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:willy_nilly:Hello all ya people,

I really needed help with my life's (same old story) and I came across this forum which turned out to be great. So finally I got the courage to come out and actually wirte on the net.

Till now I have been maintaining a personal on-the-paper journal but I guess online is better. Not only will it reduce the clutter in my room but also I will get something to do at my office :sifone: :biggrinjester: But really it is great to find so many compatriots here and so many successful ones too.

With a height of 5'8" I have hardly been what you would call skinny in my life. I was always decent looking which took a turn for the worse when I enrolled for my post-grad. Now that is over, I suddenly discovered that I am totally bloated and what with my boyfriend ready to marry me in like, 5 months, I really need to reduce and not little too....I have to shed 40 lbs :willy_nilly:

Well....so I will be strict and stick to my diet and exercise plan and document all my follies (so I can come back and feel embarrassed enough about the goof up to get back on the plan...he he) and all my achievements (yaayyyy). Well, you all who visit this thread might also have to witness my terrible mood swings because of all this weight loss stuff so please bypass this. I will use this thread to rant a lot to tell you in advance.

Now my pledge: I shall go to gym 6 days a week and do 60 mins of cardio and 20-30 mins of resistance training. If that means getting up at 5 in the morning I will. I shall eat a lot of veggies and fruits and stick to a clean diet - no pizzas, sodas, sweets and small portions. I shall follow no binging whatsoever whenever. If I cheat or skip on a certain day, I shall not berate myself but only think of my impending marriage for which I need to look as hot and sultry as I know I can.

Looking to you all weight-loss-forum guys for support.
Please help a compulsive eater attain her goals,
Cheers
:newbie:
 
Today's log

Today I am feeling great about myself cos I went to the gym and did 60 mins of cardio. I feel great about myself. I have been going to the gym for a week now and I have tried to maintain a healthy diet. My clothes have started to feel a little lose already and it feels awesome :coolgleamA:

i just hope i can keep it up for the next few months....(i have a problem with capital i's so please ignore'em)

My short term goal is losing 10 lbs by feb end starting today.
 
Hi bling

congrats on your engagement and on finding this site!

I wonder if maybe you are setting your goals just a little bit too high. I was a dedicated gym junkie for years but even at my worst, never went 2 days in a row. I preferred to have a break day especially as I was completely unfit when I first started.

Most diets just ask you to do 30 minutes of exercise 3 times a week to start, then building up gradually. When I was at my peak fitness (and a tiny 60.5kg) I would go to the gym 4-5 times a week, eg always mondays wednesdays and saturdays, the other 2 days flexible. I would then do a weights session after 3 of these classes so all up i was working out 1-2 hours a day, which is quite a lot! A routine like mine was difficult to keep up as well, and eventually my working hours changed and I stopped being able to spend this amount of time in the gym, hence my recent weight gain...:( I need to get back in there !!!
 
Welcome to my thread

Hello Aussiemum,

Thanks for the wishes dear :hug2:

I agree it is difficult to keep up a routine with all the work at home and job. Sooooooo difficult....but this is really my last chance to look good before my wedding so me's giving all I can. I try to put in 1.5 hours everyday but sometimes (like today) I could devote only 1 hour. So I will go after my office and hit the gym for another half hour in the evening.

You say you don't get time to work out....why don't you work out at home? or maybe climb stairs....My office is on the 7th floor of my building and I make it a point to climb all those stairs in the morning...something is better than nothing...he he he.

Cheers :beerchug:
 
Thanks Bling :)

i actually do have time now as Ive just changed jobs.

I cant believe the difference my new job is making, I have more spare time as the hours are less and so is the travel.

I also have a nice treadmill at home but I try to avoid that cos it chews up so much power. However my gym is handy and I really need to get in there more.

I just have to worry about my "excuses" and try to resurrect my gym junkieness!

I had an excuse this morning, didnt do any exercise, but to my credit I bought my gym clothes with me and will go after work.

I promise!!!!
 
hey aussiemum,

Congrats on your new job. Truly, having a treadmill at home is such a waste sometimes cos you never seem to get on to it. I had a bicycle in my last home and I never seemed to use it no matter how much I tried...:smash:

It's better to put in some time and money and drag your feet to the gym. Atleast the site of others pumping off makes me wanna work that much harder. :biggrinjester: I am sure you can do it aussiemom....just hang in there :)

cheers
 
Welcome to my thread lanadefemme

hello lanadefemme,

interesting name....what does it mean?
Congratulations on your impending marriage. Mine is on 11th July. When is yours?
And that you are in this forum means you are also looking to lose some weight...would you like to share your story?

