There is a guy at my gym, who wants to start a new bulk program... its funny that you mentioned that. I am afraid that I'll hold him back (the guy lifts heavy) and I am so new to this all that I don't want to be a burden.
Not everyone likes to train with a partner.
For those who do though, you're rarely going to find someone of equal experience and/or strength.
I've been doing this a long time and have yet to lift with someone equal.
I'll add this too:
The best partners I've ever had were stronger and more experienced than me. Greatest opportunity to learn and be pushed.
If the guy wants a partner, I say go for it if you're up to it.
As far as dbs vs bb, I felt that I wasn't gaining anything on the bb, so I moved over to the dbs, I feel better over there and the little twist at the top helps me make it a compound move as well.
Exercises will not work the same for all people based on anthropometrics. I love benching with both BB and DB. I've met a number of people though who feel it more in their shoulders when benching with a BB and that's not good. Sometimes it's a matter of their form and muscle recruitment being off. Other times it's their bodies.
When I bench with DB, I don't twist them, but that's just me. It's compound either way you slice it.
I also know that since I am so new, I might not know when to push vs back off. It's obvious that comes with time and experience.
Definitely.
When I first started training seriously, I never backed off. It's not going to kill you if you don't get it right.
The stronger you get though, the more important it becomes since heavier weights = greater fatigue on multiple levels.
