Yeah, I read a few posts and you were giving such solid advice to everybody I knew it had to be you 
"Developing muscle is a very effective way to drop body fat as
muscle burns many more calories than fat"
But you say you cant develop muscle while...loosing fat because they are contradictions. (deficit and surplus of calorie intake).
If you really and truly honestly just want to LOOSE WEIGHT just be less of ones self no actual increase of anything unsightly (like bulking up (which I am also aware you say we cant/wont do)) - just ..decrease but as quickly as possible.
Which do we do - just a mixture of activities - is yoga better than doing weight training because it avoids the bulk (beca or ...how do we know what is better than other exercises than others- For ourselves (because you say its individual)?
"Developing muscle is a very effective way to drop body fat as
muscle burns many more calories than fat"
But you say you cant develop muscle while...loosing fat because they are contradictions. (deficit and surplus of calorie intake).
If you really and truly honestly just want to LOOSE WEIGHT just be less of ones self no actual increase of anything unsightly (like bulking up (which I am also aware you say we cant/wont do)) - just ..decrease but as quickly as possible.
Which do we do - just a mixture of activities - is yoga better than doing weight training because it avoids the bulk (beca or ...how do we know what is better than other exercises than others- For ourselves (because you say its individual)?
If a person is new to weight training or carrying a good bit of excess fat, concurrent fat loss and muscle gain is a very real possibility.
Seriously? I went back and looked specifically at her arms in every photo and I don't see ANY definition. It might be a function of the way she's holding herself for the camera, but I see slim arms w/out any visible muscle.Her arms are quite muscular looking to me, I don't want my arms becoming that pumped up.
I know I have quite a bit of a "distorted view" (I actually have Distorted Self-Image)