Please help me in finding a weightlifting program for beginners

The machines are dangerous for the exact reasons you keep stating they are good. They only move in one direct path of motion. How can that be the proper path of motion for EVERYone? It can't. They aren't a saftey, they're often times more detrimental than "safe". With freeweights you can move freely in YOUR proper path of motion for the movement. Freeweights are your buddy.

Derwyddon,

I appreciate your explanation and friendly tone in which you express yourself. At the same time, I disagree.

Personally, I mostly use free-weights...my understanding & belief is that the additional burden to keep them stabilized through the motion adds considerably to the overall impact. I get that, we're on the same page.

Machines (widely dissed by trainers) don't impose such need for stabilization...they move strictly in accordance with their design. Manufacturers contend that the machine guides you through the movement as if a trainer were making sure you're doing the exercise properly...and to some degree this is the case. You question how can they have the proper path for EVERYone???...well, they actually have adjustments to account for various sizes....but I suppose some people, like midgets or giants, fall outside those parameters....so point taken.:rolleyes:;)

When I do standing bicep curls with heavy free-weight, I have to use my abs to help stablize the rising weight, along with my back, shoulders, etc. With the machine, you don't use all those muscles...you sit on a seat, lean your arms over a pad and just work the biceps. I earlier referred to this as isolation, where machines focus on those specific muscles. So the downside is the lack of stabilization, but the upside is that you at least execute the motion properly without risk of injury from doing it wrong....and many people in gyms, including trainers, are seen doing it wrong. There's merit for that, especially for a beginner.

Further my point...if you throw a beginner into a gym and tell them to do curls they'll likely emulate what they've seen, but they're far more likely to swing the weight, not stand properly and erroneously move through the motion with poor form. Nobody can deny that while the machines don't offer the added benefits of requiring stability, they do enforce proper motion and execution of the exercise. I can't recall the last time somebody almost dropped a weight on their head or neck while working on a machine. There is no way a machine is more dangerous then a free-weight. Even with my trainer, I've had a few odd situations with free-weights, but never with a machine.

Free-weights are great, but only in the hands of someone who knows what they are doing OR under the proper supervision of a certified & experienced trainer. Srleahe is nor has either.

Additionally...the notion that Free-weights build and machines only tone...is nonsense. You work a muscle hard and it builds. A muscle can't discern whether a weight is on a machine or free-standing. Weight-training is outstanding and the way to build muscle...but pilates, more advanced, can also do amazing things...but admitedly, not in the same manner.

Srleahe is looking for a good routine for a beginner. I sense she just wants to augment her gym experience, step it up a degree and start working against weights...not become the next female body-building champion. There's nothing wrong with circuit training through a network of machines to hit all the major muscle groups; the exercise & benefit is there. Along with yoga & pilates it can and will lead to a wonderful body.

What she doesn't need is a bunch of egomaniacs slamming her with offensive criticism and belittling her interest & efforts. I'm embarrassed for this forum on that count.

Srleahe....if you talk to 3 trainers you'll get 4 different opinions! It's so typical, they all disagree and dis eachother. I've worked with and know many...and on the whole they tend to be flaky people driving leased cars who somehow got lost in the shuffle of finding a real career. Many, like Soccer (a scrotum-sucking rectal wart) will stand on their mountain of knowledge and cast down disparaging remarks trying to sell you a bill of good that you can only order from their menu.

Much like the church tried to convince people that only through them can you find salvation, so too will trainers try to convince you that fitness can only come through them. "okay, 11, breath, good...give me one more, 12, good job!":rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

As I mentioned before, your gym will likely offer a free introductory session...ask for an all-around routine and get into it. Over time you'll pick-up more, meet others who can help and develop nicely. It's not rocket-science, after all, these tools are making a living selling it.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm about to get flamed by a bunch of losers who probably don't make in a year a fraction of what I pay in taxes....and whose clients haven't made as much progress in a year as I've made in 4 months. Flame on!!:SaiyanSmilie_anim:
 
I'm about to get flamed by a bunch of losers who probably don't make in a year a fraction of what I pay in taxes....and whose clients haven't made as much progress in a year as I've made in 4 months.

Congratulations on being super-awesome. Way to go.
 
What she doesn't need is a bunch of egomaniacs slamming her with offensive criticism and belittling her interest & efforts. I'm embarrassed for this forum on that count.

