A Piece of My Mind... Venting and other Stuff

I've long held the belief that just because people can have children -- doesn't mean they should. There are far too many overly selfish, overly stupid, overly inappropriate people out there raising a new generation of half wits...

Much as I'd like to control reproduction, I can't control other people's inability to understand birth control.... However, this wasn't birth control failure.. Some doctor - accepted a lot of money, or an insurance company paid a lot of money to baste a woman who had no business having any more children...
 
lol while I have the feeling that breeding stupid people has been an age old tradition as long as humans have existed, I do believe that medicine has only made this worse...
 
lol while I have the feeling that breeding stupid people has been an age old tradition as long as humans have existed, I do believe that medicine has only made this worse...

:iagree:

In fact, I couldn't have said it better. I just call it the "Stupidification of Mankind" :D
 
CBS) CBS News has learned that the family of the octuplets born this week outside Los Angeles filed for bankruptcy and abandoned a home a little over a year-and-a-half ago.

Early Show national correspondent Hattie Kauffman says the mother is in her mid-thirties and lives with her parents.

There's been no mention of the octuplets' father, Kauffman observes.

The grandfather, she adds, is apparently going to head back to his native Iraq to earn money for the growing family. He told CBS News he's a former Iraqi military man.

Kauffman reported Thursday, and the octuplets' maternal grandmother now confirms to the Los Angeles Times, that the babies' mother already had six young children.

And a family acquaintance had told Kauffman that two of the six other kids are twins, and the six range in age from about two to about seven.

The mother's name is still being kept under wraps.

But her mother, Angela Suleman, also tells the newspaper her daughter conceived the octuplets through a fertility program.

Suleman told the Times her daughter had embryos implanted and, "They all happened to take."

On The Early Show Friday, the scientific director of an Atlanta-area fertility clinic blasted whichever clinic did the implantations, saying he's "stunned."

Doctors at the hospital where the octuplets were born, Kaiser Permanente Bellflower Medical Center in Bellflower, Calif., some 17 miles southeast of L.A., say the patient came to them already three months pregnant.

Asked at a news conference whether fertility assistance should be provided for a mother who already has multiple children, Dr. Harold Henry, part of the team that delivered the octuplets, said, "Kaiser has no policy on that, adding that doctors counseled the woman on her options.

"The options," said Henry, "were to continue the pregnancy or to selectively abort. The patient chose to continue the pregnancy."

Dr. Karen Maples, who also helped deliver the octuplets, read a statement from the mother saying, "My family and I are ecstatic about all of their arrivals."

The woman and her children live in a neighborhood of small, one-story homes, Kauffman reports, all with two-to-three bedrooms at most. Soon, she pointed out, there will be 14 children and at least three adults living in one of the homes -- until the grandfather heads back to his native Iraq,

Kauffman says unanswered questions include where the woman got the fertility treatments and how they were paid for
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On The Early Show Friday, Michael Tucker, scientific director of Georgia Reproductive Specialists, says all these developments leave him "stunned. As the story's unfolded and it's gone from the potential use of just fertility drugs, or misuse thereof, to actual, apparently, IVF (in-vitro fertilization) with transfer of embryos, this is just remarkable to me that any practitioner in our field of reproductive medicine would undertake such a practice."

Tucker, who has a doctorate in reproductive physiology, says it's "absolutely" possible the octuplets' mother got pregnant with them by taking fertility drugs on her own without the help of a clinic, "and that seemed the most plausible scenario, simply because the profession, we're policed by the American Society of Reproductive Medicine, has focused so minutely on the fact that we need to reduce the number of embryos that we transfer. We really are all about seeking the one, the one embryo that's going to make the healthy, single-born baby.

"And this kind of multiple plethora excess of babies is too much of a good thing. And it's rather a slap in the face of the whole profession, simply because it's going in the wrong direction.

