Best Part About Being Lighter?

lookintolose50

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I used to be skinny and unfortunately gained it all back and then some. I seem to have forgotten exactly what I liked best about being smaller. Although it's tough for me to eimagine it right now, I think the main thing I miss is the energy and also the confidence.

Am I missing some? Pls help remind me!!!
 
For me, being able to feel some pride when I look in the mirror is a MAJOR deal! Compliments are also most welcome (and wonderful to hear!). :iagree:

Best wishes on your WL journey
ABBA
 
I guess my kick is fitting in the jeans I bought in Japan ^^; It's a 27in and was the LARGEST size they had at the time and I didn't fit in it!

The best thing comfort wise though is that my thighs no longer rub against each other when I walk which made them itch and go red and also destroy my jeans which never lasted more than 6months.

haha stupid i know :)
 
The energy and the clothes! I get so much more done throughout the day, and I just love knowing that I'll be able to get clothes practically anywhere in a size s. I love clothes and fashion. :Angel_anim:
 
For me I'd definitely say it's the speed. I love having the extra speed and stamina when I am playing basketball or softball. Running around gets so much easier. Also confidence and compliments are always great!
 
I'd say the energy and confidence, and being able to buy CUTE clothes in NORMAL stores and not having to be embarrassed about being seen going into "that" store. (Lane Bryant)

I also get treated a lot better in public...doors held open, attentive service in restaurants, etc.
 
I can wear whatever I want and get away with it!! I can maintain it and eat just as about as much or more than I had been, when I am used to eating the "healthier foods" It inspires confidence within me to wanting to feel better all around inside and out. I will feel better about myself so I can give/pay better attention to the needs of my loved ones. I won't be as worried about getting other illness's that come with extra weight.
 
-looking better in clothes...since i am a shopaholic!! i buy a lot of shoes/purses/sunglasses because they always fit no matter what, ha.
-having more energy
-not getting sick as often
-compliments from men and women
-not feeling embarrassed to go out...even at the weight i'm at now, i don't feel comfortable getting dressed up and going out. i'd prefer to stay at home and wear 'gym clothes'
 
-looking better in clothes...since i am a shopaholic!! i buy a lot of shoes/purses/sunglasses because they always fit no matter what, ha.
-having more energy
-not getting sick as often
-compliments from men and women
-not feeling embarrassed to go out...even at the weight i'm at now, i don't feel comfortable getting dressed up and going out. i'd prefer to stay at home and wear 'gym clothes'

haha, i don't go out much anyhow anymore, im getting old and lame. ugh
 
haha, i don't go out much anyhow anymore, im getting old and lame. ugh


neither do i...i'm only 23! when i was thinner, i went out all the time cause i felt good being all dressed up. now, i don't really wanna go anywhere but the gym and tanning. too bad i have to go to work! ha
 
i so need to tan, im like an oreo. just less dark and more white

well i know that when i go out, ill drink, and i know thats one of the main things that made me a chunky monkey
 
i've been the designated driver since like...january! it's horrible.

beer was the cause of my weight gain from september through december. i wish i could be like everyone else and drink light beer...but it doesn't taste good!
 
i've been the designated driver since like...january! it's horrible.

beer was the cause of my weight gain from september through december. i wish i could be like everyone else and drink light beer...but it doesn't taste good!

hell yeah, shiner for the win. omg.
 
I still have body image issues, but I like feeling a lot more confident, dressing in clothes that I know look good on me, and although it's a little sad people really do treat you better the better you look, so that is nice too.
 
The best thing comfort wise though is that my thighs no longer rub against each other when I walk which made them itch and go red and also destroy my jeans which never lasted more than 6months.

haha stupid i know :)

I completely understand on this one. I think the only time my thighs haven't rubbed was when I was like 6 lol. It's not stupid at all.. there is nothing more humiliating then trying to walk and your shorts climb up your legs. Thus why I haven't wore shorts in 12 years.

I have also noticed that I was treated better when I was thinner. While over weight I have been ignored.. snickered at.. and endured more snoody looks from some that I care to remember.

I will enjoy fitting into my old clothes again.. and enjoy watching them become to big. Looking at myself in the mirror and being happy with what I see. Feeling confidant in public. Being able to go to a store and not have to buy the biggest size they carry... nothing like asking the stick thin 17 year old if they could get the JUMBO size pants off the top shelf. I look forward to not being the fattest one in our group of friends. Getting compliments again. Mostly though I look forward to the feeling I'll have when I find my happy weight.. the accomplishment of sticking with it and becoming a better me.
 
Moving!!!!

Thats it!

Sure, vanity comes into it too. I like that the ladies in the office are whispering about me and smiling as I walk by and the people outside no longer stare at me (as much) on the street. But really, the best part is walking up and down those 3 flights of stairs to my apartment everyday (no elevators in residential buildings in China under 8 floors) and not suffering for it.

3 flights used to kill me. My knees and legs would ache, I would be panting, sweating, wheezing and pretty much looked forward to the eventual heart attack in the stairwell that would end the suffering. Even getting out of bed was an unhappy adventure.

Also the heat. South China is HOT BABY!!!!! Seriously hot. No matter how skinny or fit you are, you are going to sweat. Period. I used to feel very self conscious about my sweating, but the locals here told me not to worry, if I wasn't sweating I was Seriously sick and needed to see a doctor. But I sweat ALOT!!! As much as everyone does it, I was most uncomfortable about it.

However, nowadays, I sweat MUCH less than ever before and in fact much less than a good majority of the locals. But the best thing is the heat recovery. Even after a 5 minute walk outside it would take me an hour in the air conditioning to stop sweating and finally feel comfortable in the past. These days I am feeling fine and dandy in 5 minutes!

Now I walk the 3 blocks to the bus stop everyday and have completely cooled down with 5 minutes on the bus. I used to take taxis to work and back everyday just to avoid the heat. I walk my dog several times a day and don't need to find excuses not to go out shopping or even just for fun. I can bend and stretch in ways I never thought possible and it isnt a major accomplishment to tie my shoes.....

So whereas the vanity side is nice, I would wouldnt care if I was hidesouly ugly, as long as I physically felt this good.

Luckily for me I am a handsome enough feller that the physical side is just a very appreciated bonus. ;)

sirant
 
Thunder Thighs!

I completely understand on this one. I think the only time my thighs haven't rubbed was when I was like 6 lol. It's not stupid at all.. there is nothing more humiliating then trying to walk and your shorts climb up your legs. Thus why I haven't wore shorts in 12 years.

Wow......

I completely forgot about that..... The thighs rubbing.....

I shudder to think of all the rashes and pain I suffered as a kid as my chubby little thighs ground my jeans in between them. Then of course there is the associated cost of patching, re-patching and eventually throwing away those perfectly good jeans, because I had worn the inner thighs completely out of them.....

Thanks for the reminder. That in itself is a huge accomplishment.

sirant
 
Looking more attractive is to me the greatest benefit. Second to that is being able to find clothes that fit you.
 
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