Another Newbie!

Inayah

New member
Hi everyone!

I have recently lost 21 pounds on my own. :D I am very excited of course and for some reason, not everyone shares my excitement and they have not emmersed themselves in health, exercise, and nutrition like I have. I figured it was time to surround myself with like-minded people with the same goals and issues that I have.

For the past 10 years I have fluctuated around 250 pounds. Apparently doctors in the United States consider that weight morbidly obese on a 5'5 frame. It never bothered me until I went to the doctors and weighed in at 277 pounds. Do you think I did anything about it? Nope. I did manage to drop back down to 265 but I think that was just because I was chasing my kids around because it certainly was not because I was watching what I was putting in my mouth. :rolleyes:

I have always had long hair. I have always hid behind my hair and never worried about my weight because people were so obsessed with my hair. Well for some reason I was at the hair dresser one day and decided to cut my hair off. All of it. :eek: My husband cried when he first saw me. I liked the short hair, but every time I looked in the mirror I realized how fat my neck and face were. I couldn't hide anymore. I am glad the short hair fairy took a few lessons from cupid and shot me in the butt because it helped to do the trick.

I also met a few wonderful woman that are into belly dancing. I wondered what all the fuss was about so I decided to try it. As you may realize from the beginning of my post, I was the biggest girl in class. I was so embarrassed to walk in the class, but I did it. When I started learning how to belly dance being self conscious didn't matter. I had a blast. I looked at my body and even though I was fatter then everyone else, I had rhythm. You can get skinny, but you can't 'get' rhythm. :p I don't know what it is about belly dancing, but I fell in love with it. I researched the history, the types, the costumes, the music, you name it. Some day I am going to be on stage shimmying and look darn good doing it.

After getting shot by the short hair fairy and the belly dancing fairy, I somehow found the motivation to start losing weight. I have waited 10 years to find that motivation. If I could bottle it, I would be rich. I am doing a modified version of the diabetic diet along with cutting out bad carbs, fried, fatty, red, and white, you get the picture. I am educating myself about things like high fructose corn syrup, sodium, refined starches, and all the wonderful things people put in our food. I have cut out processed foods and changed to whole and organic foods. My body went into shock. Lol. In a good way though.

I am here to learn from all of you about what has and hasn't worked. I still have a long way to go. I have lost over two 10 pound bags of potatoes. That amazes me when I think about it. I can finally put my hands behind my back and interlace my fingers again. Its the little things you know? :D I am going to do this. I am doing it. No fancy diets, no drugs, nothing. Just exercise and eating right. You put out more then what you put in and wha la! There it goes. Funny how that works. Simple math. Why is it so hard though?

I finally had the courage to put one of those tickers at the bottom of my name. I run my own message board that deals with researching the paranormal. Thats my other passion. :cool: I have dreaded putting a ticker on because I didn't want people to realize how big I am. Well guess what. I am going to do it to keep me honest and to keep me going. I am going to do it and hopefully I can motivate others to get healthy along the way. For the past 10 years I have hardly been the poster child for health, but someday I will be. ;)

I look forward to making some friends. It will be nice to come here on my hard days and get the support and motivation that I need. I hope I can in turn be that for someone else.
 
Im a newbie in here an dI myself have been fighting with weight all my life. Its not an easy thing..even for doctors..(im a recently graduated physician..lol)..About 2 months ago i weighted myself and was shocked to see how fat i had gotten, Ive lost 23 pounds and im planning on loosing 70 more....SO i understand your pain..I hope we can help eachother out...Take care..and keep going...good luck
 
We can do this. :) I cannot imagine with your busy schedule you have a lot of time to prepare foods. I really dislike going out to eat now. I take forever looking at the menus and trying to decide what I can and can't eat.

I do think that you will gain a lot of respect and admiration from your patients that are overweight if you can tell them you have been there and done that. You will definitely be an inspiration. :eek:
 
Ohh thanks im hoping to. SOme of my patients used to look at me like..and youre giving me recomendations for a healthy life??...hahaha..So now i hope they see that it can be done,,..and that I understand them.Ohh and eating out?..i usually just either ask for salad and chicken..or if i do eat something not "allowed" i just work out a bit more afterwads.. Im glad i joined this place today...if its filled with such nice people like you..
 
Ha me to. I have been reading so much. I need to be up belly dancing and working out. There is so much to read and learn! I have been successful with what I have done so far, but I am so afraid I am going to hit a plateau. I definitely need to start a food journal. I don't think I am eating enough.

Do you carry your own salad dressing with you? Some of the non-fat dressings at restaurants are downright nasty. I have been using salsa when its bad, but that gets old to.

*runs off to learn more*
 
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