Can't lose weight, need help....

I decided that I need to lose some weight, I am definately overweight, actually, the heaviest I have ever been in my life..... 5"8, 210 pounds. One year ago, I weight 165 pounds. So you can see I gained a lot of weight in a year. Well, during that year, I ate whatever I wanted, as much as I wanted, drank regular soda, went to mcdonalds all the time. Never ate one healthy thing, it was always pizza and burgers with french fries.

About 1 month ago, I decided to get my act together. I cut out all regular soda, drink plenty of water every day, I cut my calorie intake in half, plus I'm eating all healthy foods, turkey, chicken, tuna. Plus, I started going to the gym. I have been doing 45 min of cardio, every single day, 7 days a week. And I haven't lost a single pound...... I actually GAINED weight. Saturday was my father's birthday, and we went out to dinner, so I figured ok, I've been very good, so I can afford to eat bad tonight. on Fri afternoon, I weighed 209.5 poulds. I weighed myself this morning, and it said I was 213.5 poulds. I don't understand it.....

I went from doing no exercise at ALL, and eating all the most horrible foods I could eat... To eating PERFECT, and doing 45 min of cardio every day, but I can't lose any weight... What am I doing wrong??????
 
There are a couple of things that come to mind:

1. You may be eating healthy foods but is it enough considering the amount of cardio you are doing? Give us a better breakdown of your diet.

2. How do you look and feel? Besides the scale - are you slimming and do you feel better?

3. Are you doing anything else besides the cardio - Lifting weights or anything?
 
Look and feel just about the same..... no noticible difference in my appearance, pants seem to fit a little bit better, but not much....

I am eating healthy, I'm not eating 6 meals a day, but that has definately never affected me in the past.

Usually what I'll have will be like this.

8:00 AM : 1 egg and 2 turkey sausage links

1-2 PM : 2 turkey hot dogs on whole wheat bread

6:00 PM : 45 min of cardio

8:00 PM : Turkey Sandwich on whole wheat, or Tuna on whole wheat
 
sounds like you're starving youself...the body refuses to burn fat when you're doing cardio because of the big calorie deficit. You're probably burning more lean muscle mass for energy than you realize.

Diet is a huge factor, especially since you sound pre-disposed to easy fat gains.
 
see, I never really had a problem with losing weight before.... I never tried to lose weight the healthy way, but I was able to shed pounds very fast.

the way that I got to the weight I was a year ago, was by not eating much, and taking stacker 2's. Again, I know it was very unhealthy for me, and I would never do it again.

I used eat once in the morning, and take a stacker, and then once at night, and take another stacker. In a matter of 6 months, I shed so much weight it was unbeleivable. Even after I stopped taking them, I kept the weight off, but I let it go to my head, and starting eating the worst foods I could probably eat, all day long, every day. Eventually, I put all the weight and more back on.

Now I'm trying to do it the healthy way, and I'm not even starving myself, I pretty much eat when I'm hungry. In between my meals, I'll have a few handfuls of nuts as a snack and so forth, but generally, I'm not hungry.

I'm just getting really upset because I can't seem to shed this weight. And I'm really trying very hard.

Even though I might not be eating 6 meals a day, it's just hard to beleive that I wouldn't lose ANY weight. I changed my whole life around, working out a LOT, from never working out at all, and cutting out all these horrible foods, I must be taking in 2000 less at least...
 
I'll just tell you from my personal experience - I have to eat alot to keep up with what I burn working out and doing cardio. The less I eat the fatter I get and look. The more I eat the better I feel and look.
 
i have a similar problem, but I am not starving myself. I never ate bad, but now I try to make a point not to have the sodas or fast food. I am 22, 5'5 130. 45 mins cardio and some light weight stuff with arms and thighs about 4 times a week. I have actually gained 3 pounds at this. When I do cardio my heart rate is up there, I just don't feel I am doing anything if my heart rate isnt 150 or above the whole time. Should I forget that and go in the accept fat burning heart rate zone? How could I alter my workouts? I still eat carbs and fruit such as oranges, and Iam not looking for big differences in my weight. But something would be nice.
 