Srleahe....if you talk to 3 trainers you'll get 4 different opinions! It's so typical, they all disagree and dis eachother. I've worked with and know many...and on the whole they tend to be flaky people driving leased cars who somehow got lost in the shuffle of finding a real career. Many, like Soccer (a scrotum-sucking rectal wart) will stand on their mountain of knowledge and cast down disparaging remarks trying to sell you a bill of good that you can only order from their menu.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm about to get flamed by a bunch of losers who probably don't make in a year a fraction of what I pay in taxes....and whose clients haven't made as much progress in a year as I've made in 4 months. Flame on!!:SaiyanSmilie_anim:

Have I got this straight ?

You make an inappropriate comment like .......


" Soccer (a scrotum-sucking rectal wart ) "​


...and then you turn right around and refer to some other members on this forum as a " bunch of losers " ?

Oh, and you may want to take another course in logic because making a lot of money and paying a lot of taxes isn't isn't a mutually exclusive condition to being a " loser ".

Someone can actually make a lot of money and pay a lot of tax and still be a world class " loser " - all at the same time.
 
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wow please dont listen to any of this

or most of this either

Yeah...I did. He annoyed me and the thread originator...that's a turd in my book.

Wrangell...you know a lot and you try to help, but as a few members of this board have told me, you come off as a know it all and above us all. Dial in some human factor and work on your smile muscles: cold, distant and surly is no way to go through life.

I'm NOT calling everyone losers, just those who flame, humiliate and mock others for expressing an opinion other then what they believe. It's not right to make others feel like an idiot or fool just because they say something that you don't agree with. That's what happened here and you can rationalize it any way you want. Being right about something doesn't give anyone the right to slam it over someone else's head. Righteousness doesn't give rights to being abusive.

People should post in the same manner as they would talk to someone in person, e-attitudes are wrong. I was really looking forward to enjoying this forum but that sense of fun & learning was crushed by ego's, arrogance and a seemingly silent game of who knows more & better.

Phate, FF and many others have been great....you guys couldn't be uncool if you tried. Sorry if I shot-gunned and hit some collateral damage.

If I ask questions I'm ridiculed or interogated like I'm ignorant. If I try to answer questions there's a panel of experts looking to shoot me down. Where's the fun? Not here.
 
Srleahe,

First, I am not a trainer. I am a scientist who happens to enjoy fitness as therapy and to lose weight, got hooked and now is preparing for some triathlons in '08. That said, take what I say with a grain of salt; it is based only on my observations.

Unfortunately, you touched a raw nerve here that was exacerbated by others. There are many types of persons on this forum and they tend to fall into three categories; those who wanna be strong, those who wanna be chiseled, and those who wanna compete in athletic events. I fall into the last category.

Personally, I don't use weights or machines much except to work on my pecs, biceps, and triceps and those are mainly for vanity. For workouts, I cycle (50 - 150 miles / week), run (up to 15 miles / week) and have started swimming (up to 5000 m / week).

If you go to any cycling forum you would be thoroughly bitch-slapped for suggesting any more than a modest use of weights. "Time spent in a gym is wasted time that wasn't spent on a bike" is the mantra of cycling coaches. Personally, I don't want to have arms that can clean out a Hoover vacuum cleaner hose, but that is my preference. On the other hand, my resting heart rate of 54 which is fantastic for a 48yo man like me pales in comparison to the 44 heart rates of comparable cyclists.

So, there are different definitions of "fit" in my opinion and different ways to effect it.

Now, back to your case.

How long have you been on your yoga / pilates / program? Have you given it enough time to lose weight? If so, you might want to stay the course. If not, a balance of weights / cardio worked well for my wife (35 pounds in 1 year) and the other clients of the personal trainer my wife uses.

Or, start preparing for a triathlon. There is no way you can train 1 - 2 hours / day without losing weight, gaining strength and great endurance.
 
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What she doesn't need is a bunch of egomaniacs slamming her with offensive criticism and belittling her interest & efforts. I'm embarrassed for this forum on that count.

People didn't belittle her interest and efforts. They belittled her bad attidude and refusal to accept any or be grateful for any advice. She came on here for one reason; to be told what she already thought to be true.
 
