Dukes said:
its harder for those of us who aren't bless with a fast metabolism to just simply run and eat correctly.
right, im not having a dig in anyway, but
i dont believe what ive quoted above. i do believe it can be a lot harder for some people to burn off excess weight BUT everyone can do it. the key is being clever about it and being best prepared.
diet pills are as much a mindset as anything else; they are not a long term solution. exercise and diet control (not dieting as in weightwatchers etc) put you in a position where you are best able to keep weight off by focusing on being healthy, rather than 'thin'.
i really do appreciate the difficulties for some people; but diet pills are and always will be an ill advised excuse for getting healthy naturally.
we all have to face a certain amount of embarrassment when exercising, irrespective of weights or goals. i personally have far more respect for those people who look like they are struggling the most at the gym but are working their backsides off.
the key problem is that it will take a lot of time to lose weight - everybodys body will react differently, whether you gain weight before you lose, lose straightaway or not at all in the short term.
you have to focus on being healthy - no excuses, a lot off willpower and more work than you think you can possibly do; but it will all be worth it in the end.
i certainly did not have a 'fast metabolism' but have developed it over time through changes in my lifestyle.
good luck!