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PerfectDisaster

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I've dealt with a lot of heartache in my life. And I've always been strong enough to not let it motivate me to change whom I am.

However ever since I was absolutely tormented in high school for my appearance, ect...deep down I've hated myself.

This past year I became somewhat of an eceleb.

And I guess that's what's driven me to making this post today.

Recently a few blogs were written about me, full of hatred. To make matters worse, people commented those blogs...insulting me. Over 700 comments in total have been made saying that I am ugly...and fat.

I won't post my username, last name, or any further details about tht. Considering if people google me I don't want this forum to come up & let them see how badly they've destroyed my self esteem.

I've tried my best to laugh all the insults off. But I know I need a BIG change in my life. I'm no longer happy. And it's going to start with losing the excess weight..


I'm 17, almost 18. A female. I'm 5'6''...and 200 pounds.

Over the next few months I plan on coming to this forum for inspiration, motivation, tips, & to post updates.


I feel absolutely ugly, but I'll post some pictures of me anyways. Just so you know what I look like. (Unforunately I have no full body pics.)


Thanks for your time!

Xoxox,
Lorelai.
 
Hi, don't worry about some stupid people. You are beautiful, really. And never lose weight for somebody. Do it for yourself, to be healthier and happier :)
 
People really suck!!!

I think you're very beautiful, even though it doesn't really matter because you don't think you're beautiful. I really hope you don't let those idiots get you down (I know it's hard) but you're so much better than that.
 
Yeah, I've had to deal with comments such as those online about my weight. Not on that level, I can't imagine 700 comments insulting me. That's really sad. I think you're beautiful.
 
I think you are a really pretty girl. Dont let them make you feel so bad, some people just havent got a life!.I bet not 1 of them are as beautiful as you, jealousy comes to mind x
 
Well, I think you're beautiful person. Inside, and out. I know what it's like to get bullied by others, but don't let it get to you. You're so much better off not listening to those kinds of people--they're so bored with their lives that they have to pick on you. I'm sorry that they felt the need to target you, my dear. You're stunning!
 
=) you're very pretty! ... dont give crap about those people! I think a few of use, including me, understand how you feel. Used to be bullied a lot too but then decided to give them the finger and live my life.
Most importantly, live your life for yourself!! Those people are probably miserable themselves and need take it out on someone. Prove them wrong, prove them you're stronger and better =) go girl!
 
Last night I was at a concert. (Shinedown and Puddle of Mudd.) The lead singer of shinedown really encouraged me, he asked the crowd what the most beautiful thing on this planet was, mumbled crowd answers varied. Then he tells the crowd, "the most beautiful thing on earth is the women in this room, on the street, and everywhere you look" I almost started to cry, and this random dude next to me, says, "He's telling the truth, and I have to say you're quite beautiful." He was actually standing there, in the crowd, next to me, looking at all 250 lbs of me, and called me beautiful. It was what I needed to hear. I have this new drive about me now.

I think you are one beautiful young lady. Don't ever measure your worth by the number on the scale, but if it bothers you, make the change, don't make it for anyone else.
 
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. High school can be a cruel place. I know it's hard to believe, but life gets so much better when you finish high school. Although there was never blogs when I was in high school, I was bullied a lot as well. One time, some guys in my class posted a poster on the school bulletin board, basically calling me fat and ugly. Most of those guys either didn't finish high school, or are still in the same town, working as a gas station. I'm now happily married and successful. Things will turn around! Just stay strong, focus on school so you can get good grades, and work towards your dreams.

And btw, you are very pretty! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
 
oh hun..

I thought it was me writing that post. really! all the laughs, the bullying.. it doesn't matter how strong you are it can get to you at some point.
I've always been chubby growing up and in a small town- you expect small minds.
I had a very, VERY tough high school.
they constantly told me I was fat and I was around 15- 20 lbs over. they made me cry every day and my image was slowly distorted: it didn't matter that I wasn't really fat just a bit overweight, they made me feel obese..

you know what the good part is?
eventually, high school is over. people mature, slowly- but they do. and you learn that the only reason they judge and make fun of you is because of how insecure they really are.

stay strong, you are gorgeous! you truly are, your face is beautiful. there is no weight in the world that could take that away from you- that and your inner beauty.

xoxo!
 
