Fat2phat

So someone tell me why I quit?

Maybe it is that you are scared of failing? I mean if you quit you have that power, but no one likes to fail. Or, maybe you have an emotional/mental blockage that is stopping you each time. I am scared of failing, I think many people are and I am sure there are some emotional things that tie me to overeating. I know when I get stressed I reach for chocolate, but now I have to implement coping mechanisms instead of quitting and eating to make me feel better.

These are just ideas, otherwise I have no idea, everyone is different.

Also, if you aim for 2 pounds of weight loss a week then you will be right at 25 pounds on Aug 18th :) very realistic.
 
I know one of my biggest problems is that instead of jumpin g right back into to doing what I need to when I slip up, I get so upset with myself and continue to go back to my old ways. I think 'well I've already messed up!' and then I'll continue to. I know I need to be thinking, okay so I slipped up, tomorrows a new day...just pick your head back up and you can do this!

Is it better to work out in the mornings or before you go to bed? I've read different things. Also I had read different things about whether you should work out before you and after you eat. I know Alex said to do so before, and I'm not arguing about that. I would just like to know what the difference is?
Well food blog:
1/4c of pistachios
chicken parmesan sub
and lots of water

that's all for today because lately I've been feeling nauseas when I do eat.

And, I'll be exercising tonight after my husband leaves for work. I like playing music and I don't want to wake him up.
 
For the first time in my life I am losing weight fairly successfully. What has helped me a lot to not fall off the wagon has been to not see it as a diet but to see it as a permanent lifestyle change. If I overeat one day it doesn't matter as I will just go back to eating normally without beating myself up about ruining my 'diet' and then giving up. If people ask if I am on a diet after they notice that I am losing weight I just tell them that I am just getting healthy with my eating and exercise. I also never deprive myself. If I want something then I eat something else more healthy but if I really start to crave something then I eat a small amount of it and then make up for it by eating healthy later. I find that I rarely crave any 'bad' foods now.
I know one of my biggest problems is that instead of jumpin g right back into to doing what I need to when I slip up, I get so upset with myself and continue to go back to my old ways. I think 'well I've already messed up!' and then I'll continue to. I know I need to be thinking, okay so I slipped up, tomorrows a new day...just pick your head back up and you can do this!
 
Is it better to work out in the mornings or before you go to bed? I've read
different things. Also I had read different things about whether you should work
out before you and after you eat. I know Alex said to do so before, and I'm not
arguing about that. I would just like to know what the difference is?

Anytime is a good time to work out, the main question is "when is the best
time to work out when you want to burn off unwanted body fat?"

And here is the answer: The ultimate time for burning off unwanted body fat is
right after waking up! Get up, drink one small cup of strong coffee or tea,
without sugar and then go for a 30-45 minute fast walk.

If this isn't possible, then the next best time to burn off unwanted body fat is
3 hours after eating a meal, if it was small or average of course, and then
when finished to eat the next meal.

To lose the last 60 pounds of the 110 pounds that I lost 16 years ago, I
walked in the morning before breakfast for 45-60 minutes, and also right
before my last meal (5th) of the day also for 45-60 minutes.

Plus I always shifted back and forth between 45-60 minute sessions, and
also shifted my intensity, some days walking fast, and som days walking really
fast, as if I was really late to an appointment where I had to be 100%,
for example.

...Why is this effective? Because when you do cardio in the morning, or cardio
three hours after consuming a meal, the majority of your calories that your
body has to burn off will come from your unwanted body fat.


...To lose unwanted body fat what is important is to burn off the most "total
calories" and not where these calories come from
. Because even if the
majority of your calories come from glycogen (carbs in the body) and not
from the fat stored in the cells, your body still has to take the fat from the
cells and convert them to glycogen to make up for the calorie deficit that
was created during the exercise.


...you might want to read that last paragraph again, because this is very,
very important and even the experts get this wrong.

...Because what it means is that you can lose just as much unwanted body
fat with steady, medium intensity cardio
, as you would doing HIIT (high
intensity interval training) as long as you did the steady, medium cardio
exercise for a long enough duration.

...So, for example if I would want to lose 100 pounds of unwanted body fat
today, knowing what I know, I would walk twice per day, for 90 minutes
per session, and would do this every day until I reached my ideal weight.

Of course you have to start slowly, once per day, 15 minutes per session,
and then build your way up, but the fact remains, walking is KING as long
as you make the time for it.

Why? Because it is SUPER EASY, and everyone can walk. You simply burn
off those calories, and your body can't do nothing about it, ha-ha, you
are in control, your organism has to burn off both glycogen (carbs) and
unwanted body fat in order to FUEL this activity !!!

...hope this helps!
 
Ok, not much to tell about today. Stuck to drinking water for the most part, had one strawberry soda. Ate a handful of ruffles, which I'm thi king I shouldn't have done. One average meal because we were busy today and tired for the most part so I didn't even feel like eating. Did my exercises, walked for an hour and did a few mins of cardio. That's it.
I'm so glad I am getting support from my best friend who calls to check to make sure I workout. :)
 
Dear April,
Get off your lazy butt & do something to change what you do not like!
Love, Your big ass :)

...seriously I have been going through alot and keep giving up. I have a hard time dealing with so much stuff, the weight is (literally) icing on the cake. :/
I get worried I'll look like a "frankenstein" if I lose a lot of weight and HAVE to get surgery for loose skin. However, being fat isn't attractive either. I get really down on myself when I mess up. I feel like I'll never love my body, even if I was healthy. I don't see the point in trying sometimes. I am a stay at home wife....can't seem to get a job here in Vegas and I get lonely a lot and depressed a little too often and would rather just sleep all day sometimes to avoid being alone. I don't have many friends here...I don't like meeting new people often bc I'm a fatass and embarrassed of myself. Then there are the days I am fine.
Well...I needed to vent. If you read this please don't be an ass about it. i do not want a pity party.
-...
 
*continued*...- I just want to keep this somewhere so I can look back on it later on. Hopefully I will feel much differently soon... I'm working on it!

Now time to walk to some good music.
 
I'm confused as to how my weight can change from 3lbs heavier/lighter some days and sometimes during the day just within a couple of hours even if I haven't eaten anything.

Well, yesterday I was ranging 299-300 and today I was 296 when I woke up.
 
295.6 when I woke up and 297 now...but I did just eat and drink lots of water. I'm trying to give myself positive feedback. I know I can do this I just need to make myself give it my all. So...thats that for today. In a pretty good mood. Interview tomorrow...payched & cross ur fingers! :)

Now about to walk again and try to exercise without being jumped on by my dogs. lol
 
so last night before bed I weighed 297 and today when I woke up I weighed 293.6 and now I weigh 296.7 (which is only about 3 hrs later and I ate one hotpocket and not even finished w my one cup of coffee. Why is my weight fluctuating (sp?) so much?
 
so yesterday I weighed 293, 292 before bed and after drinking and muching on a fajita (home made and grilled)....291.8 at 12 today and and 292 right now bwfore eating... yes I am weighing myself multiple times a day. I am trying to get familiar with myself and what changes happen before and after eating and such. I'm just happy its sticking to the low 290's. :)

303 on Sept 17th to 292 on Oct 11th... 11 lbs so far (give or take a lb) I feel good about this.
 
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