... always being tired
... being embarrassed to eat much of anything in front of other people
... going into a room and hoping I wasn't the biggest person there
... secretly being happy when I found someone bigger than me, thinking it made me look better to sit beside them (very embarrassing to admit, but I thought about it....)
... not being happy about how I looked
... putting food before my health
It's not a great topic---it's a lowlife who had nothing better to do than to pop in here and decide to degrade and insult us. (which I think is more than evident with his 1 and only post)
I think this topic is highly offensive.
I had and have plenty of things that I hate about myself - but I'm working on changing those - so no need to bring it up... I have a tougher time finding things i love about myself
To answer that question I don't look at other's that way as in discust or negative I look at them as me wishing I can help in anyway.I see this 1 chcik at my local grocery store all the time I would say she weighs between 300-350 lbs and she buys alot of the same lean cuisines as I do and I almost had enough courage to interduce myself and ask her if she would like to start walking wim me?I dunno if thats out of line or not, but she's always by herself and I am sure she lives close by
its a nice offer tammy, but you might want to strike up a friendship with her first - and the person above isnt the person who called you fatass...
When I was 383 - Im not sure how i would have responded if someone half my size asked me if i wanted to walk with them - I did walk regularly - and it didn't have any effect... I'm untrusting by nature so I wouldnt know what your intentions were...
Strike up a conversation and get to know her - then move on to having her be a walking buddy...you've got a good heart, tammy
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put a sign up in the grocery store advertising for a walking buddy - you might get an entire group together...
the way they weeze and struggle to breath while doing menial tasks .