Back to Square One...need some support

uyis11

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Hello everyone. My name is Mark. I haven't logged into this site in probably close to 3 years. You can probably guess why I'm back.

Let me sum up what has happened to me in the past few years. When I was in graduate school, I realized I was overweight at about 220lbs and 6'0. I jumped in head first to counting calories, working out 6 days a week, the whole works. I did that for about 6-7 months and got down to 155lbs at my lowest. I looked great. I had a 31in. waist. After I finished graduate school, I moved to a new city (Atlanta) and started a desk job (I'm an accountant). Fast forward one year and I had gained about 15lbs and was 170lbs. That weight wasn't too bad for me and I was working out every now and then and keeping a decent diet. Fast forward another year and half and I'm probably around 220-250lbs. I don't have a scale at this point in time.

It really clicked today when I had to buy a new suit with a 38inch waist. I'm completely ashamed of myself. I feel like a complete pig with no respect for myself. I can't tell you how disappointed I am in myself, how pissed off that I've put myself in this situation AGAIN.

So, why did I gain back all the weight? I think the main thing that contributed to my weight gain (my main excuse) was moving in with my girlfriend about a year ago. She eats whatever she wants and doesn't exercise, but she doesn't gorge herself like me. To her, snacking is eating 5 potato chips, to me it's an entire bag. In my single life, I used to not even keep snacks or unhealthy foods around so I couldn't even eat them if I wanted. Anyway, I'm not going to force her to not keep foods around that she likes, I'm just going to have to grow a pair and not eat them, or at least not binge on them.

I'm really worried about trying to lose weight again. I feel like while I was in school, I had such an easier schedule and I could make everything work around my workouts and eating habits. Now, everything revolves around work, and I think it's going to be a lot harder to diet and exercise with my schedule. I have a gym in my apartment complex and in my office, so I don't have many excuses. And I know many of you have probably much worse schedules than me and are making it work.

This site helped me before and I believe it will help me again. I'm going to take some measurements and buy a scale and make some posts and hopefully some of you will keep me accountable. I kicked off this process with 30 minutes on the elliptical machine today. Tomorrow I plan on going grocery shopping and getting some lower calorie food.

I have so many thoughts going through my head that this post probably seemed a little fragmented. Wish me luck.
 
Hi, when I first started to eat healthy I found it difficult to have tempting foods around but after a while it didn't bother me. Maybe you could come to a compromise with your girlfriend and ask her to not eat so many of these types of foods in front of you for the first couple of weeks and to keep them hidden away. It will make the first few weeks much easier and by then you will be more able to resist them.
Good luck, you've done it before and you can do it again. This time you just need to learn how to maintain.
 
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