Cheers :Angel_anim:
 
Hey there! Lana De Femme is basically Feminine Lana. My wedding date is still floating between October and December. I actually kind of want to postpone so I can get to my goal weight, which is 115. I have a diary also if you'd like to check out my journey.

How far along are you with your wedding plans?
 
I am feeling great today. I finally got time to work out for more than an hour today courtesy my boss....he he he. He wont be in today so I got some extra time in the morning to get ready and subsequently for gym also :) Got up pretty late and pushed off to the gym. Worked out for 60 mins/500 cal on cardio and a little bit of weights. Felt really really good. My heart rate went upto 170 today. Felt awesome. Had a cucumber and a coffee for breakfast.

The mind just clears up so well after a good session of working out. Put in an ample dose of good music and the realization that it is only two more days to the weekend and life seems beautiful again. Even my clothes seem a little lose today. :jump:
 
I really wanted to scrap yesterday but net was not working. Case of some Egyptian ship crashing into the cables and stuff...phew.
Well...today I didn't go to the gym. Hpoefully I can get off early from office and hit it (hopefully again). But I must I must I must.

I notice a slight weight loss. Haven't measured it yet. Indication is from slightly lose clothes. i have lost a lot from my back but my tummy is still there. not an iota of difference on that front. Well....gotta stick to lots of cardio.
 
Cardio is great for burning calories! Did you know though, that a lb of muscle burns almost 50 calories more per day than a lb of fat? If you just build 10 lbs of muscle you'll naturally lose 52 lbs over the course of a year. Plus, muscle takes up a fraction of the space that fat does. That information alone is why I've started to focus more on building muscle through weight training.
 
My bf and I worked in the same company but we were in two different buildings in two different professions. i was a software engineer and he in corporate finance. in dec 2004 i posted a thread on the online bulletin board and he was one the the many to reply thinking i am a "GUY"...can you imagine....???!!! Well, we got to chatting through emails and 4000 emails and 4 months later we finally met to fight with each other. We became inseparable after that
There was no formal proposal in the traditional sense as such as it did not make sense anyways. We were in it for eternity from the very beginning.....
So we just told our parents and fixed a date for the marriage which, btw, is now scheduled on 11th July this year.
I am getting married to the man of my dreams yaaaayyyyy
 
i could not mail earlier because of some date connectivity issue.
i missed out the gym on friday as I went to office in the morning and so got too lazy to get up in the morning. But compensated for it on saturday. However, yours truly pigged out on a pizza on friday night and had an icecream on sunday. Hope that does not affect my weight loss plans too much. however i am taking it slowly....no hasty decisions. slow loss is the best loss.
Worked out 550 cals today morning. i was really hungry as i did not have a proper dinner or a breakfast today so had lunch. normal proportions of good food taste awesome and I am so sleepy...hope my boss does not catch my dosing off at my desk....lol
My bf's office network is going on VPN so no more mails from him anymore. donno how to pass the day.
 
having lunch in the afternoon is such a bad addiction. i am feeling so so sleepy.....can someone get in a bed here in my office? HELP someone...
 
Lifting weights vs cardio

Cardio is great for burning calories! Did you know though, that a lb of muscle burns almost 50 calories more per day than a lb of fat? If you just build 10 lbs of muscle you'll naturally lose 52 lbs over the course of a year. Plus, muscle takes up a fraction of the space that fat does. That information alone is why I've started to focus more on building muscle through weight training.

Weight loss comes from using more calories than you take in. You can use more calories the fastest with activities that use your whole body over an extended period of time, as opposed to doing site-specific exercises that fatigue one particular muscle group or two. Any movement burns calories, but weight training burns calories relatively slowly—especially when it’s a novice or recreational exerciser using relatively low weights and performing just a few sets. In contrast, you can double your calorie burn by spending the same amount of time doing an aerobic workout (depending on the intensity).

Walking briskly for 30 minutes will burn more calories than doing a half-hour’s worth of biceps curls, ab crunches or shoulder raises, for example. If you are substituting cardio workouts with more muscle-based workouts such as body sculpting or Pilates, you will burn fewer calories over the week and that will slow down your rate of weight loss.

