Hi, I need a weight loss support pal!

113mon

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Hello all,
My name is Monica and I have struggled with my weight since I was 7 years old. I am 5'4, 126 lbs, a size 8, and have a very small frame. I store most all my excess fat in my midsection. My waist to hip ration is .81, which means I am at high risk for diabetes and other illnesses I don't want! I think I hide my weight well somehow...it must be becasue I have a very, very petite frame (my wrist is only 5 inces in diameter). But trust me, just because I am 126, it I am by no means in good shape. My 25th birthday is in 12 weeks, and I will lose 12 pounds by then! I've spent most my life ashamed of my shape, and it's time for all that to stop.

I have a binge eating problem. I am addicted to chips, bread and butter, crackers, cereal and milk, cherries, bananas, peanut butter, and other calorie-dense foods. Since I am at high risk for diabetes, and everyone in my family and most of my extended family has been diagnosed wih diabetes, I gotta stop this way of life! One good thing about my eating is I tend to eat natural foods, never any soda, straight-up hard candy or candy bars (if you exclude sugary protein bars), cookies, cakes, frostings. I love whole grains, pumpkin puree, dry-roasted nuts, chips with 3g of fiber per serving, tofu, and protein smoothies. But usually when i binge eat, I end up eating 10 servings of bread with hummus and/or butter. That's not good! Plus I', a hardcore emotional eater.

I have dieted before. My most successful diet was based on Dr. Mark Hymen's book Ultra Metabolism, where I ate low-glycemic foods and avoided dairy and gluten. I was 115 thanks to that book. But then relationship and family problems spawned negligence in my health. Now with 10 lbs of added belly fat, I have the lowest self-asteem ever. But this is my life, and I want to be healthy. I have never had a support like this before and I feel likeI really need a buddy to experience these positive changes with me. Please message me if you'd like to lose weight together, or if you have insight on weight loss and keeping at it. I will appreciate it with all my heart.
 
Hi Monica. I understand how you feel. I also have a history of diabetes in my family. High blood pressure, and heart disease also. So it is very important for me to keep up with a healthy lifestyle. I too carry most of my weight around the middle. I lost about sixty pounds, but am still working on that mid-section, the hardest part to lose. Usually the mid-section is the last to go. I would love to be your weight loss support pal. Health and fitness has become a passion for me, and I love to help others with their weight loss goals. Message Me Look forward to hearing from you.
 
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Monica,
I know what you mean about binge eating. I do really good during the day with eating healthy and then in the middle of the night I get up and binge! I have been doing this for a couple of years and I am still trying to beat it.
I have lost a lot of weight, now I am 124 pounds but I still can't quite slim down my stomach, which was where I also carried most of my weight.
I would love to support you and think it would be good for both of us.
Kristie
 
I just wanted to welcome you all to the forum and wish you good luck in achieving your weight loss goals.
 
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