This coming from a guy... As far as I can see you have a very beautiful face and I am sure you look fine. I honestly don't see whats wrong with people these days. The issue is guys expect all girls to look like super models and even if they are beautiful if they aren't Anorexic they say they are fat. Don't let the insults of a bunch of random people get you down.
 
PerfectDisaster said:
I've dealt with a lot of heartache in my life. And I've always been strong enough to not let it motivate me to change whom I am.

However ever since I was absolutely tormented in high school for my appearance, ect...deep down I've hated myself.

This past year I became somewhat of an eceleb.

And I guess that's what's driven me to making this post today.

Recently a few blogs were written about me, full of hatred. To make matters worse, people commented those blogs...insulting me. Over 700 comments in total have been made saying that I am ugly...and fat.

I won't post my username, last name, or any further details about tht. Considering if people google me I don't want this forum to come up & let them see how badly they've destroyed my self esteem.

I've tried my best to laugh all the insults off. But I know I need a BIG change in my life. I'm no longer happy. And it's going to start with losing the excess weight..


I'm 17, almost 18. A female. I'm 5'6''...and 200 pounds.

Over the next few months I plan on coming to this forum for inspiration, motivation, tips, & to post updates.


I feel absolutely ugly, but I'll post some pictures of me anyways. Just so you know what I look like. (Unforunately I have no full body pics.)


Thanks for your time!

Xoxox,
Lorelai.
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I haven't read anyone else comment's yet...sorry in advance if I am repeating...

I had the same problems throughout "growing up"

I know this is real difficult to keep in mind but "those ppl" are only full of hate, and since they have no place in your personal life, (even if some did, they prob wouldn't be there for very long) there judgement shouldn't mean anything to you. I know it is painful, but really whom are they????

Do they know you personally? Probably Not
Do they even have proof of facts? Nope (even if one had a tv show about them day by day hour by hour, that still doesn't add up to ALL the FACTS. & Personal Feelings.

They don't have healthy lives so their time is spent online where they're not doing much about anything. They're Jealous, They're Ill, They're weak, <<<My dad tells me to: ***CONSIDER THE SOURCE***

If you're going to go on such sites, maybe you could try to take into consideration, that when people gather to bring down someone they're gonna be harsh. If you only want to take it as "positive criticism"(personally I don't believe in this) than by all means, carry on. Something tells me, going to others for emotional support ( I understand that was not what you were doing there) when they just don't know you, may be a let down.

How did you find out about these sites? Just personal browsing of the web? Or maybe by friends?...cuz if they were my friends and they knew me well enough to know that I am sensitive to such things, and they'd looked at the site and read alot of the posts.....maybe not the best of friends.....(I also apologize in advance for my assumptions)

Besides that point I think it is really exciting for you!!! How about making an official site of yourself which only allows positive feedback, maybe it is something you've already looked into. This may not make much of a difference for haters, but if you wanted to look yourself up online, and see fans, ones whom are excited for your success and look up to you...than maybe. :party:


Good for you for wanting and stepping up to make a change!! That is difficult in itself!

I work on daily self-affirmations. Instead of calling myself ugly and a stupid blonde, I give myself, I am great, I am a valuable and important person, worthy of the respect of others. It sounds real funny sometimes, but sooner than later our "psychy's" DO catch on.

and YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL person from the inside out. Don't you forget it Missy!

(there my tangent)
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sorry bout that it doubled it, and won't delete it either...
 
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whoa... ur really very pretty. im guessing a lot of people have crazy issues if they called YOU ugly!!
you've GOT to show them, girl!! you'll do great... stick with your weight loss plan and keep coming here for support. we've all got our fingers crossed for you :D
 
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