Do men find fat women attractive?

[ChefChiTown]

We all know fat women, and we love them dearly. We also wish they were thin.

"We?" I don't think so.

Here, I'll give everybody a physically visible example of what I am talking about when I say that everybody is different. What I find to be attractive, especially in the sense of body type, is not necessarily what you or anybody else finds to be attractive. For instance, and I hate to beat a dead horse here, but I think Kelly Clarkson is the most gorgeous woman on the planet. That alone should prove my point, as not everybody thinks that she is all that attractive, but I'll go one step further with it.

This is Kelly Clarkson when she is skinny and healthy looking...



This is Kelly Clarkson when she is a bit heavier and slightly "overweight"...



I think she looks better in the second picture, where she is heavier. You may not think so, but I do. I think she is much more attractive when she has a little bit of weight on her, as opposed to when she is skinnier. It is the same exact girl in both pictures and, in both pictures, she has a different body. I prefer her heavier side over her skinnier side, even though it is the same exact girl in both pictures. Same voice, same eyes, same laugh, same smile, same sense of humor, same mind, same personality. So, none of that would even add into the equation here. Yet, I find her heavier picture to be much more attractive.

"We" don't wish they were skinnier. You might and others might, but "we" don't.

 

[Harold14370]

I think she looks better in the second picture, where she is heavier.

You've got me there, Chef. I'm speechless.

 

[Meshel]

I don't like thin, I like toned and well built.
Solid, not twiggy for a dude.
For a female slender yet, Muscular and toned.
Healthy I guess. Every one has a different body type we cant all fit in the box.
But what we can do is make our own personal type Fit.

 

[ocd]

I think the better question for anyone concerning potential relationships and appearance is what do you think of your appearance?

It doesn't matter at all what other people think of you if you have self image issues keeping you in a shell. You are likely not going to get out there and meet someone, and even if you do your issues with yourself most likely won't be good for a relationship.

In my opinion the place to start is being happy and secure with what you are. For some that may mean being slim, for some that may mean still being considered overweight but a weight they are comfortable with.

I recently read fatlazyguy's before and after thread, the guy who lost 280 pounds. He is happy secure and outgoing at 220 pounds, technically "overweight" by bmi standards. You sure wouldn't know it by looking at his photos or video, the guy is brimming with confidence and you can tell he feels great, and it makes him look even better because of it.

You may be happy at 300 pounds, the difference is when you are happy, you carry yourself differently, you don't think about it, and you don't have that air of "get the hell away from me" about you that someone who is miserable about themselves or their appearance has. I can speak from experience there because I had a don't care if I live or die, stay away from me and don't look at me attitude for many years.

 

[WeightLossGirl]

I don't care what men said, it is about how I. I'm overweight and my husband saids I'm sexi, but I will feel more if I lose some weight.

 

[dudeshane01]

Wow, and this discussion was started in a post where no guys are allowed.
Men like fat women, as their good friends only.
We can't imagine ourselves in various positions of the intimate time with a fat girl or women.
So in case you have a ass fatter than it should be, better go ahead and get some good exercise.

 

[ChefChiTown]

Wow, and this discussion was started in a post where no guys are allowed.
Men like fat women, as their good friends only.
We can't imagine ourselves in various positions of the intimate time with a fat girl or women.
So in case you have a ass fatter than it should be, better go ahead and get some good exercise.

See ladies? Do you see comments like this? This is exactly the kind of bullshit that you shouldn't believe.

I mean, surely, you can't be fucking serious. And, if you are, I hope you're single, because whoever the unlucky lady is that's with you right now is in for a world full of shit if she stays with you.

It's comments like this that come from shallow idiots like yourself that give good guys like me a bad name and makes beautiful women - truly beautiful women - feel bad about themselves. And, none of those truly beautiful women can "imagine themselves in various positions of the intimate time with a" shallow minded piece of garbage like yourself.

Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.

 

[WeightLossGirl]

In some cultures like African and Caribbean men likes fat woman.

I believe the most important thing is the personality and if there are men that only like skinny is because they are superficial.

 

[muzic_lover]

See ladies? Do you see comments like this? This is exactly the kind of bullshit that you shouldn't believe.

I mean, surely, you can't be fucking serious. And, if you are, I hope you're single, because whoever the unlucky lady is that's with you right now is in for a world full of shit if she stays with you.

It's comments like this that come from shallow idiots like yourself that give good guys like me a bad name and makes beautiful women - truly beautiful women - feel bad about themselves. And, none of those truly beautiful women can "imagine themselves in various positions of the intimate time with a" shallow minded piece of garbage like yourself.

Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.

HA HA Wow ur awesome !!!!!

I really dont understand guys like this ... i mean yes I have body image issues even tho Im now married I still dont like to be naked in full lighting with my hubby .. BUT at one point in my life i was over 60 lbs heavier than I am now and by no means did I ever have a problem finding a guy to date ... some guys like skinny women .. some guys like chubby women and some guys actually like OBESE woman .. they are called FA's (Fat Admirers). There can never be a poll of what men in general like about a women ... its going to be different for each male .... just like woman find different types of men attractive ... to each his or her own

 

[ocd]

HA HA Wow ur awesome !!!!!

