Homosexual male confused about weight. Would I still be considered fat now?

Keeping looking for that incredible gay hottie that will accept you as you are --a fellow incredible gay hottie!!! Congrats on what you've achieved! Listen your family!
 
I'm a straight guy, so I'm not an experienced judge, but even I can tell that you're an attractive dude. You look good, so let the spiteful, anemic pencil-necks lose out. Let the skeletons date each other.

You'll be fine, I suspect you've just been unfortunate so far. :)
 
Is it one particular person that you like? If so, RUN! He sounds like a control freak and you don't need that.

I think you look fantastic and I KNOW there are men out there that will too. You just have to realize it yourself, and not worry about what other people think. Get your confidence up and you'll see, they'll come running.
 
I have noticed that men are very visual so I'm guessing that's where the pressure comes from. I have a gay cousin and he's always been into his looks a lot so I guess that's just how it is. I say be you. The right guys for you will be attracted to you just the way you are.
 
Hey. First of all, congrats on your weight loss and you look amazing. I wouldn't lose anymore weight. I know where you are coming from. I myself am a young gay man (24yo) and am trying to lose some weight in hopes of sparking up my dating life, and also getting healthier. I'm hoping that losing the weight (about 50lbs, trying to get down to 180-190, Im 6'2'' btw) that I will gain some more confidence and feel better about myself.

People ask me all the time why I am not really dating, etc. I usually reply that I am just not what the boys are into, LOL. I joke about it a lot but, the truth is that I am seriously lonely and feel hopeless sometimes. Some people don't understand that sometimes it's just not that easy to get out into the dating field, especially if you add in other factors like being gay and overweight. You are not overweight, your exactly where I hope to be someday, and right now I am working really hard to get there.

You look great, and maybe you just need to realize it. Your not the 300lb person you once were. Your completely different. Just remember that. You can have anything or be anything you want to be.

Good Luck, Keep smiling

-Sam:)
 
I'm a lesbian, but I think that you are INCREDIBLY attractive, for a guy.

See, a lot of gay guys are scrawny and feminine.
You look like a nice, well-built, masculine guy.

I don't think you need to lose weight at all.

If you FEEL GOOD where you are at, then don't listen to anyone else.
It seems to me that you have just met a bunch of jerks.

You look fantastic. Congrats on the weight loss. =]
 
Are you kidding me?? YOu are HOT. And you kind of look like Jamie Foxx.
(That's Foxx for Foxxy!)

I know the gay community really puts the focus on slim - even moreso than women, but I think you probably just need to be more active in the community and meet more people? Or maybe you just need to build some muscle. Either way I don't think you need to lose more weight.
 
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