Yes, you should lower the intensity. There is a reason it is called the at burning zone. Fat is your body's preferred source of energy. Once you go over your threshold, your body quits burning fat for fuel and starts burning the sugars in your muscles. You still benefit from this, but not in the way YOU want.



*note - the fat burning zone article is referring to a moderately fit ATHLETE. This person will have more muscle density and burn more calories under regular circumstances than the average person.
 
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If I understand correctly it says that it is best to work at a lower intensity, but if I don't have hours then it is best to burn the most calories. Which would suggest a higher intensity? And also if i am burning not from fat stores but glycemic stores in muscles wouldnt that cause weight loss as well because more calories are burned total? An hour and fifteen minutes is the absolute most I can regularly keep up. Should I mix low and high intensity days? Where does lifting weight come in? I am sorry I just don't quite understand. Thanks

Becky
 
From my own experience ( 220lbs to 155lbs in two years ) I would offer the following advice

1) Most people, me included when I first really tried to lose weight, never put enough variety in the routines. The body adapts fast. if you are doing 45 mins on the treadmil, then try one day where you do a straight single speed run, one day where you do intervals and one where you do sprints with walking inbetween. This takes you through different fat burning zones.

2) Don't forget to add to add weight sessions to your workouts ( I don't like to do them on the same day as cardio days - keep one for one day and one for another is my motto ) Lean muscles burn fat all day.

On cardio days your metabolism will shoot up, burn a lot of calories in a short period and then slow down again pretty rapidly. On weights days, your metabolism raises ( not to the same level as when you do cardio ) but stays at that level for nearly 24 hours so you burn fat all day ( even when sitting on your ass at work )

I recommend lighter weights/high rep to begin with.

3) balance it with your diet. I prefer to graze through the day rather than eat big meals. Soon after a workout, I eat oatmeal with a spoonful of peanut butter and a banana in it. That supplies complex carbs, protien and pottasium .

Then I graze on cashews and almonds before a lunch of soup and salad. Supper is when I try and keep carb free

I hope this helps. it did with me

Slapsie
 
Have you seen your doctor and told him this? I have a thyroid problem and was packing on 5 or 8 lbs each year for the last few years. Once we straightened it out I went back to my normal thin weight. I would hate for anyone else to have to go through this.
 
You don't need over an hour of cardio. 45min-1hr is more than enough. Keep in the moderate intensity range. Going with a higher intensity and burning your sugar stores will help as well, but would taxing and unnecessary. You would also need a more specific post workout meal. Also, I doubt you could keep that up for an hour. After about 2 weeks of this you would find that your motivation is dwindling due to the workload you place on yourself. Training for an event is one thing, but an everyday schedule like that would burn you out. I did the high intensity thing for quite some time, and more than half of the team quit because they just got sick of it. Keep it fun.
 
HIIT can keep things short and sweet. use of low and high intensity training should be utilized if one is able to handle high intensity work.

remember its more about what you burn over the course of the day, not what you burn in and around the workout. ;)
 
my suggestions...

First of all you most definitely need to vary your workout, and start doing weight training, which boosts the metabolism more than anything.

Try this- 24hr fitness offers coupons (website/news ads) that provide a free fitness consultation with a personal trainer. I've never worked with one before and they ask you your goals, one of which was to lose some body fat. He told me that in order to do so you need to strength train once a week to burn fat (as well as weight lift which i do anyway). During this session I did super heavy weights at 1set/15 reps using a variety of body parts & using the stairmaster in between (2x's) at 7 min's @ lev. 7. He suggested that you start yr weight training w/ cardio for 5-7min's (i like to start with the stairmaster), then do weights (full body) ending w/cardio for another 15-20min. (elliptical or treadmill.) On in between days, do yr reg. cardio training or try yoga and pilates. Kick-boxing or tae-bo are good alternatives to cardio training. 24hr fitness is great cuz they have all sorts of classes. However, sometimes i feel those classes are not high enough in intensity at where I like to be, and do them at home with yoga/pilates video's or dvd's. you can find discounted ones at bookstores or half price books (bookstores). Also if you have cable there’s a great station called fittv. (fittv.com) that do a variety of workouts oh and go to Shape.com and read about their fitness articles and workouts. Subscribe to this or Self, or Fitness, they’re only $10-12 for 1yr subscriptions.

