I really like the advice in Korrie's "rant". I think it was in the Newcomers section?
Anyway, I wish you the best in your journey. Congratulations on the 6 lbs you've lost so far!
I strongly believe that the hardest part of losing weight is consistency. It is so easy to tire of a fat-loss regimen and give up too soon. Just stick with your program until your ticker runs out of space.

You can do it!
As for calorie counting, it's really the most effective way to go about it. It's important to eat the right number of calories to fuel your fat-burning machine (your metabolism) while still running a total caloric deficit. This can be tricky, but is necessary for avoiding plateaus.
The good news is that your body will tell you how many calories you're burning. Just measure yourself weekly to determine your body fat percentage. You can multiply your weight by your body fat percentage to determine your "fat mass," or the number of pounds of fat you have on your body. If you subtract your fat mass from your total weight, you'll find out your "lean body mass."
A pound of muscle contains about 600 calories, and a pound of fat contains about 3,500 calories. So, when you track the number of pounds of fat and/or muscle lost or gained each week, you'll know exactly what your deficit was.
If you also track your calorie intake, you can compare it to your fat lost and see how many calories you need to add or subtract from your diet next week.
I know it sounds very complicated, but it's actually just simple arithmetic. Most people would rather just use the "guess and check method." That is also valid, of course, but less scientific. It may take longer to figure out a good calorie goal that way.
Here's the guess and check method:
1. Count your calories for a week.
2. Measure at the end of the week to see how many pounds you lost.
3. If you lost 2 lbs, yay! Set a goal to eat the same daily calories next week for the same results. If you lost 1 lb, you can stick to the same calorie goal or drop it by 500/day if you want to lose 2 lbs. (500 for 7 days equals 1 lb- 3,500 calories.) If you don't lose weight, you can drop your calories next week by 500-1000 per day.
Of course, dropping calories by 1,000 per day is an awful lot unless you're currently binging big time. So, I'd recommend burning an extra 500 per day and cutting calories by 500 to add up to the 1,000 total.