Thanks for the support, all of you! I think I mentioned this earlier, but going public on the weight loss project like this has definitely made it easier for me to deal with setbacks. It's all out in the open (anonymously, but still), so I can't just curl up in a corner somewhere and mope. Negative thoughts rarely benefit anyone, but it sometimes takes a kick in the <beep> to realize that.
I'm pretty sore all over - a telltale sign of a good workout. I'll be OK in a couple of days, I'll just take it easy and work on the abs until then. The gym I go to is at work, and it's pretty cramped and dull (in the basement, so no windows), and there's no TV. Which are all good things, if you're serious about working out. Nothing to distract you from the sets and reps, and doing the movements correctly and without cheating. Here's what I do:
Day 1: Seated bench presses (warmup + 4-5 sets), incline bench presses with dumbbells (3-4 sets), lat pulls (warmup + 4-5 sets), seated rows (3-4 sets), dumbbell lateral raises (3-4 sets), dumbbell shrugs (3 sets), back extensions (4 sets) and stationary bike for 20-30 mins.
Day 2: Leg press (warmup + 4-5 sets), calf raises on the leg press machine (3-4 sets), leg curls (4 sets), leg extensions (3-4 sets - these BURN my legs!), dumbbell bicep curls (3-4 sets), concentration curls (3 sets), triceps extensions (3-4 sets), one-arm triceps extensions (3 sets), stationary bike.
All sets are done to exhaustion, depending on the resistance I do 6-12 reps for each set. And I'm strict, meaning I for example do the bicep curls sitting down on a bench. That way I won't sway backwards and forwards, and the biceps have to do the work. Seated bench presses work for me - I never did like the standard bench presses. My arms are long, so the standard ones require lots of concentration, and I'm usually working out without a spotter, so getting pinned under the barbell is a possibility. Been there once with 200+ lbs, don't want to do it again.