Diary of a former 100 pound loser and maintainer

A. Habersham

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I am beginning this blog without a destination. To be honest, my weight loss has always been extremely personal to me and I have shared very little information about this effort. I love to talk and share stories so I'm working on a way to share mine. I think this diary/blog forum is exactly where I would like to start with that.

A little background about me: I’m like everyone else that is trying to lose weight. I have big successes and much larger failures. I have tried almost every diet and nearly every sort of eating schedule to boost these efforts. Most of them work but only for a short amount of time. I lose interest in diets and routines and I fall victim to bad weeks, weekends, and months like everyone else. I’m also not like everyone else: I have previously lost over 100 pounds and I have been lucky enough to keep it all off. It took slightly over a year and it was the most rewarding and frustrating thing I have ever accomplished in my life. However, I began at such a heavy weight that I have plenty of work left to complete. I estimate that for my height, bone structure, and lifestyle that 190 pounds is about where I want to be in order to live a healthy lifestyle with all of my favorite rewards (craft beer, Italian sandwiches). That means I have 36.5 more pounds to lose. I have been wanting to lose this 36.5 for three years now and it will be a huge physical and emotional challenge to get back into the swing of things.

I’m also at a disadvantage (maybe). We know now that in the dieting world that big losers like myself may be susceptible to a stunted metabolism. Or in other words, at 226.5 pounds, it’s possible that I have to eat less calories than someone else at the same weight to maintain solely because I’ve lost an enormous amount of weight previously. However, by maintaining my 100 pound weight loss for three years I believe that I may have avoided this issue for now. I do fear that added focus on weight loss and getting back into a weight loss routine might trigger a slower metabolism but that is something I’m willing to risk.

Onward – I don’t have an exact plan to tackle the next 36.5 pounds. Specifically, I don’t know just yet what food items I’m planning to eat and avoid. However, I do have a set of rules that work particularly well for me that I am going to implement for the next several weeks as a baseline regardless of whatever diet I eventually plan on sticking with. This is not a proven diet or routine. It just happens to have guided me through a 100 pound weight loss.

1. Absolutely no food after 8PM
Notes: I’m regularly in bed around 11PM so this is an easy rule for me to install. If I’m going to a concert and know I’ll be awake until 1AM, I would simply just subtract 3 hours from my anticipated bed time to draw my line in the sand.

2. Avoid high carb meals after lunch.
Notes: I’m not a nutrition nut. However, I do believe that carbs give me energy and I’m pretty sure that I need less of that after work when I’m sitting on the couch reading. Also, I still eat carbs after lunch. But maybe not spaghetti, sandwiches, or those sort of things. Essentially, soups, omelets, and salads are my ideal afternoon and night meals.

3. NO DARK BEERS. EVER.
Notes: Craft beer fans will slaughter this point until the cows come home. Generally speaking, the color of the beer correlates with the amount of calories. However, this is not always the case. I can pick out 50 IPAs with way more calories than my favorite brown ales or black lagers (ABV = calories, too). This rule works for my beer interests, however. I’ll essentially just be switching to lighter beers on occasions I wish to partake. I don't drink wine, liquors, or other spirits.

4. Coffee, tea, and water.
Notes: This means no sodas, diet sodas, sugary sports drinks, juices, and all that stuff. This isn’t really something I focus on as I have not regularly consumed any of these things since I was in high school.

5. Eat when I’m hungry
Notes: This also means that I will abstain from eating when I’m NOT hungry. This also means that breakfast, in my world, is completely optional and only happens in the rare event when I feel hungry in the hour it takes me to wake up and leave home each morning. I know some people still think breakfast is important and that it jumpstarts the metabolism but all I’ve noticed is that it adds extra calories to my day that I don’t usually need to make it to lunch (I eat early lunches. More on that down the road).

So that is where I’ll begin. It’s a small step toward a huge goal but I think that it is important to get a routine going that I can follow before I implement structured foods and exercise to achieve weight loss. I generally expect these rules to get me down slightly under 220 in the next two weeks. My biggest challenge will be incorporating fruits and exercise into my diet.

I also understand the nature of this being a public forum. I'm looking forward to sharing success stories, strategies, and failures with everyone here. Happy dieting.
-Habersham
 
Hello lovely *wave wave wave*. Welcome to our lovely forum - we are a supportive, happy bunch of miscreants so welcome to the clan :) I'm Hana - are you planning on posting your calories/food/exercise each day or just using it as a space to ponder/chat/ramble? xx
 
Ponder/chat/ramble is probably more what I'll focus on but I'll be including calories, foods, exercise routines for those that are interested in those metrics!

