2bigforTexas
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All right, to start off I began this journey 8 weeks ago at 264 pounds. I now weigh 242. I still have 107 pounds to go to reach my goal of 135 pounds. My set goal date is 4th of July next year. That means about 2.6 pounds per week which I think is a very reasonable and realistic goal. The method I am using is basically not considering this to be a weight loss program at all , but a change in lifestyle. I am making concious decisions on the food I eat and the amounts. I am making a concentrated effort to increase my activity levels. Bascially, I eat as a healthy person, and be active as a healthy person and I am becoming a healthy person. I have spent years being on every kind of diet imaginable and the one thing that made me fail above all else, was the fact that I was constantly have to say you can't have that. You're too fat for that. Then, becoming frustrated, I just gave up. Now, I do not tell myself no, I simply say If I'm going to have that, how much am I going to have and how will I adjust my other food intake to allow it? I don't know if it makes sense to anyone else, but it's working for me, so I'm going to keep it up. I feel like I'm setting myself up for a lifelong change in the way I look at food. Which is a whole lot better than setting myself up for another failure.This is me at 264 pounds