Alta818
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Derrick, Derrick, Derrick!!! Man, buddy...I love your observations. It's the DAMN truth, I tell you! Some people just work so much harder than others yet don't reap the same rewards. Those people in my eyes, are the STRONGER of the bunch though!I remember that picture. I was like dayum, looking good!I think you are beautiful, Alta. I hope you reach your goal someday because you deserve it. You work so hard in every area of your life and you really do motivate so many of us here on WLF.
The body fat tests are great but you still have to keep things in perspective. Even if you get a disappointing measurement you have to remind yourself how far you've come. On the other hand, if you get a better than expected measurement, you don't want it to go to your head and make you feel too content, especially if you haven't reached your goal yet. We all have a right to set goals and work hard at achieving them. The process of getting there is what makes it a journey.
I have tons of respect for people who aren't blessed with superior genetics yet work their tails off to try to achieve their dream body. I think most of the time people like us work even harder than a lot of people who are naturally thin and have excellent metabolisms. I'm sure there are people who would debate me on that but in my opinion it is a fact that some people are able to stay thin and muscular much easier than a lot of us.
My wife is one of them. I don't hold it against her because she's a wonderful human being but sometimes I do get a little jealous. I had to work my ass off for 13 months to lose 58 pounds and get down to about 13% body fat. She didn't even workout 1/3 the amount I did and she was down to around 15% body fat, which is really lean for a woman. She was 5' 6" and 121 pounds right before she got pregnant last year. She was definitely rocking the bikini!I can't even imagine what she would look like if she worked out as hard as some of you girls do. It's not fair, that's for sure. But we can't let it bother us. We are all different and unique and all we can do is try to be our best. The good news is each and everyone of us can pull it off. Unfortunately some of us just have to work a little harder than others.
Also, someone told me in the gym today that you get fit in the gym and you get lean in the kitchen. There is soooo much truth to that. It's not easy but it's true.
Thanks again, Alta, for visiting my journal and supporting me through the good times and the bad times.![]()
...It amazes me how some people have to do so little and can reap the benefits of SO much...but Hey....Potato Patatttoh right?!!
Your wife is definitely one of those people! Lucky and blessed! 15% body fat?!! OMG!!! Insane!!!
..Baby?! What baby!?! hahah....You won't even be able to tell.
As for you,....Talk about HARD worker! Not only do you work hard in the Gym, you work hard in the Kitchen,..and you WORK HARD IN YOUR MIND!!!! ...The observative process is so immense on your end, which is why you literally can take yourself from any situation..and wharp yourself out!... Reflecting is WORK alone. Most people won't take the time to do it.
And about being a little jealous, I hear ya! A little is right...because when I start thinking about ALL of the things that I can do physically and mentally versus what those "lucky" ones can do, it justifies it all! I can move mountains I tell myself, if I work hard enough. Some people will never know what Hard Work means. ...that is a GIFT! I truly believe our struggles are what Shapes us! What makes us WHO we are, and what is leading us to who we need and want to be!
....And you have a GREAT point there about the body fat tests! They can surely serve positively, but complacency is something that has to be watched for...ALWAYS. To attain and to maintain. Because what's the purpose of attaining if maintaining is not something we can do right?!!
.....Super pumped about you working out at the gym right now!!! Getting that DERRICK that is up and up back!!!
Great Perspective "you get fit in the gym and you get lean in the kitchen"!
...and Derrick,...it's MY Pleasure to be your friend!!! ...my honor. Thank you for being there for me as well! ...We are on Life Journies...and it's amazing to see people grow before your eyes!!!
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I think you are beautiful, Alta. I hope you reach your goal someday because you deserve it. You work so hard in every area of your life and you really do motivate so many of us here on WLF.