Determined to get my bikini body back...

dancing-shadow

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Ok, so I'm trying desperately to get healthier/fitter/slimmer, and I'm obviously doing something wrong as I'm not getting anywhere.

My stats currenty:
Weight: 165lbs (ish)
Height: 5'5
Measurements: 36-33-37


I started this journey a couple of years ago. I was 189lbs the first time I went on the scales during my 'heavy' stage. Having just started to reach for the size 16 (UK) clothes in shops, I was miserable, and knew I had to do something about it. I'd let my love of junk food and complete lack of excessive ruin my life. I used to be a healthy size 10-12. I never had tight abs, but then I never exercised. I'm sure now that if I had have looked after myself and worked-out more I could have toned up and would be where I want to be right now. Hindsight really is a bugger.

I started by simply cutting down on portion size. I refused to cut out any specific food, because I knew it wasn't possibly for me to stick to something like that. It took me a year, but I lost around 22-25lbs, and was no longer reaching for the size 16's. I was still in 14's though.
So I started cutting down on junk food, and trying to eat healthier. I even started doing Zumba once a week. Nothing changed. My weight and my measurements all stayed the same.

Another year has gone by and I'm still hovering around 165lbs. I've now cut out all junk food - no crisps, no pasta, no rice, no bread. I drink nothing but water (around 3-4 litres a day). I also now do a 30 mile bike ride on a weekend, Zumba twice a week, and I do sit-ups/crunches/squats first thing in a morning 5 days a week. I record everything on mapmyfitness, to try and see what I'm eating too much of (it was fat, but I'm keeping check on that now). I do allow myself a little treat occasionally, as long as it doesn't put me over my daily totals.

I now have a holiday coming up in 5 weeks - my first for 10yrs, and I'm struggling to find a nice bikini that I feel comfortable in because of my muffin-top. I'm getting desperate, and miserable. I'm sure I'm not eating enough calories any more (on average about 900-1000 a day), so my body is holding on to everything, but I don't know how to increase that without over-doing it or eating the wrong foods. I do snack through the day on fruit (which doesn't fill me up in the slightest) or on graze's healthy nut/seed/fruit punnets. I'm at a loss at what to do. I can only just afford my twice weekly Zumba class, so going to a proper gym is out of the equation, and

I keep telling myself to be patient, and it will come. But if I'm not doing this right, then it won't come, and I won't know about it until another year has passed. At least I'm still hovering around 165+/-. I'm not putting anything on. Which is good. Just wish I could lose these inches round my middle. I could do with losing around 6-8", so it's not like I don't have it to lose.

Persistence I guess. That and searching round on forums like these for advice and tips of how to tweak my current routine.

*sigh*
 
Hey welcome. your stats are very similar to mine.
I would suggest
1 - up your calories. Find your bmr and adjust accordingly
2 - not many people can cut out 'bad' foods so treat yourself maybe once a week. Might keep you on track. I have 50- 100cals worth a day at the moment.
3 - stock up on quick 'good' foods. A lot of suggestions from the girls in my diary pg5-6 i think. Really helped me.
4 - exercise at home. I can't afford to visit the gym (time and money). Am doing the 30 day shred at the moment at home and going to start couch to 5k.
5 - have fun doing it all :)

Sorry its quick but got a hungry baby to get to. See you around :waving:
 
Hi and welcome :)

Good advice above.
I recommend also having a food and exercise log, you can also log it all in this diary also.
You have done great losing what you have and the last kgs are the hardest to go.
Keep motivated and you will reach your goal
 
Hi Angel - thanks for your tips, sounds like good advice. I'll have a wander over to your diary and have a read :) I'd love to exercise at home, but I have terrible self-discipline, and usually when I get home I'm so hungry that I have to have dinner straight away (around 5.30pm), so am then too full to do anything. Though maybe upping my cals would stave off the hunger for longer so I can get something in between getting in and cooking... *ponders* Will definitely look more into this.

Hi Nostalgic, and thanks. I am very proud of getting to where I am now - I have a weight-loss graph at home that I use as motivation when I'm feeling a bit pants about it. It's nice to see how far I've come and the little line going down-down-down! I may not be where I want to be (yet!) but I'm nowhere near where I once was!!
 
It will be tough in the beginning but you can start sports when you get home then eat. You will get used to it and won't be hungry till later, plus upping your calories will help you feel fuller longer :)
 
Welcome....nice people here, they will help you. We all help each other. I think you can make nice improvements before your holiday. Just get a plan and get started. Build a bit of momentum by forcing yourself to stick to it for a week. Then a really cool thing can happen. Its a positive snowball. Its kinda like this....stick to it for a week>notice little changes>feel a bit better about yourself> want to see more>get in a bit better shape> want to exercise more> lose more> easier to keep going> build momentum>.......

Good luck and I look forward to seeing your progress
 
Ok, so just back from an hours Zumba sesh. Despite getting very hot & sweaty (which is good, right?), I felt fab doing it. Could go another hour lol. Will have to wait til Thurs though - booo!

As I log all my activity/food on mapmyfitness, I'm hoping I can do a nifty piccy rather than re-writing it all again...

