glass of water out of my jug for the day so it is off to bed. My goal is to update in here every day for the first week and then as often as possible because my next goal is not spending more than an hour a day on the computer! LOL ;)
 
Not more than an hour? :eek: I'd die! I spend every waking moment on the computer. Not good I know, but I don't have much choice (long story). You know exactly how many calories you eat and burn and that's pretty cool.

If your noticing your daughter is getting a little overweight. Don't hide it from her. I know how teenage boys can be and the girls for that matter. If she keeps herself covered it's not a big deal, but if she likes to wear tight pants with shirts that don't reach her waste, she should do something about it. A lot of chubby girls wear these tights pants and the shirts aren't long enough and you can see this tiny bit of fat hanging over the pants, it doesn't look attractive. It looks like they can't breathe and shoved theirself in the pants. But I see what you mean about not wanting her to obsess over her weight, but she still needs to know. Otherwise it could get out of hand and could get far worse then chubby before she realizes it's too late. That's just my thoughts though.

When I was about 8 I started gaining weight. My mom told me it was just babyfat and I'd get taller and it would all thin out. So I believed her and continued to eat unhealthy and stay inactive. Each year went by and I got bigger and bigger but not much taller. I wasn't thinning out. But she kept telling me, you'll grow into it. And I listened. Well now I'm at 214, 5'3" and I'm not going to grow much taller. I have a lot of work to do now to "thin out."

Hopefully you can stay motivated and drop those pounds! :D Good luck!
 
I think I had a pretty good day. I have not gotten in my workout yet but I will get to that as soon as I am off of here.
My daughter told me tonight that she has felt so much better by doing the elliptical and wants to do the pilates in the morning before school. I am so happy that she is also noticing a differene. I was told to watch her and make sure she doesnt take it to far but can a kid honestly get to much exercise? I guess I will have to read up more on that subject.
I did break down and had a 1X1 inch slice of my daughters cake. You know how it is. If it is in the house I have to eat it but at least that was all I had of it. I had some grapes for a snack earlier and bought some celery and peanut butter for tomorrows snack.
Oh and for dinner we had chili soup and I normally eat 2 bowls with cheese and crackers but tonight I put in 1/2 a slice of cheese 1/2 a bowl of the chili and no crackers. So that really helped keep the calories down. Since I was go go go all day I only managed to get in about 1490 calories and half a gallon of water. I am sitting here sipping more now trying to catch up but if not I will get more tomorrow.
I used to sit here on the computer also day in day out but now that I am losing weight I find myself so much more active and I am starting to enjoy the things I had quit doing. I am sure I will have my bad days when I will just sit in front of this computer but I am trying so hard to change it.
Well I had better get off here and get my workout in and burn those pounds away.
 
Hey! I am glad to see you started a diary. I think it will really help you. One thing that was suggested to me is to write down everything you eat. Then others can give you ideas about what you are or are not eating. It really can help to see it written here and to see what others think you can change to help. Good luck!
 
bad day

Thanks Hippo
There is no way I am going to write down what I ate today LOL
I kind of fell off the straight and narrow. I managed to stay around
1900 calories for the day but made some pretty bad choices. I weighed in yesterday at 198 so I was pretty stoked about that. I had been stuck at 202 for so long. I had to go to the last notch on my belt today so there is some belt shopping in my future.
I have still been working out everyday and drinking my water. I just went a little off on the food. No not to many calories over but it was the types of foods I was eating today. I am back on track tonight though so hopefully the off days will come fewer and far between.
I have keep going more today than normal so maybe I have burned those bad carbs off this body :confused:
More tomorrow. I am so exhausted I am hitting my pillow.
 
Good job getting your daughter to work out with you. And I'm impressed with your water drinking abilities! I always struggle to drink enough water.
Totallyscrappy
 
Hi HopeFloats! Welcome to the forum! Don't worry too much about the not-so-great eating day. Believe me, we all have them. I give myself one meal a week where I let myself cheat. I find it helps me keep on track the rest of the week. I need those little cheats to stay sane. lol.

Congrats on the weight you have lost so far! Keep up the great work! :)
 
Hi there Hope floats,
First of all great job on getting your duaghter to start being more active. And having your hubby trying to do this journey with you. You have been doing such a great job so far. You are very determined and that will get you so far in life. I'm very happy for you. Don't ever give up. And so what if you cheated that day. As long as you had alittle to satisy your taste buds. Take day by day. Good luck to you.
 
Hi Hopefloats! :) Just wanted to let you know you'v ebeen selected to be on my team for the challenge along with a few others of course. We need to select a team name, so here are a few suggestions I have, but any other suggestions are welcome!! :) We start tomorrow!
Fat Busters
Calorie Crushers
Workout Wonders
Scale Pounders
 
Hey Girl I See You Made It Under 202 So Keep Up The Good Work!
 
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