I really dont understand guys like this ... i mean yes I have body image issues even tho Im now married I still dont like to be naked in full lighting with my hubby .. BUT at one point in my life i was over 60 lbs heavier than I am now and by no means did I ever have a problem finding a guy to date ... some guys like skinny women .. some guys like chubby women and some guys actually like OBESE woman .. they are called FA's (Fat Admirers). There can never be a poll of what men in general like about a women ... its going to be different for each male .... just like woman find different types of men attractive ... to each his or her own

In my observation anyone male or female with self image issues is going to put a partner through misery. If you have serious issues with what you are you don't have much to offer someone else.

This is just speaking from personal experience with my own self image issues.

I know some large couples that are happy as can be. As well as mixed couples in terms of weight that at least *seem* as happy as can be.

To actually answer the question though, I would have to say I find the soft bodied slightly more filled out look the most attractive. I would find toned women like that one on the biggest loser far less attractive.

 

[dudeshane01]

See ladies? Do you see comments like this? This is exactly the kind of bullshit that you shouldn't believe.

I mean, surely, you can't be fucking serious. And, if you are, I hope you're single, because whoever the unlucky lady is that's with you right now is in for a world full of shit if she stays with you.

It's comments like this that come from shallow idiots like yourself that give good guys like me a bad name and makes beautiful women - truly beautiful women - feel bad about themselves. And, none of those truly beautiful women can "imagine themselves in various positions of the intimate time with a" shallow minded piece of garbage like yourself.

Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.

Oh , You are such a loser.
And i don't think so that you are a man.
If you are not good looking enough and don't earn enough, you are bound to like fat asses who nobody takes.

 

[Jericho]

Enough with personal attacks. I take great offense at that last sentence.

My fiancee is overweight...she is also one of the biggest hearted people I ever met. She is extremely intelligent, loving, caring, brave, self reliant, and easily the greatest person I ever met in my life. I've been around the world and met a great many people. To suggest that if you are unattractive (I not exactly unattractive) or wealthy enough (I've made PLENTY of money in my job..and had just as many relationships where the one I was with was more interested in that than me), all you will be able to get is..lord I don't even want to repeat what you just said..is a slanted and bigoted statement to your own view point of life. If that is what you think, fine but don't bring your holier than thou attitude to people here who might have self-esteem problems already.


We are suppose to support each other. Attacking other people (all sides) is out of line.

 

[KaraCooks]

dudeshane01 has been banned for hate speech and personal attacks.

Please carry on with your regularly scheduled thread.

 

[ChefChiTown]

Oh , You are such a loser.
And i don't think so that you are a man.
If you are not good looking enough and don't earn enough, you are bound to like fat asses who nobody takes.

You're right. I am a loser. You're better than me. I don't have what women want, but you do.

I mean, women looooove guys who capitalize words that aren't supposed to be. They think it's sexy when the guy they're with can't complete a coherent thought. They take comfort in knowing that their lover finds them to be fat and repulsive. And there's nothing like the lack of proper sentence structure to get a woman hot.

SIGH, you're lucky. You're really, really lu...

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...hmm? What's that? You're kidding, right? HA...no way, that's hilarious. You mean...HAHAHA...you mean they DON'T like that stuff? Women actually prefer a smart guy with a loving and romantic heart instead of shallow beatniks with a 4th grade education?

Hmm, and I thought I was the loser.

My fiancee is overweight

Don't say that. It's Olympic time, so do as Cartman says and say that she has a "sweet hockey body".

 

[anggun51]

Hi,

Lizabell got the point. The most important thing to do now is get yourself work out, be healthy and be the person you want to be. Persnikitty said is true, if you want you to lose weight, don't do for others, do it for yourself. Fat, skinny, slim is to the eye of the beholder.

 

[Xenon1]

I think the OP is bogus >_<

 

[Beatlesboy]

Different horses for different courses. In the past a heavy woman was ideal because it meant she was wealthy and could afford food. In today's society I think a healthy weight is viewed as attractive over overweight or underweight people.

Men are shallow in the looks relm. Men are judged by how hot their parter is by other men. This is a fact. Looks aren't everything by any means. Just as women want a man with a big bank account, men want a healthy weight attractive woman.

 

[Xenon1]

I don't think all men are attracted to the same thing What is considered beautiful/attractive/sexy varies from person to person and region to region. In some parts of world...like some places in the Sahara, slim women actually follow a diet to become obese before they get married...whereas in the States it may be the opposite.

So even if you generalise, you must consider the region that the generalisation is for. Every man in the entire world does not have the same preference. Some men don't even like women!

 

[ChefChiTown]

Men wouldn't find really fat fat women attractive. They'd prefer curvaceous women over their skinny counterparts - it's a fact. Basically men are attracted to the hourglass figure.

SIGH...not this shit again.

 

[Xenon1]

lolz
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