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hey melissa, ive been on this site for about 9 months now, and this is the first post i have ever made. I saw your before-after weight loss post, and you look incredible!!! i am ur height and started at the same weight u were, and got to 130 with proper diet, exercise, etc over the summer. However i started to slip going back to college, with the bf and friends encouraging me to eat, greasy college food 24/7, stress, all that good stuff...and after seeing ur weight loss post i proceeded to read through ur journal to see how you did it!! You are truly inspiring and because of you i have now straightened my slump up and have already lost 5 pounds, which brings me back to 135. My goal is 125, and i just wanted to thank you for sharing your story, u made me realize that i need to get my shit together and figure out that i was doin this for myself and not others.

I am sry for the long post, i am not much of a journal type, i just cant keep up with it, but i look forward to seeing and commenting new posts from you! btw my name is naima and thanks for being so amazing!
 
Thanks Namia!!!

hey melissa, ive been on this site for about 9 months now, and this is the first post i have ever made. I saw your before-after weight loss post, and you look incredible!!! i am ur height and started at the same weight u were, and got to 130 with proper diet, exercise, etc over the summer. However i started to slip going back to college, with the bf and friends encouraging me to eat, greasy college food 24/7, stress, all that good stuff...and after seeing ur weight loss post i proceeded to read through ur journal to see how you did it!! You are truly inspiring and because of you i have now straightened my slump up and have already lost 5 pounds, which brings me back to 135. My goal is 125, and i just wanted to thank you for sharing your story, u made me realize that i need to get my shit together and figure out that i was doin this for myself and not others.

I am sry for the long post, i am not much of a journal type, i just cant keep up with it, but i look forward to seeing and commenting new posts from you! btw my name is naima and thanks for being so amazing!

Hey there! Thank you SO MUCH for posting in my journal. It is these posts that make me feel its TOTALLY worth coming in here and updating on my progress and downfalls on a regular basis. Girl, its TOUGH TOUGH TOUGH to stick to your guns and eat healthy foods when everyone else can or will chow down on fries, hotwings, and beer. Its tough.I was gona PM you about this... but in case others wonder the same ... figured id just post it here.
here are a few things i do:
1) make it KNOWN to everyone that i am serious about losing this weight or being healthy. If your loved ones know its super important to you, they will respect that. For instance, friday night we had game night at some friends house. We had lasagna and what not... the three of them were drinking beer. They didnt even push one on me because when i got there, i made sure i was telling them about the race i had the next day. They know my rule from before that i do not drink the night before a race.... SO... i didnt feel pressured..... because they knew that i was serious about my goals.

Just an example.... same concept though for not so healthy foods. Give yourself a night though where you can eat some of those "forbidden foods"... its good that you do. If you are out for pizza and beer... have some pizza and skip the beer... or vice versa. It will satisfy your cravings and not leave you feeling super bummed that you didnt indulge a little. Just dont do it often! once every other week is fine in my opinion.

2) I keep healthy snacks at my desk at work ( for you college?) There are ALWAYS desserts and treats that people bring in that are just sitting on a table right next to my desk. I use to dig into those treats... they taste GOOOD. and come 11:00... im really hungry! so i keep some pretzels, cottage cheese singles, string cheese, and hummus around just in case i get the snackies... i can make a better choice and have that instead.

3) Keep a food journal! Seriously... so important! If you track what you eat all day, what you weighed that morning ( if you weighed yourself) and what exercise that you did that day, you will see trends and patterns when your weight fluctuates. You will see if may be that you snack too much... didnt work out much that week... or had your period and there is nothing to freak about. This really helps me... i still keep my journal, its a paper one i carry to and from work with me" ( and it has dwight shrute on the front for comic relieft! :) )
4) Have fun with it.... i LOVE my new life... seriously. Mood is incredible, confident... i love this racing i do now... its a new thing i NEVER liked before and now i find im GOOD at it.... its really opened me up to new foods, life exerpiences, and feelings i never felt before.