You can burn more calories during a weights workout by performing more lower-body moves such as squats and lunges, or doing a circuit-style routine where you move quickly through the routine and even insert cardio intervals such as jacks or jogging in place in between exercises. There is some evidence that a very intense, super-hard weights workout can create a slight caloric afterburn. But typical exercisers simply don’t push themselves this much. So overall, cardio is more efficient at burning the most calories.

You will, no doubt, hear differently. And you will probably come across claims that dumbbells provide a magical solution. If you lift weights, the argument goes, you build muscle, which speeds up your metabolism so that you even burn more calories while you sleep.

But this is more hype than hope. Leading exercise physiologists conducted a comprehensive review of the research on exercise and weight loss for the American College of Sports Medicine and presented their findings at a 2003 conference. While resistance training was recommended for its beneficial role in potentially improving muscle, strength and power, they found no evidence that it enhanced weight loss, especially when combined with dieting.

One claim—that muscle weight burns more calories, and so adding muscle makes you burn more calories every day—may be true in theory. But, in reality, it’s probably not making a big enough difference for most people. First, this effect may be less powerful than most people believe. Often the information about muscles and metabolism is misconstrued. A common claim is that every extra pound of muscle burns from 30 to 50 calories per day. Some sources cite that one pound of muscle can burn an extra 100 calories per day. This “fact” has been repeated by trainers everywhere, but few have bothered to investigate the actual research where these claims originated.

In reality, one pound of muscle burns about seven to 15 calories a day, not 50, explains Dymphna Gallagher, the director of the body composition unit at the New York Obesity Research Center in Manhattan. So, if a person has managed to stick to a program lifting progressively heavier weights for a long enough stretch of time, they may accumulate enough extra muscle to boost their metabolism by about 14 to 30 calories a day — not several hundred, as is often claimed.

One of the foremost experts on the science of strength training concurs: “The effect on metabolism is minor and certainly not the savior of dieters,” says William Kraemer, a professor of physiology and neurobiology at the University of Connecticut.

When it comes to dieting with weight training, dieting may thwart any possible effect. The body needs more calories than normal to build muscle. A person trying to cut back will have a harder time producing an anabolic effect in their body where it grows new muscle tissue.

That’s not to say that lifting weights won’t help you get stronger, firmer and healthier. It will. But it just isn’t the place to focus if you are trying to shed lots of weight. You can develop more stamina from lifting weights, which in turn may help you last longer during cardio workouts—so, definitely include one to three sessions a week of weight training into your routine for this purpose. But to burn calories, do cardio more often and for longer periods.

As far as how long to rest between sets, how long you wait depends upon your goal, as well as how much weight you’re lifting and how many reps and sets you’re doing. Between-set breaks usually last anywhere from 30 seconds to five minutes. Unless you are lifting very heavy weights, you can shorten the rest periods. Rest intervals of about a minute in between sets are more effective at increasing strength than a shorter interval. But different exercises may require different durations. A good gauge is to aim for about one minute and make sure your muscles feel like they have recovered in between sets.
 
Hi there! I just want to wish you luck for today! Keep it rolling and the weight loss will be showing on your scales in no time!
 
I agree with ya bling..... cardio is more effective at burning calories than weight training. Of course there are a bunch of different ways to go about weight training.... I mean theoretically one can turn weight training into a cardiovascular exercise which you briefly touched on.

And comparing a weight training routine consisting of bicep curls and crunches with a bout of cardio is sort of silly. I could structure a weight training routine to burn just as many calories as a bout of cardio. Really, it comes down to what you like doing more.

You're also right that at the end of the day, losing weight is primarily about expending more energy than your body requires. Thankfully though, I don't know anyone who is only concerned with losing weight. They want to lose weight AND look and feel good. These goals require a lot more than just cardio. I know you weren't suggesting otherwise.... just felt it important to note.

You touched on that when you said:

That’s not to say that lifting weights won’t help you get stronger, firmer and healthier. It will. But it just isn’t the place to focus if you are trying to shed lots of weight.

In theory, the closer you get to your goal weight, the more emphasis you should place on weight training.

You can develop more stamina from lifting weights, which in turn may help you last longer during cardio workouts—so, definitely include one to three sessions a week of weight training into your routine for this purpose.

Completely agree.

But to burn calories, do cardio more often and for longer periods.

Another note.....

Just as overtraining is an important phenomenon to plan for wrt weight training..... it's also a variable of program design/periodization relative to cardiovascular exercise.

It's actually more heavily researched in relation to cardio vs. strength training.
 
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