2nd- it might help you to start counting your calorie intake. I know it's tedious but you get to know what your consuming. Basically you have to burn more calories than you are consuming to lose weight. But if you don't know how many calories you are consuming you won't know how to cut back. And it's easier to count calories consumed than calories burned. Calorieking.com can help answer questions. Keep a food journal! (with calories, carbs, fat, protein and fiber, i can fwd you my spreadsheet)

Also, watch out when it comes to eating nuts. they are highly caloric! the healthiest are almonds, walnuts and macadamia nuts. a couple of handfuls ends up being 400-500 calories! more than 2 sandwiches! your best bet is to portion them out into little saran wraps, or ziplock snack bags. Invest in a measuring cup and measuring spoons. For ex. 1/4cup of almonds is 170 calories, 14 mac nuts (dry roasted) is 200cal. that way you know exactly how much you're eating. if they don't fill you up- snack em w/baby carrots and celery or broccolli- (which i love and eat every day, twice a day even sometimes- it's super nutritious and high in fiber.) if you like to use dip there are some low fat/low carb options out there. some of them are super nasty but one that i like is Kraft- (Carbwell) Buttermilk Ranch Lite, 2tbs=60 calories, 0 carbs, 6grams of fat. don't try the cucumber one it's nasty! i add grated peppercorn, garlic powder, scallions and (soy) bacon bits in my dip sometimes to add flavor, or i use that mixture as a dressing in a wrap.

Try switching breads there are many reduced cal/carb options. Pepperidge Farms "CarbStyle" has only 60cal/slice, & 5 net carbs. Go w/ the 7 grain or wheat as they are more nutritious. To combat the chewiness of the bread i leave a few slices sitting out over night. When you toast it, toast it at low temp, 2-3 times. If you toast it high, it burns the bread but it's still chewy. Seek out low-carb wraps. There are many out there, but the lowest carb count i could find is by La Tortilla Factory @ only 50cal/wrap, 3 net carbs, 2g fat, and a whopping 8 grams of fiber (which by the way you should also try and increase in your diet.) wraps are quick n' easy to make especially w/canned tuna,salmon or chicken. my fav one right now i use either of the above meat options, or even turkey or chicken deli meat, chopped red cabbage (super-nutritious), chopped spinach (or kale or chard- both are super nutritious), scallions, cilantro, and squeeze 1/2 of a lime on top of the meat of choice, wrap and eat!

If you like to have a heartier bread try a sprouted grain bread (more nutrients in sprouted grains) EZEKIEL “Sprouted Grains” (found @ Whole Foods or Wild Oats, or in the health food section of your local grocer) contains 80-90 calories/slice, is high in fiber and has naturally less net carbs than regular bread which may contain between 20-30 grams of net cbs/slice. Ezekiel bread has 12-13 net carbs. I switch between it & the carb-style bread. Since it has more carbs I'll eat it earlier in the day since you burn more calories in the morning.

Speaking of morning, what kind of eggs to you eat? Try switching to Egglands Best which is pumped with Omega-3, has 25% less saturated fat than other eggs, as well as Egg Beaters w/NO fat, @ 30 calories per ¼ serving (= to 1 egg)- cuz it’s just egg whites. I mix 1 Egglands Best egg with ½ cup (or 2 eggs) of the Egg Beaters for a total of 130 calories, and 18 grams of protein & a total of 4 grams of fat. I made up this wrap once with egg and garlic/or cucumber flavored hummus w/ red bell pepper, red cabbage,alfalfa, red onion, spinach and scallions...yum!