Thank you for stopping in namia.... so glad you are back on the horse... i am thrilled that i could help in any way at all!!! This makes me so so happy!!!
( can you tell im super passionate about this now? haha)

Best of luck! Check in often!!!!!!:beating:
 
Thanks everyone for the responses!

Today i am kind of taking it easy and bumming around. Yesterday morning i ran a 5K that was to benefit this guy who just found out he had blood cancer.:( Its so sad... because that cancer pretty much doesnt stand a chance in regard to things getting better for him.

I actually had a hard time with the run... its was all but cross country.... ALOT of hills and the the terrian was actually uneven and alot of grass and rough trails.

my time was not my best... i finished at 24:38... which is decent but not my PR by any means. I came in 2nd place females OVERALL which was exciting. There were 115 people in that race. I got a gift card and lost of cheers... the people at the race were alot of this guys friends... and they were very excited that someone had stuck around after the race to get their award... the other people got theirs after and split... so i got a ridiculous amount of applause..... that was exciting. The race was $30.... but it went to a good cause.... so i am glad i did it.


my issue today: My hip hurts pretty badly. Im thinking its from pounding uneven groud in that race......... it didnt hurt when i was running.... but its sore now!

my new fav running song: Cascada: Evacuate the dance floor... hehe. it keeps my legs pumpin'... thats for sure! :)

My eating and what not has been so so over the holiday. I was at 124 this morning, and so now my new flucation range is 122-124.... which is A-OK with me :)

Hope everyone is well!

Melissa
 
1) make it KNOWN to everyone that i am serious about losing this weight or being healthy. If your loved ones know its super important to you, they will respect that. For instance, friday night we had game night at some friends house. We had lasagna and what not... the three of them were drinking beer. They didnt even push one on me because when i got there, i made sure i was telling them about the race i had the next day. They know my rule from before that i do not drink the night before a race.... SO... i didnt feel pressured..... because they knew that i was serious about my goals.

Just an example.... same concept though for not so healthy foods. Give yourself a night though where you can eat some of those "forbidden foods"... its good that you do. If you are out for pizza and beer... have some pizza and skip the beer... or vice versa. It will satisfy your cravings and not leave you feeling super bummed that you didnt indulge a little. Just dont do it often! once every other week is fine in my opinion.

2) I keep healthy snacks at my desk at work ( for you college?) There are ALWAYS desserts and treats that people bring in that are just sitting on a table right next to my desk. I use to dig into those treats... they taste GOOOD. and come 11:00... im really hungry! so i keep some pretzels, cottage cheese singles, string cheese, and hummus around just in case i get the snackies... i can make a better choice and have that instead.

3) Keep a food journal! Seriously... so important! If you track what you eat all day, what you weighed that morning ( if you weighed yourself) and what exercise that you did that day, you will see trends and patterns when your weight fluctuates. You will see if may be that you snack too much... didnt work out much that week... or had your period and there is nothing to freak about. This really helps me... i still keep my journal, its a paper one i carry to and from work with me" ( and it has dwight shrute on the front for comic relieft! :) )
4) Have fun with it.... i LOVE my new life... seriously. Mood is incredible, confident... i love this racing i do now... its a new thing i NEVER liked before and now i find im GOOD at it.... its really opened me up to new foods, life exerpiences, and feelings i never felt before.

Best advice. Let everyone know your goals for support and accountablity, give yourself healthier options but don't be too strict, and track your progress and enjoy the journey. Well said.

I'm just starting my running, but I hope to be as fast as you one day. :)
 
Hi Melissa,
I'm so proud of you for accomplishing what you've set out to do - you are truely an inspiration to lots of us on here. Those races you have been doing are really motivating. Keep the posts up because we love to hear how you are doing and making out. I believe before the holidays you will see 120 - 122 is so close and wouldn't you love to reach your goal before the end of the year! Keep it up, we are all cheering you on!
 
