before pics- please help!

cupcake91

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hello everyone!
umm... this is quite hard for me to do as i have absolutely no body confidence whatsoever.
please done be too harsh, i would like constructive advice please!

im currently 130 pounds
5ft2
19 years old, i would like to lose about 10 pounds and really tone up. how many calories should i be eating? as you can see from the pics my hips and stomach are way out of proportion so i really want to tone those areas... please give me some suggestions to get me going... i just want to be confident in clothes and not just wear hoodies and jeans all the time... and i want my boyfriend to think WOW when he sees me too :blush5: !

i know i havent got a huge way to go but i really do need a shove up the backside to do it this time!
 
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Hi! I am also 5'2 and I used to weigh 135 pounds (Although according to the BMI calculator this is a very healthy range to be in). I understand that you want to tone up- my personal trainer recommends that someone with our height eat 1200 calories a day in order to shape up. I'd say that your legs already look really toned but the greatest way to shape up (and in my opinion, the easiest) would be to go swimming. In the case of dieting though, I know some users here would definitely disagree with me, but I have seen results by following the mono-grape diet. Basically you are supposed to follow this diet for 5 days and only eat grapes and drink water/herbal tea. The first time I lost 10 pounds while on this diet (when I was 135 pounds). I lost 1 pound/day and didn't regain any of it once I returned to my normal diet. You might want to do some more research on it though- I recognize it isn't the healthiest diet and apparently results vary from person to person. Good luck!
 
Hi cupcake91,

Omg its not fair. I am also 5ft 2 (OK maybe 5ft 1 and a half to be exact) and I weigh similar at 128lbs. And I look MUCH fatter in the stomach than you do. :-(

My body is shaped like a disfigured apple (hence the username lol), I have NO hips, skinny legs, no bum whatsoever and then just this DISPROPORTIONATE flabby belly that just hangs and wobbles and sticks out. If I could just distribute the fat to all those other bits I'd be so happy.

In my opinion you actually look quite good already- But no worries I understand, I'm not gona start saying you're being stupid or that your problem isn't important because when it comes to the way we look, its more about what we see and more importantly how WE feel ourselves than what other people perceive.

So I am just gona share with you what I am doing myself, so that it might help you with yours...Might as well since we are both the same height and weight with slim legs and problematic tummies eh?

Sure you've heard it a million times before, but cardio really is the way to get rid of stubborn fat. The posters above were right in that they suggested swimming, as it provides you with a total body workout. However if you want to burn as much calories as you possibly can in probably a shorter space of time, then I think that running will probably be your best bet.

So at the moment I am running everyday at the gym for 30-60 minutes non stop at a time. This is HARD, I am not going to lie. But I am just hoping that I will get there in the end. Unfortunately I can't tell you of any success yet as I have only been solidly doing it for a week now, but I am pinning my hopes on it so that by New Year I look awesome for my holiday to Thailand. :) OK so there are two different things that I have been advised by a number of personal trainers (I know 5 people who do that for a living so I am trusting that if they've all said the same, then its gotta be worth a shot)

1) Is to run or fast-jog at 10KPH pace for 30-45mins straight, no stopping, to burn body fat

2) Is to power walk at 6KPH and then sprint (for me with my short legs a sprint is 15KPH) on and off for about 20-30 minutes. Meaning you do intervals of power walk, then sprint, power walk, then sprint... throughout the whole time you're on the treadmill. And you can do 1min walk, 30 seconds sprint when you first start out, then crank it up so that you're doing 30secs off then 30 secs on as you go on. And as you get better at it it you can always reduce your resting time or increase your speed to keep it effective.

OR.....

3)You can just combine doing the two above in the one workout. For instance today I did 60 minutes on the treadmill like this: From 0-30mins I ran at 9/10KPH straight, then I power walked at 6KPH for 10 minutes, to let my heart rate back down again and catch myself. Then for another 15 minutes I did speed intervals as described above of 30secs on 30secs off. And then for the last 5 minutes I ran at 11KPH to the end.

Its best to do cardio on an empty stomach so that you are not merely burning off calories that you've already just put into your body. You want to be burning calories from FAT, not carbs. So I would suggest going first thing in the morning if you can hack getting up early enough. Have a strong, strong black coffee with no sugar 5-10 min before you start and this should give you a boost of energy to get you going.

Then within half hour of exercising you should always try to eat something really high in lean protein. Scrambled eggs of 3 egg whites and only the 1 yolk is brill, or you can check out a good protein shake to have afterwards.

Which brings me to my diet advice: Just keep the lean protein high and the fat low, and carbs should be ONLY 'good' or complex carbs like veggies (no potatoes though unfortunately) and pulses, porridge oats and brown, unrefined versions of bread and pasta. If you want to go all out you should avoid bread and dairy altogether, but if you must, have skimmed milk and brown, seeded bread only. Following a low GI diet will help. Basically low GI just means 'low glycaemic index' where the food releases energy into your body really slowly so that you feel satisfied for longer. You know how if you eat a chocolate bar, its heaven in the 30 seconds it takes you to scoff it- but then you feel hungry like half an hour later?...Well thats because its empty calories that will just make you fat (if you eat it all the time). If you choose like a baked sweet potato with tuna, you get a good 'low GI' food with the added benefit of the protein from the tuna.

The diet I would suggest is basically a body buider's type diet. Don't worry, its not going to bulk you up unless you hit the weights hard, and even then, we're women so we're never going to get huge without steroids, so not to fear.