I'm not necessarily calorie minded but logging food in the past has helped me uncover poor habits and vulnerable routines.

Thanks for the warm welcome!
 
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That's cool - I'm all about the ponder/chat/ramble. I just made a new account as I've been on here for like 6 years, lost 40lbs and then put it all back on again and then forgot my password...I've been all sorts of fail. But feeling back in control and ready to go now :) Glad to have you with us! I find the logging food helpful too - does help you figure out weak spots.
 
Welcome to the forum! Like Hana says, you will find lots of helpful and supportive people on here. If you have lost a 100 pounds then you know what works for you. Remember though the lighter you get the harder it will be too lose. I lost 145 pounds and I think it took me the same amount of time to the last 10 pounds as it did the first 135-haha.

What kind of exercise incorporating into your routine?

I am glad you are here.
 
I figure the next phase will be tougher than the 100 I already dropped.

Exercise- I cycle once or twice a week between 1-2 hours (more for fun than exercise- it's just a good way to get around) and I walk 4x week for 30 minutes- 1 hour depending on how much time I've got at lunch. I'm fairly athletic but I hate running. My wife runs and I've promised to start joining her. Denver is nice and flat and a great place for running and cycling so I have few excuses. I've set November 1st as my start date for running and cycling more often. My initial goal will be to do either for a total of 4x/week for at least 30 minutes. After several weeks I plan on making an exact goal in terms of times and distance. I'm definitely interested in a running plan if anyone has used one successfully before.
 
Hi Haversham & welcome to the forum. I'm more into the ponder/chat/ramble myself. I think your diary is a great place to "think out "loud". It has helped me a lot over the 7 years I have been posting. I initially lost 36kg, back in 2007, but have regained 6kg, over the last few years. I stayed in here to help keep me focused. I think it is great that you have kept off that 100lbs & that should have stabilised your metabolism. There are quite a few runners in here. I'm a walker & a golfer for my exercise. Welcome to our friendly & supportive part of the world. Cheers, Cate.
 
Day 2 went well.

No breakfast. Modest hummus and turkey sandwich for lunch. Thai chicken on cauliflower and squash for dinner. No snacks.

Today was easier merely because I was busy all day. Nonstop work from 8am - 6pm.

For exercise, I managed 2 miles walking while eating my lunch. Overall, productive but super odd day. Tomorrow I have a lot of free time so there will be more work to do.

Still looking for a 5k/10k running plan if anyone has one they've used successfully.
 
Hi Haversham,

I am a runner. I have done several 1/2 marathons, 10 milers, 10K and 5 Ks. I just started running driveway to driveway ( I live in the country). What I would do would be run to the first driveway then walk to catch my breath to the next driveway etc. I would work up to running two driveways and then three then 1K and so on. There are lots of 5K and 10K plans. I know some people that have success with Couch25K. I think it is a free app you can download. As I got up in distance and training for my 1/2 marathons I joined the Running Room. I am not sure if you have those down there? I think you may Team in Training running groups down there? I would suggest if you are looking at even a 10k you join a running group of some kind. They can provide a lot of support and knowledge and I don't think it is too expensive. Nice to see another runner on here.
 
Well, this weekend was forgetable. The only positive was playing soccer for an hour and a half.

Starting the week, I was 226.5. Friday I was 223.4 But Monday morning I landed at 225.4.

Anyone have tips on how to survive the weekend without gaining everything you lost? Haha. The simple answer is more self control but that's not so simple
 
The weekend is tough for me as well. The only thing I´ve come up with so far is planning. Planning relaxation, planning treats, planning distraction. The only problem with that is that I don´t like to plan too much during the weekend.
 
Back down to 223.4. Last weekend was smooth and I was in better control. Kept calories low and avoided alcohol.

3 runs, 8, 4, and 4 miles.

This week has been average but I have a busy late week agenda that looks favorable for weight loss
 
Back down to 223.4. Last weekend was smooth and I was in better control. Kept calories low and avoided alcohol.

3 runs, 8, 4, and 4 miles.

This week has been average but I have a busy late week agenda that looks favorable for weight loss

Good effort, are you doing any other exercise other than your cycling/running/walking ?
 
Great work staying active despite not having your bike. I have a tendency to use such things as excuses to not work out - even though I normally enjoy being active!
 
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