Hey Melissa, thanks for stopping by my journal. Sounds kinda dumb, but the little chubby girl in me LOVES it when the popular gorgeous girls tell me I look good ;)

Awesome job on the race, even if it wasn't a personal best at least your out there running. I'm glad to hear about the warm reception after the race. There is nothing like the spotlight :)

marie
 
Thank you so much for the advice and congrats on your 2nd place!
I just stocked up on fruits and healthy snacks, now i just have to eat them, haha. What do u do when you have late night cravings?? I get these all the time, probably cause i never eat breakfast, but how do i resist??
 
Thank you so much for the advice and congrats on your 2nd place!
I just stocked up on fruits and healthy snacks, now i just have to eat them, haha. What do u do when you have late night cravings?? I get these all the time, probably cause i never eat breakfast, but how do i resist??

1st- i use to never eat breakfast. Do yourself a favor and force yourself to EAT BREAKFAST!!!!


2nd- i tend to eat later at night so im not toooo bad with snacks... but if i do... i have pretzels, skim milk, and things like that at my house that i can snack on.
 
Last night I took an unplanned evening off… was feeling very super crampy and just miserable… needed to relax and unwind. Went out to dinner with my hunnie. Then we came home and watched national lampoons Christmas vacation LOL
At lunch time today I ran 4 miles in the business park. My time was 31:01 which is not too shabby at all…. It felt incredible to take time to run and just clear my head…. It has been a stressful week for some reason. And the mood swings have been incredibly bad so I needed those good vibrations!
Hip is feeling ok… been taking my supplement s and being kind to my body… just to be sure its all good.

Not gonna lie… not really in the Christmas spirit this year….. having a hard time getting excited or into it at all……

Got all my boyfriends stuff ordered….. my brother, my sister, are all shopped for. Its pretty sweet. But I don’t feel like doing much of anything. Im being a Grinch I guess……


Maybe it’s the dreary weather………. Or my mood swings right now… yeah… maybe I am too hormonal. Ah, yes….. hopefully that will be over in a day or two :coolgleamA:
 
Hi Melissa,
I hear what you mean about the mood swings. I am a total downer when the snow starts to fall and I'm trying to get over it because I know it's going to snow every year and there is no point in being crabby every winter - I might as well move to the Sunny State but since that's not a possibility I will make the best of it. Awesome time with 4 miles! Very impressive.
Have you put up your tree yet? I'm doing that this weekend so I hope that helps get me in the Christmas mood. Might make some coffee and Bailey's like Marie too - yumm. I'm so jealous that you almost have all your shopping done too - I have to start soon.
Have a great weekend!
 
Hey there strangers!!

Been busy lately… lots going on… busy busy !! Lets see… recap my weekend…. Friday night I went to see Dane Cook! My sister had suite tickets from work so it was catered and stocked with alcohol! I didn’t drink… not really a drinker anymore…. But I did snack on some hersheys chocolate ( that’s where the show was) and some pizza. It was wonderful….. didn’t over do it though ? Saturday, I spent the day cleaning, made stuffed green peppers. ( turkey burger in mine…. Regular burger in the boyfriends) and watched my hockey team get their ass handed to them!!! Boo. Sunday morning was breakfast with my man and then some shopping. Last night made a new dish…. I’ll share the recipe ?
1 ½ cup whole wheat Penne pasta
1 can diced tomatos
14oz can spaghetti sauce
9oz fresh spinach leaves
1lb chicken breast cut in bite size pieces
1 tsp basil
1 cup 2% mozzarella cheese
Neuchfuzel cheese ( 1/4 8oz package) cubed
2 tbsp parm cheese
*Boil noodles; add spinach to water for 1 minute and then drain.
Meanwhile cook chicken in nonstick frying pan for 3 minutes with the basil, add diced tomatoes and sauce. Cook another 7 minutes or until chicken is done. Add Neuchfuel cheese. Pour mixture into baked dish with noodles and spinach mixture. Add ½ mozzarella. Bake 20 minutes at 375. Add remaining ½ cup of mozzarella cheese and sprinkle parm cheese on top. Bake additional 2 minutes.