I'm NOT calling everyone losers, just those who flame, humiliate and mock others for expressing an opinion other then what they believe. It's not right to make others feel like an idiot or fool just because they say something that you don't agree with.

Righteousness doesn't give rights to being abusive.

People should post in the same manner as they would talk to someone in person, e-attitudes are wrong.

I see....

. Many, like Soccer (a scrotum-sucking rectal wart)

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm about to get flamed by a bunch of losers who probably don't make in a year a fraction of what I pay in taxes....and whose clients haven't made as much progress in a year as I've made in 4 months.

Hmmm, that's nice, you kind of lost any moral highground there. The comment about your earnings was real class too :D
 
Yeah...I did. He annoyed me and the thread originator...that's a turd in my book.

Wrangell...you know a lot

I don't happen to think I do.....but thanks anyway.:)

and you try to help

I try - as do many others.

but as a few members of this board have told me, you come off as a know it all and above us all.

Actually, they're mistaken..... I don't know nearly half as much as I think I do...and compared to many others on this forum...I actually know very very little.

And, I'm not ' above ' anyone ...in fact, the majority of members on this forum are - if anything - are way way above me !

Dial in some human factor and work on your smile muscles: cold, distant and surly is no way to go through life.

How I, you - or anyone on this forum " goes through life " - is irrelevant.

That said, I'm no more or less " cold, distant and surly " than you are.;)

I'm NOT calling everyone losers, just those who flame, humiliate and mock others for expressing an opinion other then what they believe.

First of all, I never said you called ' everyone ' losers - I simply referred to " some other members "

Secondly, I simply don't think there is any place in this forum for ' name-calling '.......such as " losers ", " scrotum-sucking rectal wart " , " a turd ".......but that's just me.

However, if you want to ' attack ' something...then attack the arguments, logic, facts of the text in a post.

It's not right to make others feel like an idiot or fool just because they say something that you don't agree with
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I agree.

Then why do you say things in such a manner of language that it might " make others feel like an idiot or fool just because they say something that you don't agree with " ?


That's what happened here and you can rationalize it any way you want. Being right about something doesn't give anyone the right to slam it over someone else's head. Righteousness doesn't give rights to being abusive
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I never said your posts were " abusive " ...I simply found your harsh language / ' name-calling ' - i.e " scrotum-sucking rectal wart " - gratuitous in nature and unwarranted.

People should post in the same manner as they would talk to someone in person, e-attitudes are wrong.

I agree. And in all my years in business, I never referred to people as ...

" loser ",
" scrotum-sucking rectal wart "
" a turd "
" goobers "

I was really looking forward to enjoying this forum but that sense of fun & learning was crushed by ego's, arrogance and a seemingly silent game of who knows more & better.

Funny....I find this to be one of the few forums that isn't plagued by " ego's, arrogance and a seemingly silent game of who knows more & better "

If I ask questions I'm ridiculed or interogated like I'm ignorant.

Others might.

But I would disagree - I've found the vast majority of your questions and input in this forum to be excellent and relevant.
 
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the machines can be adjusted, but you can't adjust it so you get your exact natrual rom. you can only adjust it so for example the bench bar is at the "right" place on your upper abs when you press, but the machine still controls what line the movement goes. Also, most people won't be able to adjust it to where it should be for them. And movements don't always go straight up and straight down, like people think they do. But machines usually only go straight up and stranght down..
 
the machines can be adjusted, but you can't adjust it so you get your exact natrual rom. you can only adjust it so for example the bench bar is at the "right" place on your upper abs when you press, but the machine still controls what line the movement goes. Also, most people won't be able to adjust it to where it should be for them. And movements don't always go straight up and straight down, like people think they do. But machines usually only go straight up and stranght down..

Good point.

I agree - the unique of ' plane of motion ' you see on a given machine may not be the same as the ' plane of motion ' the person using it would ' optimally ' use.

In most cases a person's body will alter a ' plane of motion ' in a free weight exercise to allow for the most efficient movement of a joint or muscle ( i.e do what feels most comfortable ).

If it can't do that because a plane of motion on a machine is fixed, you increase the risk of injury IMO.
 
In my view, machines may be good for people recovering from injuries who still want to keep a routine going.

But for most, they use machines because they are afraid to pick up the weights and learn the exercises. I was one of those people for a few years...
 
