Hello there! Healthy guy with stubborn belly fat, looking for support :)

6jerfz

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Hey everyone! I'm a 27 year old male, about 175, 5'11. I was raised on homecookin' and then when my parents started a business, I was basically put on a fast food diet or otherwise was unsupervised in my eating. To top it all off, I always hated physical activity because I was a bit of a creative. For the last 5 years, I've made serious strides to be a healthier individual, but I'm having trouble with the last 20 or so pounds. Here's a the low down on my approach to my weight:

-Vegan diet (done the right way, mixing my protein sources, getting lots of fresh produce, very little to no processed foods, taking multivitamins to supplement my nutrition, supplementing my protein--at least while I'm doing weight lifting--, etc)
-Juice pretty much daily
-I eat very good foods and pay attention to what I put into my body...maybe just not how much or how often I do it.
-Exercise, realistically, 4-5 days a week on average (start with about 20 minutes of weight training then 10 minutes of cardio; each day focuses on a different muscle group>>arms, chest, back, legs)--it's a simple routine, but it's thorough
-Limit caloric intake during the week to around 1500 calories

The problem? I can't lose my stubborn belly fat. I have love handles that will not go away and a soft, jelly-like gut.

Why I think I fail at losing weight:

-"Secret Calories" -- eating when no one is around to see it. Basically, I say "I'll eat 1500 calories or less today" and then after I've done that, dinner is over, and everyone is bed, I grab a piece of seitan, a spoon of peanut butter, etc. I'm guessing I consume an extra 200-500 calories per day doing this. It's not every day, but it happens often

-Indulging on the off days. Wow, do I know how to do this. Friday rolls around and I say "god, this week sucked...I'm having a beer." And then I say to myself and my girlfriend "well, I already had a beer, let's go get some soy ice cream!" And it all goes downhill. Then saturday, well saturday, I can't waste a day that I could cook a delicious meal! And sunday is supposed to be my off day for going to the gym, which my stupid brain thinks of as "day off of healthy eating, too!"

I need some support from the forum here. Help on how to curb these habits and help on my exercise regimen.

I look forward to meeting people, hearing experiences, and helping out if I can!

Thanks for having me :)
 
Welcome to the forum! It sound like you know where you need to improve and how to do it. :]
 
Hello brother!

You're targeting what is driving what you do....what you say.

here's the sequence: Say something in your head -> makes you feel a certain emotion -->motivates you to do. (gives you the urge to eat the spoon of Peanut butter) URGES come from your inner voice that is your brains programming.

The key then is to use your OWN voice to override your brain's voice. (yes, there is a difference)

This takes practice, but most don't even try because they think it is silly or wont work.

Self-talk is the KEY to changing your inner voice that keeps making you "FEEL LIKE" doing things that YOU really don't want to do.

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-Dave

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