Increase your fiber intake as it takes longer to digest and makes you feel fuller longer. High-fiber diets are healthier for you in the long run, and have many heart-disease, and cancer preventative benefits. Along with your eggs in the morning try a high-fiber cereal. I switch between (Post) Fiber One cereal and Kellogg’s Bran Buds (which contain Psyllium Husk). F1 contains only 60 calories per ½ cup serving, with a whopping 14grams of fiber, KBB’s contains 70 calories per 1/3 cup serving, and 13 grams of fiber. They will be incredibly bland to you at first most likely- so you can mix it with a (low sugar) granola cereal at first until you can eat it alone. I like to mix mine with 1tbs of cinnamon or pumpkin spice, and splenda. Instead of milk choose soymilk (soy isoflavanoids are very heart healthy.) I use either WestSoy unsweetened vanilla (1 cup=100 calories, 1 net carb, 4.5g fat, 9g protein) or SoySlender unsweetened vanilla soy (70 calories, 1 net carb, 4g fat, 6g protein) I also add 2 tbs of ground flaxseed meal (found @ wholefoods/wildoats/yr local grocer) flaxseeds contain a slew of health benefits you can google.com...@ 60 calories in 2 tbs, it contains another added 4g's of fiber. This is pretty much my breakfast everyday….along with ¼ or ½ a grapefruit that i portion out through the remainer of the day.

Overall you should turn your weight loss goals, or maintenance into a healthy eating life style. Cuz if you deprive yourself or use stimulants to alter your body’s natural course it will backfire once you get off of a nutrient or calorie deprived diet. Up your fiber and protein intake (also try asian pears- they are highly fibrous n' super tasty). Drink lots of green tea throughout the day (decaf at night). And if you are going to take a supplement- take a daily vitamin with EGCG (from Green Tea Leaf Extract) which assists your metabolism in a safer way than stackers. Try One a Day Weight Smart or Once Source.

If you’re on the go or are looking for good snacks, try Keto (low carb) Protein Powder Shakes, or Keto low carb bars- these bars aren’t as high in fat as most other low carb bars out there (6-8g’s) , both containing Glutamine Peptides which claim to help fight carb/sweet cravings, w/heart healthy high oleic monounsaturates with EFA’s which help optimize fat burning and naturally trigger the “I’m full now” CCK hormone. Both contain 20grams of protein and 200cal's (bars=230) For the shakes I like to premake them over night and chill them in the fridge. You can also buy vanilla soy protein powder in bulk at (wholefoods, wildoats,…) it’s super cheap, and 2tbs=70 calories, 1 net carb/14g protein= you can use this to make your own fruit smoothies, preferably w/berries- high in antioxidants, low cal/carb & taste great in a smoothy. You can also add it to the Keto shake to make a 270 calorie shake with 34g's of protein. Use these in between meals, and I definitely suggest eating 5-6 small meals a day. For breakfast b/w 300-400, & 200-300 calories every 2-3hrs, w/protein in each meal especially if you consume something that contains carbohydrates.

If you are looking to buy nutrient or protein bars make sure you look at the vitamin percentage as well as fat content. A lot of them are high in fat, but once you start eating these you can substitute them for your sweet cravings. Slim Fast makes some good low carb “candy bars” if you need something to satisfy your sweet craving. But I stopped eating those (as well as other high fat/low-carb candy bars) and switched to protein/vitamin packed bars that fulfill my sweet craving as well. As these have expiration dates, they can be incredibly marked down at Wal-Mart or GNC if you check up at these places every so often, and can be lowered from $2-$3/bar down to $0.50! If you have a craving but aren’t actually hungry cut them up into squares and eat a couple pieces and save the rest for the next time you have a sweet craving.

Also try and incorporate as many vegetables in your diet as possible, in salads, steaming them and discovering new recipes to use them in because you can turn healthful dieting/eating into something fun! Hit me up if you need ideas.

Anyway that’s my spiel, hope it helps!

~Nina
 
hmmm, @ second glance....

...how is this eating healthy?...there are no vegetables or fruit or fiber! The recommended daily amt of fiber is between 25-30. I eat 40-50.

Usually what I'll have will be like this:

8:00 AM : 1 egg and 2 turkey sausage links
-cut out the fatty sausage links!...or
try switching to Morning Star Farms
soylinks, less fat/more fiber. incorporate
some type of carbs, Fiber One cereal
for ex.[/B] which prolly has less carbs than
the bread you're eating. try going for 300-
400 calories.