Hmmm, where to begin.

Addressing what others see as my inability to accept help from others and giving appreciation to those that have offered advice...
I have tried to thank everyone here for their advice but when they give advice on something that I believe they do not understand and be an ass about it, I will try to set it straight with my opinion that they are ill-informed. I hardly consider myself to be rude especially compared to how all of you bitch at and about each other.

I understand that there were many answers to my question but since I posted that I had implemented that advice and was grateful for it I hardly thought there would continue to be a mudslide of criticism by everyone to one another.


I am not 'hoighty toighty' and I take offense to that since I am just trying to defend my opinions about what has worked for me in the past but I don't have the financial means to continue with. I have lost weight and gained a great deal of flexibility and muscular strength with the advanced classes of pilates and yoga.
Also, why would I pay for something when all I have to do is a little research and find some people who know? If I paid for it and then found this site how dumb would that be.

The only direct quote I would like to address because it sums up my opinion of this forum;
"Funny....I find this to be one of the few forums that isn't plagued by " ego's, arrogance and a seemingly silent game of who knows more & better "" - Wrangell

If this isn't a forum of egoism and arrogance I would hate to read any other threads.

I thought I could come here and gain knowledge understanding and possibly even some support from this community. I was very wrong to expect people to be different here. Some of you have helped me a lot and I appreciate it. Even those that have turned on me based on me defending myself. I will no longer be checking this forum because I do not feel the need to defend myself amongst people I have never met and probably will never meet in my entire life. Best of luck in all of your endeavors and in your fitness.
 
Some of you are just too aggressive, and because of you members are being turned off from the forum and leaving because the drama you are creating. You know who you are.
 
The comment about your earnings was real class too :D

It happens. When people try to belittle me I sometimes retort by leveraging my success/wealth against their accuasation that I'm a loser. It always feels icky afterwards...must learn to control it! ;)

I don't happen to think I do.....but thanks anyway.:)

You are, by my observation, one of the most knowledgible & insightful people on this forum...there's no denynig it. But honestly, the means in which you dispatch your advice feels (to me) extremely cold, distant and a bit arrogant (by virtue of the way you respond/quesiton people). Perhaps it's the way I'm reading into it, but there seems to be a consensus. Someone asks a question and they get a slap in the face with their answer. Pretty much the reason I stopped asking questions here....

I've found the vast majority of your questions and input in this forum to be excellent and relevant.

That's almost more shocking to hear then it is flattering....I never would imagine you having that impression. Pretty much leaves me wondering why others are highlighting my entire paragraph and openly condemning it as ridiculous and something to be ignored....which pretty much spawned my rampage/response.

The unique of ' plane of motion ' you see on a given machine may not be the same as the ' plane of motion ' the person using it would ' optimally ' use.

At the same time, most beginners are prone to having poor or wrong form....at least the machine can ensure, to some degree, proper path/motion. And yes, the body might have a different motion...but it could be the motion that takes focus away from the muscle you intend to work. Look how often people lift wrong, and that's their natural movement...doesn't make it right.

I'm still an advocate of free-weights over machines, but I can't help but sense an unbiased disregard for machines value. What they lack in some areas, they make up for in others. They're not the best, but they are far from the evil purported here.


Some of you are just too aggressive, and because of you members are being turned off from the forum and leaving because the drama you are creating. You know who you are.

Bingo

Don't think so.

Think so


I'm sorry if I got upset...but this isn't the first time I've spent the time to try to help someone only to find some smug insensitive person to openly humilliate me by highlighting my entire paragraph and striking it down. It's one thing to offer an explanation, disagree or question...but to just suggest the whole thing be ignored is just rude & wrong. As for my retort, much of it is laced with humor...come on, scrotum-sucking rectal wart is pretty whacked a term...lifted it from South Park.

I came here to learn, laugh, discuss and share...to find inspiration and give inspiration. Phate is right, and it's not just with me. I've seen other newbies accosted under the guise of good intentions. People looking for help are more vulnerable to criticism. I know what I see, read & feel...I don't have to prove it for it to be real. I came here with a lot of enthusiasm & interest, at this point I hardly post and only occassionally drop in...and that's fine...in some manner it inspires me to CONTINUE my progress in the face of evidently knowing nothing and having it all wrong.
 
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