Serves 4 people. it is advertised as a meal under 500 calories. Let me tell you… very very tastey and filling!!! Yummmmmm

Anyways, workouts this weekend were as follows:
Friday – 4 mile run around business park ( 2 laps) and it was in 31 minutes
Saturday- no workout… took it easy… ran around cleaning though which took a lot of my energy!!!
Sunday- 30 minutes cybex, 2 miles on treadmill, and leg day w/ abs at the end.

I can barely walk today! it kicked my butt! Since I have been focusing on just running and improving my times… lifting got me super sore today!!! it’s a nice feeling though… missed it!

This coming Saturday looks as though it will be my last race of the year…. This brings mixed emotions. First I am excited… I want to KICK ASS…. Its my last of 2009!!!!!!! Second though I am very sad…. It has me a little bummed because I very much look forward to these races. The last 4 months ive had at least one a weekend… sometimes two!! I feel empty knowing I do not have many more to look forward to until spring time! I am starting to rack my brain for what I should do to fill that void…. Im thinking a treat of a gym membership to somewhere that has classes? I dunno…. We shall see.

I did find a climbnasium near my house… which is indoor rock climbing…. That would be a good and fun workout to do every now and then….. but I dunno… we will see.
Anyways… there is your 30 second update ! still hanging in there at 122-124

Hope you all are doing well! I know I haven’t been here lately in person… but in sprit I am here!!!!! Ill try to check in on some of you soon!
Melissa
 
I am starting to rack my brain for what I should do to fill that void…. Im thinking a treat of a gym membership to somewhere that has classes? I dunno…. We shall see.

I am loving the new gym I signed up for - they have so many class options all for free - water aerobics, yoga, pilates, spinning, boxing, step aerobics, kettle bell, new body with light weights, zoomba, and many more! I find if I get bored with one class I can try something new. i used to pay just to attend aerobics and now it comes free with my membership - gotta love it! Hope you find something to fill the void - let us know.
Good weekend btw - keep it up!
 
This site is just a way to get shit out without having to focus on who I'm reallllly telling it to.

I tried filling the void with ice cream but it didnt work out well for me!

Sorry about that attempt at humor. I will try and post something more meaningful in the future but right now....I got nuthin
 
Happy hump day :)

Things have been good. Yesterday I was super sore still from leg day Sunday, so I actually took it easy and just did a 2 mile run. The first mile was rough… my muscles were kind of pissed off that I was running…. But after the first mile id say, they loosened up and actually felt better than they did before I ran….
I need to get better at stretching, especially after exercising… its something a lot of times I find myself skimping on or skipping entirely. I know its very important and would help my sore body after working out if I did it more frequently…. Or actually EVERYTIME I finish working out.
Food intake has been fine lately. Just for shits and giggles I will post yesterday’s food intake:
Breakfast: 1.5 lg cups of coffee ( w/ sugar free cream and splenda), kashi warm cinnamon ceral with skim milk
Lunch: 6 inch whole grain wheat subway turkey and ham sub, yogurt, sm. Golden delicious apple

Snack 3:30- 3 pretzel rods w/ 1 tbsp peanut butter, decaf hot tea
Snack 4:30- handful of walnut pieces
Snack 6:30- 2 slices of sharp cheese, 5 pepperonis
Dinner- Meatloaf ( homemade ? ), 2 portabella mushrooms- ( stuffed with fresh spinach, red pepper, 2% mozzarella cheese, minced garlic, and 3 tbsp zesty Italian dressing.
Coke zero

