Hmmm, I found some of those "Plus Sized Models" in the video more attractive than the slim ones, lol. Now, I did not become sexually active until about 2 years ago. Out of the 5 women I have slept with, only 1 would be considered "slim" and that was a one night stand. I had convinced myself for a while that their great personalities and large breasts would be plenty for me, and that I liked it. For the most part, I did. Here are the problems that I found:
They didn't always take care of themselves or their living areas.
-such as dirty messy rooms, kitchens, clothes, etc.
They were unhealthy.
-Could not keep up with me in many physical activities, including sex...
-Ate lots of junk food, and ate at night a lot.
They had low self esteem.
-Always worried that I would leave them. Took things the wrong way a lot. Got bent out of shape if I said the wrong thing.
They got sick a lot.
-This one bothered the MOST out of all. I'm not insensitive, but when you are sick or something wrong with you more than 20 days out of the month...something is wrong. I have an awesome immune system, and it just boggles my mind how often they got sick.
IF they DID attempt a diet it put them in a horrible mood. If they attempted exercise, they wouldn't do it with me because they said they couldn't keep up, even though I assured them I would take it slow. I found this to be an excuse not to exercise more than anything.
I gained over twenty pounds in one of my relationships because of her bad habits. (Not all her fault, I know). I became lethargic, eating unhealthy food, and somewhat depressed. I am still recovering from that, and losing the weight I gained...
So that is my experience with not slim/healthy women. Honestly I do find large legs and "some" bodyfat attractive in some odd way. But not when it affects everyday life, slows me down, tempts me toward bad habits and bad eating, and will bring health risks later in life.
So now you have a first-hand opinion from someone who did (and still does in some ways) like larger women. I have determined that I will not date anymore until my body is that I want it to be, then we will see how that changes my perspective.
LaterZ,
Daniel.