But....finally the other thing we need to do to is weightlifting. This is for two reasons.
1)It will obviously help to tone and streamline your body a the excess fat comes off.

2)The basic biology of it is, is the more lean muscle mass you have on your body, the more calories you will burn off everyday when you are not even exercising.

So, aim to do some weights 2-3 times a week along with your running/swimming. You can just do a basic weightloss, all over body plan, using light weights and high to moderate reps. Don't be surprised if this starts to ADD weight after a while....Its not that you're getting fatter, it just that muscle actually weighs more than fat. All that you will be doing is SHIFTING fat to muscle, if that makes sense?

Anyway, sorry I have droned on but I wanted to really try and help and explain everything that I am trying in detail, so that it might help you too. :) If you want more help on diet, just message me and I will send you the list I have been given.

If you would like to see what I actually look like though, Private message me and I will give you access to my picturetrail account. I think it might make you feel a bit better! lol!!!

Hugs,

Miss Apple ;-)

XXX
 
aww thanks so much, you lovely people!
i have just got a mortgage so a gym membership is unfortunately a no-no but i am just going to try to take advantage of any free swimming sessions and one-off gym sessions i can find lol!

Miss Apple, a list of what you've been doing would be great but it wont let me pm you yet as i havent been a member for 5 days yet?! i did the dukan diet a while back whereby the first 10 days is JUST PROTEIN and i managed 2 days and lost 2 pounds... in total ive lost 6 pounds just by cutting down what i eat but just need to shift the last stone really!

i guess i can do my Davina Mcall dvd & jog in the park if i cant get to a gym?!

is it worth me doing crunches/sit ups/the plank exercise right now? or do i need to get rid of some fat now?

ANY advice is appreciated!
thanks again lovelies x
 
Hun, you don't look fat at all. Your stomach is not toned, but I would never call someone who looks like you fat or even chubby. Your stomach is sticking out in your profile picture, but it looks more like bloating than fat...

You need to do resistance exercises if you want your body to look more lean and defined. I would only aim for about 200 caloric deficit from diet (while eating a diet rich in lean protein, vegetables, some complex carbs, some fruits, some healthy fats), and the rest from exercise (depending on what you can do, but ideally you'd do something like running for your cardio and things like sit ups, squats, lunges, push ups, crunches, leg raises, dips, and free weights/weight machines if you have access to the gym, if not just buy some cheap free weights because you can use them to work out your arms and also add them to sit ups, lunges, squats etc).
 
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Hey Cupcake!

Oh yeah gym memberships. :-( It was the same for me until I found a really cheap place and the will to go.

Lol I've only been a member since last week as well and I haven't even got the first clue how you even post pics on here! How did you do it?

OK with your situation and judging on how you look atm, I would defo say yeah do some core exercises too. So like crunches, planks, raising feet off the floor etc. What it will do is tone the muscle underneath and strengthen your core. Be ware though, if you do have excess fat around the tummy, these kind of exercises can sometimes 'bulk' your waist up a bit. That's the reason for teaming them with the cardio.

Cardio is always a winner because its that stubborn last bit of fat that we have as a safety mechanism to the body that will just linger, and no amount of situps on their own isgoing to get you the flatness you want.

But like I said, you don't look bad. Its not 'weight' so much you need to lose- you more just need to 'shift'. Meaning build lean muscle in the place of fat, if that makes sense? Even the smallest amount of fat on the tummy will hide perfectly toned abs underneath if you don't melt it with running/swimming/rowing.

You can try a technique known as Tabata (I think thats what its called) at home. This is where you use light dumbells and then you choose an exercise, like lets say you chose dumbell squats; Do a 20 minute workout where you warmup in the first 5 mins, then in the middle 10 minutes you do as MANY dumbell squats in 60 seconds as you can as quick as you can, then rest for 30 secs and do it again and so on. Then in the last 5 mins you cool down again. You know, like the interval training I said about on the treadmill? The point is that you will BURN off calories, not just tone and build like you will with just crunches. You can try the Tabata thing with crunches though of course!

When we rae able to PM each other I will show you MY problem area. You're not alone, just keep going and don't give up.

I really hope you reach your goal. I know what its like. Sometimes I feel bad because I think- Oh well I do HAVE a bf who loves me how I am bla bla bla and there are other people who have loads of weight to lose and no partner and no confidence....but still, I want my other half to go 'wow' when he sees me too, not just 'Oh but I love your belly' lol! ;-)

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hi apple!
hehe im the same sometimes i delude myself by saying "well im not as big as her....or her... or her" but the thing is.
i want to be HAPPY and confident.
unfortunately i am an emotional eater and my weight really does affect my mindset so i need to get my head and butt into gear!

i couldnt work out how to put pics on here either so i just signed up to photobucket, pasted the link and crossed my fingers and it worked lol!

would love to see your pics, its good to compare notes & egg eachother on! im sick of people telling me im fine.. i dont want to be 'fine' i want to be HOTTTT! haha :)

will pm you asap!xx
 
cupcake91 you don't need a gym membership, just buy or download an aerobic workout video and do that for an hour 5x a week...of course, just watch what you're eating (even 1 chip there and 1 spoon of that over here counts....remember that).

You will easily drop the weight. If after 2-3 weeks you notice no loss, reevaluate your calorie intake and increase the intensity in your exercise
 
thanks everyone, ive found a lot of good youtube videos, ive lost 2lbs already!!!
yippeee! i feel like im actually doing it this time! x
 
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