Amanda 3961
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I joined the gym and hated it. I didn't have anyone make fun of me or anything. It was just a hassle to go. In January I bought a treadmill. I can do it when I want and wear what I want. That's what I like.
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It's difficult I'm sure. I've never had to go through what you have, but have helped to coach some people through it! Going to Curves, or a gym in the off hours, or one that just has a women only section, is always a good idea. Although women can stare sometimes too, so yes, you have to just block them out!
Now the next suggestion I'm going to make will sound prepostorous, but trust me!!! Here it is:
WATER AEROBICS
Yes the thought of a swimsuit is the last thing you want. But: most aquarobics classes are filled with women only. Most of the women are overweight and have chosen it because it is very low to zero impact. ALL of the women are in the water, where nobody can really tell their size or shape. It is an excellent workout and you only have to worry about the walk on the pool deck for 5 seconds. Besides, hardly anyone likes how they look in a swimsuit, so they aren't going to hang around on deck judging you!
Best of Luck!!! You can do it!!!
Serenity I have never been in your condition but I am aware of some of the challenges you are facing. The gym is a good place to go but it has to be a place you enjoy going to, are comfortable with, and are getting the help you need whether it be Curves, Golds Gym, or wherever.
Here are some tips. Start out slow by increasing your physical activity. You need to exercises that are not going to put undue stress on your joints such as jogging, high impact aerobics, etc. Walking is a great way to start trying for 30 minutes a day for 5 days a week. If you can only do 10 start there and slowly increase your time. You should be at a pace where you are breathing a bit hard but still able to carry on a conversation.
Notice I said 30 minutes a day. You still get benefits if you do two 15 min. sessions per day or three 10 min. sessions spread out throughout the day. As you progress slowly increase your time. You can also do exercises in your own home using light dumbells or resistance bands doing arm curls, shoulder presses, etc. These can even be done while sitting in a chair.
The biggest thing is to stay motivated and have patience. The condition you are in did not happen overnight, and it will take time to get in shape, but it WILL happen. You have to be motivated to make this a lifestyle change and a permanent one. You can't work out for a couple weeks or until you lose the weight and then stop. This is a lifetime challenge for most people to stay in shape and take a lifelong concious effort.
As far as nutrition, try to make healthy choices and eat smaller portions. Consult your physician before beginnign if you haven't already, or a nutritionist. Every journey begins with a single step and the ones who succeed are those that refuse to quit. You may stumble and fall but just get back on track. Many people lose and regain their weight several times before it comes off and stays off. You can do it, so don't quit! I hope I have been some help and feel free to ask any other questions you may have.