willpower and bingeing!!

rozzi222

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Hello,
So I am a healthy weight, well im in the recommended BMI bit with 21.74.
However I am unhappy with the way I look after a stressful year, and havent done any of the exercise i used to and have been eating badly so I have put on weight to my current BMI, where as I used to be about 10 stone 5.
Hard getting back into but the exercise is going well, its just the diet!!??
I do well for about 2 weeks or so, losing quite a bit, then I go travelling down to my old place, friends and boyfriends and get really tired, or everyone comes over to mine and we are cooked unhealthy meals which I just can't refuse in front of everyone else. Thats not the main worry, but when I'm tired and travelling about and feeling a bit sad about leaving old friends and boyfriend behind, its like something lets go and I say "oo just have a bit of chocolate, you need the energy", and then it just escalates til I find all day I'm doing nothing and eating rubbish food which I used to love when I was young and deny myself of now.
For instance this weekend I went back and went out, then travelled back the next day for a 12-9 shift and then a 10-6 shift the next day, and found I was so tired I woke up just wanting to eat loads and relaxing with a good book, so much so til I felt sick, and no interest in cooking nice food. I even have healthy snacks, but I am bored of them and eating an entire box of poptarts seem the better option!! This is not healthy and have probably put on all the weight I've lost.
I want to eat healthily long term and keep to a good weight like I did before but it seems so hard especially moving about so much now, and just think, oo lose the weight for summer, and obviously its a good idea to have a goal but then its something that is good to keep forever, to keep healthy, but that seems quite depressing that I have to limit my very sweet tooth and can't have massive pigout days (probably a good idea not to really, theyre so unproductive)...its a surprise I'm not overweight with all the sweet stuff I like and I know if I let myself go every day with food I most definitley would be overweight!! Maybe I should get diet pills??gah!
Please help.
Thanks
 
Well, unfortunately I don't think diet pills are going to help. If you can stop yourself from being hungry, that's great, but it sounds more like you eat because you like to eat that food.

I understand because I'm right there with you. I love eating yummy food. Unfortunately, this requires self control. Aside from flat out saying 'no, I won't eat it' the most helpful thing I've found is to procrastinate. Well... you know, I can have some pizza later but not right now. Let me go have a glass of water and do this chore first. I can have some chocolate - but I'm comfy right now. Maybe I'd be better off having a handful some salad.

The other part is realizing that just because you give in and have something 'bad' that doesn't mean you've fallen off the wagon and may as well just eat whatever you want. Ok, so you give in and eat a chocolate bar. Just eat less at dinner and don't have dessert and that's it. You can have your chocolate bar and still lose weight! What you can't have is 5 chocolate bars and 2 liters of soda and some cheesecake and pizza and and... every day and still lose weight. If you get into the mind set of "Well, I already ate one bad thing today better call today a cheat day and eat everything else I can think of that I normally hold off on" then you're in trouble. If you just shrug and say "Oh well, I made a poor food choice once, but just because I ate the donut instead of the fruit bar it doesn't mean I have to eat the brownie and the pasta instead of something healthier the rest of the day." Now that me eating something bad = afterwards I'm really careful with my food I'm way way better off then when I had the 'I'll get back on the wagon tomorrow' mentality.
 
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