The last two days I have maintained my weight at 122!!! ? Yesterday I was 122.4 and today I was 122.6 … I am so very happy about that!!! I feel great and I am starting to feel like I look great! I have 5 lbs that I want to lose. I would really like to be 117…. That is my new goal overall… then its maintaining from there! My goal for the end of the year is to get to 120. Its really hard for me to lose weight now that I am so close to my goal… so those two pounds are going to be rough… especially thinking about the fact that I was maintaining between 124-129 from July until a week ago!
Most important to me now is just staying fit and keeping up with my workouts and healthy lifestyle! I cannot believe in two months it will have been one FULL AND ENITRE YEAR since I started all of this healthy living. It has SO changed my life… its incredible.
Some may look at me and think… well she only lost 31 lbs… what’s the big deal….. its not like she was obese and got to her goal….. but to me… I conquered a problem that I felt I had… and it’s a HUGE deal. It’s the one thing I am MOST proud of about myself. Not only did I make a promise to myself… I made it known to my family and friends what I planned to do, I put a plan in place…. And I did it!!! Another cool thing is I have made new friends who have the SAME goals as me now too. Its so fun to talk to the one girl I have gotten to know… we have things in common. The struggles we face each day, the criticism coworkers bring out way… making goals… pushing each other… its awesome. Its sad because I lost some along the way…. And I am not sure why exactly….. some were losing weight on prescription drugs and abusing them… and others I guess I grew apart from because we didn’t have much in common other than going out for greasy food and drinking beers. While I guess that’s a little sad…. I am so much happier now in my life… with my boyfriend, and most importantly with myself.
I see this coming year being another HUGE transformation in my life. I am planning for a half marathon in march… a full marathon beginning of summer…. And who know what else may come my way. Im not sure the worlds ready for me yet hehehe.

Love you all…. You are the best <3 thanks for reading.
 
Excellent post Mellisa! You totally deserve that great feeling! I can't wait to see you reach 120! That will be a huge milestone! Keep it up girl - you can do anything you set your mind too! I have a funny feeling along with accomplishing those races next year you might also be seeing a ring of some sort - just a feeling I'm getting!
Have a great hump day!
 
Excellent post Mellisa! You totally deserve that great feeling! I can't wait to see you reach 120! That will be a huge milestone! Keep it up girl - you can do anything you set your mind too! I have a funny feeling along with accomplishing those races next year you might also be seeing a ring of some sort - just a feeling I'm getting!
Have a great hump day!

aw, thank you so much girl!!!! <3 that means alot!!!!



and a ring!?!?!??! ommmmmggggg hehe. i sure hope you are right hehehee
 
I see you as a total success. I personally know how hard it is to lose weight once you get to an athletic and fit weight/body fat composition. I was 4 lbs away from my original goal after losing 58 lbs and I broke. Mostly mentally because of a few hard challenges life threw at me but nonetheless I broke and now after 3 months I am 22 lbs heavier. Time to regroup before I gain it all back. :smash:

31 lbs for a girl who started out at 153 is a big accomplishment. That is not easy to do. You did it the right way too. You took a year to do it and you did it by eating healthy and exercising regularly. You are also finally happy with the way you look and that is hard to accomplish also. Finally, I think you will be able to maintain your weight loss because you have a new passion for running. Once you reach your final weight goal, that part of the journey will be over and there will be some sadness. However, with as serious as you are about racing, you will have those challenges to keep you motivated.

Yay for Melissa! :hurray:
 
I see you as a total success. I personally know how hard it is to lose weight once you get to an athletic and fit weight/body fat composition. I was 4 lbs away from my original goal after losing 58 lbs and I broke. Mostly mentally because of a few hard challenges life threw at me but nonetheless I broke and now after 3 months I am 22 lbs heavier. Time to regroup before I gain it all back. :smash:

31 lbs for a girl who started out at 153 is a big accomplishment. That is not easy to do. You did it the right way too. You took a year to do it and you did it by eating healthy and exercising regularly. You are also finally happy with the way you look and that is hard to accomplish also. Finally, I think you will be able to maintain your weight loss because you have a new passion for running. Once you reach your final weight goal, that part of the journey will be over and there will be some sadness. However, with as serious as you are about racing, you will have those challenges to keep you motivated.

Yay for Melissa! :hurray:

aw, thank you derrick!

but you know what? Its almost 2010... a new year.... you can do this!!! think of it as starting over.... but with a huge advantage because you only have 22lbs and a few additional to make your goal... not the whole 58!!!!!
You can do it! hope you are doing well! Not on here as often these days..... its been awhile.
 
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