Having a FAT day

Julie_in_PA

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UGH ! I'm disqusted today ! I've been feeling SO great, and feeling like my clothes are getting looser and looser. I look in the mirror in my skippies and feel as though I LOOK thinner.
But then this evening my hubby and I had planned to go out alone on a date (while my mom watched our daughter). I tried on several different outfits and just didn't like what I saw for some reason ! :mad: I was aggrevated ! I don't understand - naked I look thinner, but once I put on my clothes - it didn't look to me like I looked any different than what I did several weeks ago.
I'm just so frustrated about it. Sorry about venting - and rambling on about this. I just need to blow steam. It doesn't even make sense. UGH !
 
i've watched enough of tim gunn and what not to wear to know that what you wear can make you look thinner - or fatter, depending on how the garments are cut andhow they fit you...

Solutioin to that;;; Stay naked :) I'm sure your husband won't mind -just get rid of thekids for the day and declare it NEKKID Day! and have some fun :D
 
Your clothes are probably not flattering. Almost anyone can look "fat" or "boxy" or "square" or whatever, if their clothes aren't suited to their body type. I've read enough trashy fashion mags to know what goes with each body type--don't worry too much :) If you can afford it, go shopping! LOL!!!
 
Hey hunny! So sorry you had a 'fat' day... This is my theory: ALL GIRLS HAVE FAT DAYS no matter what their weight is every once in a while. I can remember being the most fit in my life - weighing about 140 pounds and in amazing shape - and having a freaking fat day. I have them a lot more now- having gained weight- but the truth is everyone has them.

So I guess the question is what should we do when we have fat days? Here is a good link about what to wear to flatter yourself:

Just remember though- you aren't alone - focus on the positives, and tomorrow will be better. Keep your head up!
 
Thanks everyone ... you all are a real encouragement to me :) I really appreciate it. I need someone to get encouragement from on days that I'm down and out - and I found the place for that ... right here.

So thanks so much ! HUGS !

And btw - catiew - I'm reading over that website you linked me to - has some good tips there - thanks a bunch !

Curvie Girlie - my mom in law is taking me clothes shopping this week ! :jump:
I made a website for my parent in law's home business - so in return - mil is taking me shopping :) So hopefully I'll be able to find something flattering for my body/weight right now :)
 
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