"And it's unfortunate, because the media pick up on this and seem to go, I think, Arthur Kaplan from UPenn (University of Pennsylvania) said the media tend to go goo-goo gaga over this and, in fact, it's really a bit of a medical disaster."

"Had she walked into a fertility clinic and said, 'Listen, I've got other children, the oldest seven, the youngest two,' co-anchor Julie Chen asked Tucker, "is there any ethical responsibility on the clinic's part to say, 'I'm not going to treat you,' or, 'You know what? This is not a good idea?" '

"Suffice to say," Tucker responded, "I've been in this business for 25 years now. And it's pretty much standard practice in all clinics to have some form of psychological evaluation of the patient. Also, their sociological circumstances. And I'm stunned, actually, that a clinic would proceed to treat a patient in this circumstance and then even to get to perhaps the transfer of embryos and ponder the transfer in, I believe, the lady's mid-30s, a 35-year-old -- she should be receiving two embryos, maximum, as a transfer into her uterus to have had eight transferred is somewhat -- is extremely irresponsible."

Sounds like this is really a science experiment gone awry...
 
Sounds like this is really a science experiment gone awry...


I agree. If i were to guess, she got hooked up with a Dr. that wanted to try something and offered her money to be the guinea pig. Being desperate for money she agreed and it went bad. I bet the true story will eventually come out. Just have to feel bad for the kids.


Matt
 
News reports today were that California Idiot has had all 14 children thru IVF and never has had a husband. and her mother, didnt think that the last round of IVF was a good idea - and mom also said that her daughter has been obsessed with having children since she was a teenager. OK so now she's a 30 something single mother with 14 kids living under your roof... Wow fine job of parenting that was...

On a different note... Got my wireless network set up at home - I now never have to get my ass off my comfy chair again :D
 
My new favorite infomercial..



Eat for 2 days, and every third day you get to treat... works in theory -but the host of the informercial seriously wants you to believe that on your treat day, you can have an entire pizza or a enormous bowl of ice cream - Some how, I think the reality is that maybe one or two slices of pizza are allowed and a reasonable bowl of ice cream -but hey any meal plan can incorporate that - I don't need to pay 5.95 a week for that info :)

and people utterly amaze me... there are all sorts of posts all over the web for people looking for how this diet works because they don't want to pay the money... Paying the money is what makes the diet effective :D
 
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So, while my lazy ass is planted in the chair last night... My remote control fell and the cat wouldn't retrieve it for me - so instead she switched the channel to E... what was on... a snippet on the Cookie Diet - one of my favorite spammer plugs...



They were going on about this woman who lost 120lbs and was on the cover of People magazine for her magical weight loss because of these cookies... The facts are... she was eating 4000 calories a day prior - of pretty much processed, fast food crap... Her "diet" was just under 1300 calories of lean protein and vegetables... and 6 cookies a day.. now cookies looked kinda nasty - just too healthy looking - if i am going to have 6 cookies a day, they better be Oreos at worst, or my triple chocolate mocha cookies fresh from the oven...

let's see a - person cuts out 2800 calories a day out of their diet - and loses weight - but the cookie is the secret? :D
 
In the beginning, the nation was in awe that a California mother and her army of doctors successfully delivered the second set of octuplets to survive birth in U.S. history. Over the next few days, as the world heard her story and learned more about the family situation of Nadya Suleman, who previously did not want to be named as the mother, awe quickly turned to disgust and outrage.

We’ve learned since the arrival of the octuplets that Nadya lives with her parents and has six other children in a 1550 square foot house. We’ve also learned that she is freshly divorced, and that her estranged ex-husband is not the father of the octuplets. The family, obviously strained by the amount of life being brought into the world by Nadya Suleman, has been having money problems. Nadya’s mother, Angela Suleman, filed for bankruptcy last year when debts soared near one million dollars. Nadya’s father is a translator working in Iraq to help support the family.