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Have to say I'm a bit dubious that my Zumba only burned off 411 calories, surely that can't be right if I've been giving it beans for a full hour?! Anyways. It's better than not burning off anything, so hey-ho.
 

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I hopped on the scales this morning, and I was up by 0.6lbs to 164 (managed to get to 163.4lbs on Monday - 163lbs was my lowest ever weight back in November). Not what I wanted to see after dancing round like a loon last night.

Came on here for some inspiration, and instead all I'm seeing is people's success stories, and how every time they go on the scales they've lost, and instead of motivating me, it's just making me sad :( I'm still determined to keep going at this, but I can't help but feel really shit today. Decided to start eating carbs again (not a lot, just allowing more of them occasionally) and try and get my calorie intake up to around 1200 (it's around 900-1000 atm). Really hoping that I'm simply not eating enough, so I'm storing everything rather than losing it.

I have just over 4 weeks to lose (or at least slim down) my muffin top, and I'm getting worried it's just not going to happen and I'm going to be miserable on the beach... I wish I could find out what works for me :(
 
Ok, so just back from an hours Zumba sesh. Despite getting very hot & sweaty (which is good, right?), I felt fab doing it. Could go another hour lol. Will have to wait til Thurs though - booo!

As I log all my activity/food on mapmyfitness, I'm hoping I can do a nifty piccy rather than re-writing it all again...

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Have to say I'm a bit dubious that my Zumba only burned off 411 calories, surely that can't be right if I've been giving it beans for a full hour?! Anyways. It's better than not burning off anything, so hey-ho.

Well, sweat is water, not fat :p So it doesn't really help.
 
I hopped on the scales this morning, and I was up by 0.6lbs to 164 (managed to get to 163.4lbs on Monday - 163lbs was my lowest ever weight back in November). Not what I wanted to see after dancing round like a loon last night.

Came on here for some inspiration, and instead all I'm seeing is people's success stories, and how every time they go on the scales they've lost, and instead of motivating me, it's just making me sad :( I'm still determined to keep going at this, but I can't help but feel really shit today. Decided to start eating carbs again (not a lot, just allowing more of them occasionally) and try and get my calorie intake up to around 1200 (it's around 900-1000 atm). Really hoping that I'm simply not eating enough, so I'm storing everything rather than losing it.

I have just over 4 weeks to lose (or at least slim down) my muffin top, and I'm getting worried it's just not going to happen and I'm going to be miserable on the beach... I wish I could find out what works for me :(

Think of it that way, if people are being succesful, maybe it means you did something wrong, and if that's the case, it means you can do it too, so don't be so demotivated !
 
But if I don't know what I'm doing wrong, how am I supposed to know what to change to make it better? I've been stuck at around this weight for 8 months now, and whatever I try doesn't make any difference. It's so frustrating.
 
It may be a water retention problem, so maybe you don't drink enough water, it's really important, you may see yourself lose some lbs & feel slimmer if you start to drink enough water.
Or it may be simply that you don't have any caloric deficit in the end, so you don't lose fat.
 
I'm getting in about 2-3 litres a day. If I'm Zumba-ing or biking, I can go through an additional 1-2 litres. It's all I drink, as I cut out tea and coke a few months back.
Even after I cut out the crappy drinks and started drinking water like a fish, I still see no improvements... All I notice is having more bathroom breaks lol.

My BMR is apparently 1500. Seeing as I'm currently hitting on average 900-1000, I'd have thought I'm not actually getting enough cals, rather than having too many...
 
Your bmr is 1500 multiply that by 1.2 (no exercise) = 1800. You should aim for 1300 a day for loss of 1lb a week with no exercise. Of course best is to exercise so for 2lb loss a week burn average of 500cals a day.
From your post your protein seems low. Do you weigh your food? Or estimate? If you are estimating that can have its own issues. There is a sticky on the forum somewhere about that. I would encourage more protein in your diet and weighing your food.
 
Ah yes, thanks Angel - forgot the multiplier. I definitely need to increase my cals then for 1300.
My protein is on average about 45g p/day. Should I still try to increase that do you think? I don't weigh my food usually, as everything comes in packs already weighed out, and I just have half a pack, or a quarter etc. So unless the nutritional info is per item in the pack, I'll divide the total weight by whatever % I'm having. I live alone so whatever is left will be eaten by me at some point, so I figure if I'm a little out on the weight quantity it'll balance out when I eat what's left.

Decided to make myself a zumba vid playlist from youtube tonight, and do a minimum of 30 minutes on the nights I don't have a class.
 
Base your diet on a nutritionist's advice. Your calorie intake may not be enough and it may do you more harm than good. You should try adding healthy foods instead of subtracting foods from your diet.
 
After giving myself a good talking to, I snapped out of my misery, and vowed to simply try a bit harder. I kinda over did it on upping the calories, but I don't think it's terrible overall. Definately got my protein up - a nice grilled chicken breast and some asparagus for dinner, and some leftover grilled chicken to throw in a salad for tomorrow, so that should help tomorrows protein out too. Feeling a lot more positive now about all this. I will not quit.
My bf is also lending me his Wii as he never uses it, so I'm going to try and get some Zumba games for it. I'll enjoy that, so I hopefully won't notice spending an hour or two wiggling away! :willy_nilly:

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