11am: 200-300 calories:
peanut butter & jelly sandwich
try low carb peanut butter & l.c. or reduced sugar jam
OR
1/4 cup nuts (170-250 calories) along with
brocolli, carrots & celery sticks (low cal/carb)
OR
a 200 cal protein bar & asian pear.
OR
60cal low carb/low calorie yogurt (5g protein)
1/2 grapefruit, OR kiwi (both <50 cal), and
20 almonds (85 calories)= totaling 200cal.
OR
SlimFast low carb shake (canned)= 200cal,
2 net carbs, or the Keto Slim LC. Shake

2pm : 2 turkey hot dogs on whole wheat bread
hot dogs are really not that healthy.
switch to a low fat deli meat.

If you like to eat a sandwich switch to
a higher fiber/grainier low carb/cal
bread, with 4-5 slices of deli meat, or
canned tuna/salmon/chicken. eat more
fish especially salmon it has hearthy
healthy essential omega fatty oils.
add some spinach/chard or kale in your
sandwiches for added nutrients and
fiber, as well as 1/8 of an avacado for more heart healthy fats.
+ 1/4 or 1/2 a grapefruit an entire grapefruit has between 40-50 net carbs, so it's better to portion it out throughout the day. studies show there is a special ingredient in grapefruit that supresses appetite, if eaten with a meal. i just eat grapefruit because i love the taste of it so much but dont eat it all at once so as not to have a carb overload.

4pm: another 250-300 calories from 11am choices, you need some
energy before you work out! (preferably the sandwhich, protein bar
or shake. stuff that is filling and will digest easily.)
Also take a super Vitamin-B Complex supplement for added energy
(helps to convert food into energy.)

6:00 PM : 45 min of cardio
by eating less more often your body may get hungry during this time,
take a shake/protein bar with you to the gym if you need it. this is
usually the only time i eat shakes/protein bars, only if needed. it's
better to have them with you than not.

8:00 PM : Turkey Sandwich on whole wheat, or Tuna
on whole wheat

here's where you try and cut down your carbs, at the end of the day since your body's metabolism slows down at the end of the day. Instead of bread eat a salad with baby spinach/kale/chard and or mixed field greens, or make a lettuce wrap from red leaf lettuce incorporating different veggies from shredded broccolli crown, shredded carrot, celery, red cabbage, bell peppers, steamed green beans or squash (low cal/carb & high fiber) with your meat of choice of tuna/salmon/chicken. or even try (extra firm) tofu- you can slice them up and bake them to make super crispy low-fat/protein rich "tofu-tons" (seasoned with garlic powder, salt/pepper- sometimes i slice up and bake a whole package and store them in baggies as snacks- good source of protein, 0 carbs, low-fat, and heart healthy soy isoflavonoids) these as well as the other meats can be used in a low carb wrap instead of bread. 2-3 cups of salad greens and veggies yield much less net carbs than 2 slices of bread. keep your simple carbs earlier in the day and the complex carbs at night. Start buying raw salmon from the deli and season with lemon juice and whatever spices you want and bake it for like 10 minutes, eaten with steamed veggies. or, you can make it, and store it in the fridge to chill for lunch the next day too served on top of a salad. To ensure you eat your veggies throughout the day/week, try to pre-wash and chop and store your brocolli, carrots, celery, red cabbage, peppers, that way you can quickly throw them in a salad/wrap/sandwich and not have to hassle with the preparation each time you make a meal. You can also veggies sticks into ziplock bags so you know you will eat them. By the way Fiber One cereal is also a great alternative to croutons on a salad. (I have a few low fat/low carb salad recipes i made up if you want me to give to you.)

...in the end this should add up between a total of 1400-1800 calories by the end of the day.

Just as easily your body can be addicted to high fat/fried junk food, once you convert to more natural (slightly bland at first) high fiber, high grain, veggies/ fruits/soy the more your body will adapt to and eventually crave these foods. my body craves raw veggies all the time and i don't feel right without it. If i eat something too oily (cooked oils that is, not like olive oil on a salad) or fried it actually makes me feel sick to my stomach. anyway i hope my suggestions have helped you!

~nina
 
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