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Hahahahahahaha!
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omg hahahahahah
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todays been a really shitty day, me and her are finished..i dug my own grave really with my insecurity, god fucking damn dono what else too say..we ended up speaking friendly afterwards but meh..i dont know if thats going too work too be honest, she was the one for me and i blew it, tough lessons learnt, im buggered if im not changing my ways now, not for her, but for me..
first day of a 2 day detox, that went fine, clean food and plenty of water, not looking forward too saterdays topless photos whatsoever but i need too do it and accept thats where im at.
..we ended up speaking friendly afterwards but meh..i dont know if thats going too work too be honest, she was the one for me and i blew it, tough lessons learnt, im buggered if im not changing my ways now, not for her, but for me.. first day of a 2 day detox, that went fine, clean food and plenty of water, not looking forward too saterdays topless photos whatsoever but i need too do it and accept thats where im at.
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There is no "one for me." Trust me. There are billions of people in the world.....
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There there!! 
Mourn and cry, do what you need to do to get over her--it might take a year. Sorry, but I have had my heart broken by some dude I thought was "The One" but I was delusional and it took MONTHS for me to figure that out!
Mourn and cry, do what you need to do to get over her--it might take a year. Sorry, but I have had my heart broken by some dude I thought was "The One" but I was delusional and it took MONTHS for me to figure that out!Muggwuffin
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she just seemed perfect really, brought me out my shell, we really opened up well too eachother and always had so much fun, not too mention beautiful..but hey your right, theres billions of people in this world and theres gona be other people i click every bit as well with once the times right just a huge shame
best too focus on other things i guess
just a huge shame best too focus on other things i guess
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thanks for the support trus i guess im at that stage where i feel shes the only one but i know it will pass one day, what im hoping is that with each pound droped il heal a little bit more, and then hopefully by the time i hit my goal of 175 (im around 220 atm) then things will be different
i guess im at that stage where i feel shes the only one but i know it will pass one day, what im hoping is that with each pound droped il heal a little bit more, and then hopefully by the time i hit my goal of 175 (im around 220 atm) then things will be differentCurvie Girlie
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hopefully by the time i hit my goal of 175 (im around 220 atm) then things will be different
I disagree. It is the JOURNEY, not the destination, like Steve's thread's name--you can't count on a number to make you happy. You will have to, ugh! Live and Learn. But have fun on the way! Do things to make you happpy and make exercise your hobby like me and T 
I'm so sorry that you self-sabotaged your relationship, Muggs. I've done that MANY times ... but I think my reasons were twofold: (1) because in some way (maybe subconsciously) I felt they really weren't the right person for me; and (2) sometimes I'm just plain stupid
The bottom line is everybody wants to find their REAL TRUE LOVE IN LOVE. But I'd rather find my REAL TRUE LOVE IN LIKE ...
There are huge differences, but sometimes the REAL TRUE LOVE IN LIKE is much better than the REAL TRUE LOVE IN LOVE because that one is too intense ... and often not as comfortable. And I don't think that love should hurt ... and if it does, it should be the right kind of hurt, not the bad kind (if you know what I mean).
And then there is the issue of whether or not you REALLY love yourself ... because you won't accept anybody else's love until you love yourself. Please start loving yourself, regardless as to whether you are 250 pounds or 175 pounds.
I'm rambling and I probably haven't made any sense at all. What do I know about love anyway? I'm still trying to figure it all out myself
Hugs and kisses to you, Muggs!
The bottom line is everybody wants to find their REAL TRUE LOVE IN LOVE. But I'd rather find my REAL TRUE LOVE IN LIKE ...
There are huge differences, but sometimes the REAL TRUE LOVE IN LIKE is much better than the REAL TRUE LOVE IN LOVE because that one is too intense ... and often not as comfortable. And I don't think that love should hurt ... and if it does, it should be the right kind of hurt, not the bad kind (if you know what I mean).
And then there is the issue of whether or not you REALLY love yourself ... because you won't accept anybody else's love until you love yourself. Please start loving yourself, regardless as to whether you are 250 pounds or 175 pounds.
I'm rambling and I probably haven't made any sense at all. What do I know about love anyway? I'm still trying to figure it all out myself
Hugs and kisses to you, Muggs!
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you made perfect sense to me and I agree 100% and think you are a brilliant genius to boot!Muggwuffin
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i can see where your coming from bunny you do have a good point there too, its the whole lifestyle change rather than run too a goal weight, but the goal is naturaly still a nice target too hit but you raise a great point, i acctualy went from 245lbs down too 170 in the past, now gained 50 back! and that must be down too not changing my lifestyle just focusing on dieting:S i guess the posative thing is i know im cappable of doing it, although this time will be differemt, i starved myself then, this time will be healthy, but hopefully when i reach my goal i will look completly different at 170 this time round than last time
what the hell il dig this out, yes i was skinny..but NOT the look i am after lol, matchstick arms and quite frankly looking ill:S oh i blotted my face out for another site cant remove that..but i looked ill
i cant wait too start working out again tommorow! after alot of uming and argging about what program too follow iv decided too go with body for lifes "upper/lower" split on mon weds and friday altho i will be following my own rep ranges and eating plan.