Now there are reports that she didn’t conceive any of her children traditionally, but had them all implanted as embryos. In phone interviews, Angela Suleman says she was never supportive of her daughter having all of these embryos implanted without being married. She doesn’t want to have to support so many children. Angela also told press that she didn’t think Nadya would have any more, because all of her frozen embryos have now been used up.

Why did Nadya seek fertility treatments when she already had six children? Is that the cause of the divorce? Why were so many embryos implanted at the same time? Who will pay for these children? These questions and many more have plagued everyone’s minds.

In a statement prepared by Nadya Suleman, she says, “We understand that you are all curious about the arrival of the octuplets, and we appreciate your respect for our family’s privacy. Please know in our own time we will share additional details about this miraculous experience. The babies continue to grow strong every day and make good progress. My family and I are ecstatic about their arrival. Needless to say, the eighth was a surprise to us all, but a blessing as well. We thank all of you for your positive thoughts, prayers, and generosity.

Did she choose to have so many embryos implanted for fame? The hospital reports that it was flooded with gifts and envelopes for the Nadya and her octuplets. She’s been the top topic on the news, in the blogsphere, and on the lips of millions of people.

Angela Suleman stresses that her daughter is not a bad person, but that she just got carried away. She states that Nadya had the embryos implanted in hopes of just one more girl, and since she had left over frozen embryos from her previous In-Vetro treatments, she used them. She also stated that her daughter’s ex-husband is not the father, but that all of the babies share the same donor. She does not know the doctor or the clinic that implanted the embryos in Nadya’s uterus.

Medical experts are furious about whoever made the decision to implant the embryos. At the moment, there are no investigations into doctors or facilities that may have had anything to do with the implanted embryos, and it’s unlikely that there will be because a bad judgment call doesn’t make it a criminal act.

In a statement made by Yolanda Garcia, who cared for Nadya’s autistic son, told the Long Beach Press-Telegram that she asked Nadya how she afforded all of the expensive In-Vetro treatments, and Nadya responded that she was paid for them. Yolanda didn’t press the matter, but thought it was strange.

Friends and family close to Nadya say that all she ever wanted to be was a mom. Nadya is not uneducated. She worked as a psychiatric technician, then was injured and started her family. She attended school and gained her Bachelor of Science degree in child and adolescent development. She returned for her masters, but quit around the time she would have began her pregnancy with the octuplets.

We may never know what drove Nadya Suleman to make the decision to have 14 children. In a phone interview, her mother couldn’t even give an explanation, sighing that she wished Nadya would have become a kindergarten teacher. Now, 14 children will grow up fatherless and crammed into a small home. Nadya, what were you thinking?

This story is like a train wreck - I just cant turn away from it...
 
Mal, you're f'ing hilarious!!!

I absolutely LOVE reading your journal. The best snippet for me today was "My remote control fell and the cat wouldn't retrieve it for me - so instead she switched the channel to E"

I died laughing when I read that. Fuck those cats anyway. They NEVER do what you want them to do :D
 
She's a rotten beast she is... I need to remind her that I saved her butt from the needle -were it not for me - she'd be sleeping with the fishes or something... She better shape up I tell ya :)
 
The thing about cats is they like to lull you into a false sense of security by jumping up on you every now and then and rubbing in to your body, all the while purring away. Then you'll start petting them, caressing them and scratching their butt, and then all of a sudden, right out of nowhere, the cat turns on their back and starts biting and scratching you as though you were their next meal.

The fuckers. Cats are such cold, ungrateful creatures. But they're so nice to have around ;)
 
Octuplets' mom getting book deal, TV show offers

The mother of the world's longest-living octuplets is being deluged with offers for book deals, TV shows and other business proposals, but has not decided what she might do other than care for her children, her newly hired spokeswoman said yesterday. Hundreds of requests have been made since Nadya Suleman gave birth to six boys and two girls a week ago, said Joann Killeen, president of Killeen Furtney Group, a public relations company. But Suleman, who remained hospitalized with her children yesterday at Kaiser Permanente's Bellflower Medical Center in Bellflower, Calif., hasn't decided what she'll do next, Killeen said. Some of the deals and requests for interviews involve offers to pay, said Killeen and her partner, Mike Furtney. They didn't reveal amounts being offered. Suleman, a 33-year-old single mother, already had six children, ages 2 to 7, when she gave birth to her octuplets on Jan. 26.
 
