Hi all

[sleepymal]

My name's Mal and I'm from the great state of WA. I'm 5'2" 133 lbs
and I have a huge butt. I have (not joking seriously ... no no really!) made children stare and point at my butt yelling things like "Boooootay big booootay hahahahaha" "mom she has a big buuuuutt"
bleh
Now this may have attracted my boyfriend at first but in reality he doesn't like what comes with it...big thighs for example. SO since I'm been with him I've lost 23 lbs and sliced off the inches. But my bottom half doesn't want to budge!
I can wear a size small top (despite the chesticles) and I can wear size 4 skirts...but I've only gone down an inch on my hips and nothing on my thighs! And it's driving me nuts.
SO here I am... I think I'd like some more support!
Oh, and better advice than my boyfriend saying "To the Masai's with you!" and more personal advice than I get from the internet articles or magazines (which vary in techniques and confuse me if I think about it all too much...which I do, think about things way too much)
...

But what I mean to say is HELLO ALL! And can't wait to see you on the forums!

 

[MsGhettoBooty]

Now this may have attracted my boyfriend at first but in reality he doesn't like what comes with it...big thighs for example. SO since I'm been with him I've lost 23 lbs and sliced off the inches.

No offense, but honestly, if your boyfriend doesn't like it, then tell him to find himself a small-assed girl. I'm sorry, but if a man (or even a woman for that matter) cannot appreciate a girl with curves, well that's just a damn shame and bugger what they think. Oh and btw, welcome to the forum.

-Sheryl

PS I saw your pix and women
pay plastic surgeons for curves
like that.

 

[Aleeluh]

No offense, but honestly, if your boyfriend doesn't like it, then tell him to find himself a small-assed girl. I'm sorry, but if a man (or even a woman for that matter) cannot appreciate a girl with curves, well that's just a damn shame and bugger what they think. Oh and btw, welcome to the forum.

-Sheryl

PS I saw your pix and women
pay plastic surgeons for curves
like that.

So true!

 

[sleepymal]

*take that boyfriend*! Now what I really need is some more gumption... ^_^
(my boyfriend is just angry cause I can pick him up and throw him if I wanted to lols)

Thank you very much!
Yeah he's been holding in his verbal diarrhea lately... but we'll see what happens if he gets mouthy

 

[nataliejo]

*take that boyfriend*! Now what I really need is some more gumption... ^_^
(my boyfriend is just angry cause I can pick him up and throw him if I wanted to lols)

Thank you very much!
Yeah he's been holding in his verbal diarrhea lately... but we'll see what happens if he gets mouthy

My bf used to have verbal diarrhea .. he used to call me "fat" and what not. BUT since losing weight and realizing it was destroying the relationship, he decided to curb it. Sure one of the reasons I am losing weight is to please him, but I know how you feel.. men argghh!

but anyway I wish you all the best in what you aspire to do with your body. But you look awesome the way you are. Maybe some toning. But I think that all you need is toning ...

best wishes
natalie jo

 

[sleepymal]

yes argh...

I will push forward at a moderate pace and not let myself get discouraged verbal diarrhea or no!