Five things you may not know about me....

Don't lie, you were sticking around anyway.
Sort of a ' come for the food, stay for the pie' kind of thing.

No pun intended of course....

Yeah, I do find it rather cozy here. *sits back and props up feet* Hey, pass me that pie, willya? Er, grapes. I meant grapes. lol
 
1 - I have never had a proper or steady relationship.
2 - I have quite a huge scar on my left arm from when I was 6. I had school injections but my needle had dirt on it and I was in hospital for 3 months, if the operation wasn't successful my arm would have to be taken off.
3 - I really need a haircut, my hair even seems longer since the weight loss... If that makes sense?
4 - I can play the piano pretty effing good.
5 - I have a strange obsession with Married with Children lately.
 
1. I narrate my life in my head as well as talk to myself when I'm alone. (Its my imagination not insanity)
2. People always told me I should be a model before I gained weight.
3. I'm easily offended and have considered leaving the forums many times because of other peoples assumptions.
4. I'm still in love with the guy I cheated on my oppressive ex with. But I think he's about to propose to his girlfriend. (Don't think bad of me. It was a want for someone to care about me and not take over my life, not to get some attention.)
5. I'm jealous of my mothers beautiful feet.
 
About me!

Well that was a fun read!!


~Hi, my name is Kristi and I am a cheese-o-holic.

~I fell 3 times during my pregnancy and on the 3rd time (in the produce section of Walmart) I went into labor 2 months early. Walmart sent me a $500 check for my "inconvenience." My son was in the ICU the first month of his life. He's healthy now and that's all that matters.

~I am the youngest of my mom's kids, I was the oldest at home with my younger siblings, and am in the middle altogether....guess that means I don't have a birth order. My dad got custody in both of his divorces and raised us all.

~I was considered infertile after 2 years of diligently trying for a baby. The month I stopped "trying" I got pregnant. Typical.

~I love to play Rummy

~Oh, and I didn't kiss my husband until our wedding day at the altar.
 
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P.S. I don't think badly of others that don't do the same. I know that it wasn't "normal." We just personally did not want to have sex b/f we got married so we decided it was best not to "light the match." We were still affectionate, but just not intimate on that level until that day....and almost everyday thereafter.... :D To each his own...
 
Thanks for resurrecting this thread... this was a fun one. Wow, I can't imagine not kissing my wife before we were married. In my opinion, and I don't think there is a right or wrong here, kissing someone let's you know if there is chemistry. I mean, yea, intellectual chemistry is hot and all. But sexual chemistry is also a prerequisite to a lasting, healthy relationship IMO.

It sounds like you and your hubby have no issues with this end of things, so I'm happy with you. I suppose this proves my above opinion wrong too, lol.

But it's still how I feel.

Very interesting.
 
Had you ever kissed anyone before him? What would you have done if he were a lousy kisser - they do exist :D

Yeah, in middleschool and highschool I "dated" a lot (prob. about 25ish guys) and did my fair shair of kissing...and beyond... but when I was about 18 I decided I was tired of the "game" and wanted to wait until I was serious about someone to be physical with them. Also, I had so much on my plate, raising my 3 younger sisters that I just didn't have time to be in casual relationships. 2 years later I met a guy that finally held my interest and we became really close friends and then later it got serious. He was in the military so our dating relationship was long distance. I knew the next time he came in on leave that things would be...pent up...so I (very nervously) asked him what he thought about not kissing that particular time that he came into town because of that. I didn't want it to be all about the physical. I just didn't want it to be based on that. He totally shocked me when he said, "what if we waited until we got married then?" I think we were both scared of giving into something that we strongly wanted.....to be virgins on our wedding night. I know that some people think that just because I think this way, that I think everyone should think this way. I don't at all. It was such a personal decision for the both of us and there is not one regret.


....And about the thought of him not being a good kisser....I was preparing myself for that...He had only kissed one person in his whole life in the 10th grade. Honestly he wasn't all that great of a kisser and it was a little akward at first. We'll been married 5 years next month and we can make a whole night out of "just" kissing. We are like a couple of kids! Our first year of marriage we had sex twice a day! LOL! This might be tmi for some, but I don't mind talking about it. I rarely do, because I'm afraid of people thinking that I am going to judge them for doing things differently. ...Thanks for askin'!
 
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