So, while my lazy ass is planted in the chair last night... My remote control fell and the cat wouldn't retrieve it for me - so instead she switched the channel to E... what was on... a snippet on the Cookie Diet - one of my favorite spammer plugs...



They were going on about this woman who lost 120lbs and was on the cover of People magazine for her magical weight loss because of these cookies... The facts are... she was eating 4000 calories a day prior - of pretty much processed, fast food crap... Her "diet" was just under 1300 calories of lean protein and vegetables... and 6 cookies a day.. now cookies looked kinda nasty - just too healthy looking - if i am going to have 6 cookies a day, they better be Oreos at worst, or my triple chocolate mocha cookies fresh from the oven...

let's see a - person cuts out 2800 calories a day out of their diet - and loses weight - but the cookie is the secret? :D

You're just silly. Why would it be the calories. Wouldn't the cookies be the obvious factor at play here?
 
From some silly mailer that I get...

Q: Can the ab machines sold on TV really get rid of "love handles"?

A: One of the many myths of toning "love handles" is that abdominal exercises cause fat loss in a specified area. That you can cause spot-specific reduction of fat could not be further from the truth.

Millions of Americans who have purchased and used abdominal exercise machines in an effort to lose weight around their middles will tell you that their efforts may have been in vain. Abdominal exercise machines can do nothing more than strengthen and tighten the abdominal muscles.

The best way to lose fat is through improved eating habits coupled with cardiovascular exercise. You must understand that performing abdominal exercises can, at best, cause people to lose weight by burning calories of carbohydrates but not calories of fat.

There are two ways to lose fat, one is to perform certain aerobic exercises that will speed up the metabolism and therefore burn fat, and the other is to use a low-fat diet. Many people begin exercising with the expectation that they will lose weight fast, not realizing that their efforts are being wasted if not coupled with diet modification. Knowing this, why do people continue to do abdominal exercises in an attempt to lose weight if it is not physiologically possible?

People in general are misinformed about loss and exercise and do not know any better. Moreover, manufacturers of abdominal exercise machines know this and take advantage of the average person's desperation to lose weight. It is against the law for companies to lie outright about performing abdominal exercises to attain fat loss.

In fine print, you will always see that a healthy nutritional plan should be used in conjunction with the product for best results. So, if you do indeed intend on tightening your "love handles" by using their abdominal exercise, your efforts may be in vain if not coupled with diet modification.

It is possible to attain fat loss on a healthy diet with zero exercise. But it is not possible to lose weight by eating an unhealthy diet even with all the exercise in the world. Fat reduction of the "love handles" can be attained at the fastest rate possible by following a low-fat diet and even faster when combined with certain types of cardiovascular exercises. Why waste time and effort with products that will not help you to tone your abdomen when a combination of exercise and low-fat diet is your best bet or a combination of exercise and low-fat diet will yield the best results.

Note: As always, consult with your health-care provider before beginning any fitness program.
 
You're just silly. Why would it be the calories. Wouldn't the cookies be the obvious factor at play here?
Ok so I'm silly...

Alrightly then -I'm going to order those cookies and see what happens...

I'm also going to order the workout plan - that's the one where you can lose a bazillion pounds by just standing still :)
 
There's a certain company that's in a lot of airports that's known for selling absolutely useless gadgets and other such crap... generally overpriced... first released that product... they were a customer of my company and i happened to have sat thru the first meeting that the buyer was pushing the product... I had to leave the meeting becuse I was in utter disbelief that the company was actually selling sex toys.... and it just made me laugh...
 
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