deadlifts kick ass
you do have a good point there too, its the whole lifestyle change rather than run too a goal weight, but the goal is naturaly still a nice target too hit but you raise a great point, i acctualy went from 245lbs down too 170 in the past, now gained 50 back! and that must be down too not changing my lifestyle just focusing on dieting:S i guess the posative thing is i know im cappable of doing it, although this time will be differemt, i starved myself then, this time will be healthy, but hopefully when i reach my goal i will look completly different at 170 this time round than last timewhat the hell il dig this out, yes i was skinny..but NOT the look i am after lol, matchstick arms and quite frankly looking ill:S oh i blotted my face out for another site cant remove that..but i looked ill
i cant wait too start working out again tommorow! after alot of uming and argging about what program too follow iv decided too go with body for lifes "upper/lower" split on mon weds and friday altho i will be following my own rep ranges and eating plan.
deadlifts kick ass
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awww thank you for ur support and kind words i love muscle, thats very kind of you.
im a little unsure what you mean by love in love and love in like? but a lot of what you said makes perfect scence too me, i think before i can be a good patner in a relationship i need too accept who i am and see my own worth, its not just body related issues but how i look in general tbh, but im more fortunate than many others on this earth..sometimes i feel rather selfish for being how i am! its all image related, appart from that i think im a good person, so i think if i can find a balance of working on my image, but accepting who i am, then things will be much better
thank you muscle, bunny and trus for ur advice and support
im a little unsure what you mean by love in love and love in like? but a lot of what you said makes perfect scence too me, i think before i can be a good patner in a relationship i need too accept who i am and see my own worth, its not just body related issues but how i look in general tbh, but im more fortunate than many others on this earth..sometimes i feel rather selfish for being how i am! its all image related, appart from that i think im a good person, so i think if i can find a balance of working on my image, but accepting who i am, then things will be much better
thank you muscle, bunny and trus for ur advice and support
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Now thats something i can whole heartedly agree with
they sure do hehe
i dont know what it about them, mabey the big numbers of weight lifted is an ego boost, i mean theres no other excersize i can stick on 120kg and pull out 5 or 6 reps and it feels good! but for some reason..every time i have deadlifts in a workout i get by far the best buzz out of the workout afterwardsMuggwuffin
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muscle growth in the past, nothing spectacular but notable, added motivation
i look completely different now too both pictures though lol:S
i look completely different now too both pictures though lol:S
Funny, I think you're a brilliant genius, too!
muscle growth in the past, nothing spectacular but notable, added motivation
i look completely different now too both pictures though lol:S
There was a HUGE difference between those two pics ... the second pic was VERY nice
Men can develop really nice musculature far easier (and quicker) than chicks can, so you've got a head start just because you've got way more testosterone coursing through your veins
If you put your mind to this, you can attain your goal, Muggs!!!!
And I also agree with you and Tru about DLs. They are the bomb. Unfortunately, I can't do them anymore ... at least not with any reasonable amount of weight.
awww thank you for ur support and kind words i love muscle, thats very kind of you.
im a little unsure what you mean by love in love and love in like? but a lot of what you said makes perfect scence too me, i think before i can be a good patner in a relationship i need too accept who i am and see my own worth, its not just body related issues but how i look in general tbh, but im more fortunate than many others on this earth..sometimes i feel rather selfish for being how i am! its all image related, appart from that i think im a good person, so i think if i can find a balance of working on my image, but accepting who i am, then things will be much better
thank you muscle, bunny and trus for ur advice and support
Having a true love IN LOVE is often harder on our hearts than having a true love IN LIKE. I don't mean to say that love is wrong. It's just that love has many levels/dimensions. You can easily love more than one person at one time, because I love all my friends, my family, and two men intimately.
It's just that I'd rather love somebody because I like them, too. Just loving for the sake of loving isn't enough for me.
Does that make any sense? I'm not sure I even know what I'm talking about
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There was a HUGE difference between those two pics ... the second pic was VERY nice
I AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It was the same for me: for the ex boyfriend I was obessively madly in love with him even though I gave and gave in the relationship and he gave bare minimum and didn't treat me very well. I LIVED to kiss him and hug him, yet when he opened his mouth I usually was rolling my eyes or getting angry--and he could make me cry real easy. I loved him with a FERVOR but didn't like him hardly at all. My current boyfriend is THE BOMB and treats me like solid gold, and I LIKE him wayyyyyyy more--no arguments and he doesn't incite strong emotional reactions in me. But I'm not head over heels for him. I think it's better--way less drama and heartache. I think this is similar to what Maureen is saying.
Yeah ... it's when the other person makes you cry too much.
Not just because I'm sensitive, because sometimes when I cry, it's because I really do love the guy, not because the guy has actually hurt me.
It's when the things they do just keep hurting you ... and it leaves me wondering "Was that really love? WTF was that? Love shouldn't feel like that, should it?
Not just because I'm sensitive, because sometimes when I cry, it's because I really do love the guy, not because the guy has actually hurt me.
It's when the things they do just keep hurting you ... and it leaves me wondering "Was that really love? WTF was that? Love shouldn't feel like that, should it?