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xshellyxpx

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Well this is the first day of my diet, and ive already failed!

Ive eaten way too much...... macdonalds, sausage roll, bag of crisps, bar of chocolate and creamy pasta.

When i have a bad day like that i really dont see the point.

But something has to be done about my weight, so ill just start again tomorow!
 
Today was very bad for you, but tomorrow is another day. Think of it as a bump in the road. How bad do you feel right now? Do you like feeling that way? If not, don't do it again. Use today as motivation to not do it again! :D

Just ask yourself, is it worth it? You can be 140lbs no problem! GOOD LUCK XOXO
 
not tomorrw -

start your next meal -

so you made a mistake earlier - life goes on - get right back on the wagon.. NOW...

tomorrows turn into next weeks, next months, and gives thelong list of reasons why tomorrow doesn't come - abirthday, a holiday, a party.. keep going with the next meal.

and ask yourself why you did slip - to work towards solutions to prevent it from happening again.
 
I agree with Mal,
Start with your next meal!

Each and every meal provides a new opportunity to make better choices!
 
You havn't failed yet, you fail when you stop trying.

You've had a bad day, thats made you feel bad. Remember that next time you feel like you're about to make a diet booboo and think about how good you'll feel when you've had a good day.

Best of luck!
 
Do'not.........

Well this is the first day of my diet, and ive already failed!

Ive eaten way too much...... macdonalds, sausage roll, bag of crisps, bar of chocolate and creamy pasta.

When i have a bad day like that i really dont see the point.

But something has to be done about my weight, so ill just start again tomorow!

wait till tomorrow! Start right now, always remember tomorrow is ALWAYS a day away!
 
Wise words above. If you focus on your failures, you automatically doom yourself to a life of stagnation and/or back-pedaling. Focus on what lies ahead.

And the time to start is now. Personal greatness is determined not by what you do when you are up. Rather, it is determined by how you handle yourself when you are down.
 
don't worry about it. i think we all have days like that. as long as you get back on the wagon it's all good.

in the future though, try to avoid the situation. if you don't go into mcdonald's you're not going to buy anything, right? if you don't buy that chocolate bar at the grocery store you're not going to eat it, right? that's the way i avoid that crap...just don't go to the place, whether it be mcdonalds or the potato chip aisle at the store. anddddd...it's easier not to eat those extra 500 calories then to be on the treadmill for 45mins burning off those 500cals!

--matt
 
Today for example, I ate 2 chocolate chip cookies (again) and ruined my diet, and made it up by spending an extra half an hour at the gym...and jogging for an half an hour when i came home from the gym (counter productive, heh? but i think jogging on the threadmill is soooo boring, around the neighborhood is more fun)

I cheat..but I do make it up, by punishing myself :p
 
Thank God I'm not on a diet, I wonder why people put themselves through that crap....., I've lost a load of weight & i don't go about punishing myself in the gym, and nor do I give a shiney shite about 2 cookies lol
 
Hmmmmm

How exactly do 2 chocolate chip cookies ruin a diet - if you enjoy them- make them work into your plan...

Work it in.

If we are talking 2 X 2 inch standard chocolate chip cookies were looking at 48 calories each. Double that if they are huge. Cut out 100-200 calories of something else, (half your rice at dinner, one of your snacks, etc) and you just saved yourself a hell of a lot of jogging my friend.... ;) Hardly ruination!

Sometimes those weak moments can help. We are not machines, I work "with" my weakness, not against them. I have been very successfully following the "free day" system of weight loss and not only broke a long and nasty plateau, but I also have been steadily dropping 2 pound+ a week for almost 2 months now. Here is what I ate this weekend (because my free day sort of turned into 2...)

6 Baozi (steamed chinese buns) about 500 calories

4 or 5 pieces of fruit - 300-400 calories

Yummy fried noodles for lunch - probably LOTS!! of calories

A nice big coffee flavored icre cream - *Shudder*

white rice, and several stir fried dishes in a restaurant - Oh my, who knows...

A beer with dinner - 650ml of pure yummy

a couple more of them big beers back home - that was fun

And that was just saturday. Sunday wasnt quite so bad, but it werent perfect!!! ;)

When I jumped on the scale it went from 255 on friday, to 264 on monday. I laughed! I am not even kidding, I laughed! I knew most of that weight was from the alcohol and salt playing havok on my system, and i KNEW it would be gone by later in the week. Here it is Weds, and I am down again to 253, 2 pounds less than last week. And heres the kicker, I exercise less. I only do taebo once a week, weight train once a week and do my power stretching and strengthening periodically in the morning.

But I am still losing weight.....

Mind you I do run home from work everyday and walk for 30 minutes at lunch time regularly. I dont consider that exercise though, more transportation.

I honestly believe that by giving myself these "free days" then sticking to a very controlled diet the rest of the time, I am kick starting my metabolism every weekend and not allowing it to become accustomed to my lower calorie eating through the week.

Now, of course this may not be the case with everyone, it just appears to be working for me. Free days, if not kept in check can easily turn into free "weeks". The point I am trying to make however, is there is no real failure in this game, unless you stop trying altogether. Taking a misstep is not the end of the world. if that were the case I would be dooming myself to failure every single solitary weekend! Yet I now have my goal in site, feeling better than ever before.

For many of us, myself included, this is the single hardest thing we have ever had to do in our entire lives. As a teacher I would never hurt or punish someone learning something new if they made a mistake, yet I could so easily do it to myself. Don't fall in to that trap, took me almost 40 years to find my way out again.

sirant
 
The hardest person I can forgive is myself. I can forgive everyone else but myself.

Kinda like my personality. Part of it was, I didn't want the cookies. Hell, I wasn't even hungry. I ate it...just because I could. And thats why I felt so guilty. And...I didn't fit it into my diet.

I don't have the mentality yet. I can't cheat...I mean, I do occasionaly, when I really crave something (and thats when I do work it into my diet), but I didn't even crave the cookie. I just ate it because it was there...and I was soooo angry and disgusted with myself afterwards.

Kinda complicated, eh?
 
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The hardest person I can forgive is myself. I can forgive everyone else but myself.

Kinda like my personality. Part of it was, I didn't want the cookies. Hell, I wasn't even hungry. I ate it...just because I could. And thats why I felt so guilty. And...I didn't fit it into my diet.

I don't have the mentality yet. I can't cheat...I mean, I do occasionaly, when I really crave something (and thats when I do work it into my diet), but I didn't even crave the cookie. I just ate it because it was there...and I was soooo angry and disgusted with myself afterwards.

Kinda complicated, eh?


I gotcha there. Sometimes I'll just have something because I can. Not being I'm hungry, not because it's time for lunch or a snack...just simply because it's there and I can have it. I do work it into my diet and cut out something later in the day, but it makes me really mad that I ate those two cookies (100 calories) and now have to cut out my snack. Then I crave the stupid snack. It doesn't really make sense, but it makes me angry! :banghead:
 
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