Cite one thing you hate about fat people

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the way they weeze and struggle to breath while doing menial tasks like sitting in a conference room, or standing at the urinal.
 
how about I cite one think I hate about you instead?

1. you're a loser.
2. you're a loser.
3. you're a loser.
 
he may be a loser, but he's got an interesting topic going haha... i hate nothing and no one, but i DO hate manboobs =]
 
I dont hate people because theyr fat, you cant judge people by what they look like and if you do its a fast track to being very lonely.
 
I can say what I hated about MYSELF when I was fat....
... always being tired
... being embarrassed to eat much of anything in front of other people
... going into a room and hoping I wasn't the biggest person there
... secretly being happy when I found someone bigger than me, thinking it made me look better to sit beside them (very embarrassing to admit, but I thought about it....)
... not being happy about how I looked
... putting food before my health

... and the list goes on and on.

Hating things about others who are overweight? Not at all.

Relapse, if the things you listed are things you hate about yourself because you feel you're fat, then you might want to re-word your question and answer. If you're looking to put others down, you obviously haven't been here long enough to know that's not the way this forum works and you're not going to get very far.
 
It's not a great topic---it's a lowlife who had nothing better to do than to pop in here and decide to degrade and insult us. (which I think is more than evident with his 1 and only post)

I think this topic is highly offensive.
 
I hate the fact that the Internet is a very anonymous world.

I also hate that God would not be kind enough to lock me in a room with you for 5 minutes, and let me leave without any consequences of what actions I took while the door was locked.

Your first post here and this is the question you ask? That says a lot about you. Best bet:

LEAVE.
 
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... always being tired
... being embarrassed to eat much of anything in front of other people
... going into a room and hoping I wasn't the biggest person there
... secretly being happy when I found someone bigger than me, thinking it made me look better to sit beside them (very embarrassing to admit, but I thought about it....)
... not being happy about how I looked
... putting food before my health

I agree! totally. I think the excuses to stay fat were worst part for me. I still cant stand some of the baloney that i hear from people though 'Oh i have <insert fake health problem>' or 'I have a slow metabolism'. I think the worst has to be 'I have a medical reason why im fat' though seriously.
Other than one rare disease i dont know of ANY sickness or illness that would make you fat other than overeating.

It's not a great topic---it's a lowlife who had nothing better to do than to pop in here and decide to degrade and insult us. (which I think is more than evident with his 1 and only post)

I think this topic is highly offensive.

Dont post in it if you dont like it. He was clearly shit stirring. But it is an interesting topic none the less.
Those that are new can come in here and perhaps recognize themselves in some of the words and use it to change themselves.

Those of us that have lost a fair amount of weight can remember how bad it was.
 
I've had people hate me purely because of what i look like - when i've given plenty of reason because of my personality..

hating someone for their size is wrong.

I had and have plenty of things that I hate about myself - but I'm working on changing those - so no need to bring it up... I have a tougher time finding things i love about myself
 
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this isn't necessarily a bad topic and i suppose it could be an interesting one but I really question why - I can do honestly do enough damage to myself and my already fragile self esteem - I don't need help...

It's one thing to make fun of the excuses we would use - - that's different than hating on someone b ecause they haven't moved past those excuses yet... Why hate them because they just aren't ready yet - hating them doesn't make a person any more ready it can just give them one more excuse...
 
I agree Mal, hence my above post.

Discussing things you don't like about being overweight is one thing, and I think that could be a decent thread. But to dignify this boob (word of the day) I think is idiocy in the making.
 
Ok I know freedom to post and whatnott,but I am willing to bet this is 1 of the ones that sighn up under different names and emails me calling me a "fattass"?? Sorry people but with that type of question I am certain this person has been here before :rolleyes: .

To answer that question I don't look at other's that way as in discust or negative I look at them as me wishing I can help in anyway.I see this 1 chcik at my local grocery store all the time I would say she weighs between 300-350 lbs and she buys alot of the same lean cuisines as I do and I almost had enough courage to interduce myself and ask her if she would like to start walking wim me?I dunno if thats out of line or not, but she's always by herself and I am sure she lives close by.

Tammy:D
 
To answer that question I don't look at other's that way as in discust or negative I look at them as me wishing I can help in anyway.I see this 1 chcik at my local grocery store all the time I would say she weighs between 300-350 lbs and she buys alot of the same lean cuisines as I do and I almost had enough courage to interduce myself and ask her if she would like to start walking wim me?I dunno if thats out of line or not, but she's always by herself and I am sure she lives close by

its a nice offer tammy, but you might want to strike up a friendship with her first - and the person above isnt the person who called you fatass...

When I was 383 - Im not sure how i would have responded if someone half my size asked me if i wanted to walk with them - I did walk regularly - and it didn't have any effect... I'm untrusting by nature so I wouldnt know what your intentions were...

Strike up a conversation and get to know her - then move on to having her be a walking buddy... :) you've got a good heart, tammy :)
 
its a nice offer tammy, but you might want to strike up a friendship with her first - and the person above isnt the person who called you fatass...

When I was 383 - Im not sure how i would have responded if someone half my size asked me if i wanted to walk with them - I did walk regularly - and it didn't have any effect... I'm untrusting by nature so I wouldnt know what your intentions were...

Strike up a conversation and get to know her - then move on to having her be a walking buddy... :) you've got a good heart, tammy :)

tHANK YOU mAL i AM NOT GOOD WITH STARTING CONVO BUT i WOULD LOVE TO walk with someone and I was hoping she would to she has asked in the past about how those chciken pinini's taste that I eat and she reccomended trying southbeach breakfast wraps as well.I have no one to walk on a regular basis around here once in a while I will take my daughter but if it's too cold she can't go lol I have my dog I take out everytime I walk but he doesn't make for good conversation.
I feel better that relapse isn't the name caller that was here before.Tammy:D
 
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