Instead of strting a new thread, I think my situation is somewhat similar so thought I would ask here;
I worked out for about 7-8 months last year and then went on vacation and that was the end of that

I lost weight but did not shape up like I thought I would. Granted, I did look better just from the exercise.
Turns out, my technique was a little off and I wasnt performing the exercises correctly.
This time, I am back into it and have proper form.
As many beginners, I get confused by all the info; one says this, one says that. From all the reading Ive done, here is what I want to do and want your opinions on....
Exercise:
3 sets for each muscle group (4 for chest)
Within each set, doing reps of 12-10-8 and adding weight when I can do more than 8 on the last rep.
Cardio:
3 times a week. Right now starting out with low minutes devoted to cardio since I have no stamina yet

Diet: I'm a believer in "everything in moderation"
I like to eat and wont go into counting calories or fat or carbs etc... no offense guys, it's just not for me.
I do however, follow more of a South Beach type intake and I do treat myself.
I try to eat pretty healthy four or five days out of the week and then enjoy the rest.
I do also drink the smoothies and/or protien drinks.
Goals:
To build a little muscle, which I think will happen with any weightlifting routine when done properly.
To try and hit the abs: I really have no exercises for this yet
To overall tighten/tone up. Not really bulk (except a little)

Vitals:
I'm a little over 6'1" and 205.
Age 38 and not terribly out of shape. Flabby more than anything, but not overweight.
Concerns:
One thing that does concern me is the man boobs...as I found out last year during my workout stretch.
Do I need to cut back the weight or the reps on the chest or is it a matter of overall body workout?
I know some of this is a little vague, but I'm sure you guys have listened to enough of us beginners to know where I am coming from.
Any repsonses are appreciated.
Sorry for the long post and I know I covered things that have been asked 100 times, but soetimes it helps me understand if I write it out too
Thanks guys