What is happening? I'm so confused

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spicegirl

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Hi there,

I am new to the forum, I thought I'd give this a shot since reading 328746824 articles only confused me more. Here it goes. I am 35, have been exercising and staying healthy for the past 15 years or so, maintaining a pretty steady weight (around 120 lbs, I am 5'3", last time I had the test done my BF was around 23-24)). I am an meso/endomorph, I build muscle quite easily, I do some weight exercises occasionally but usually stick to elliptical (I sit for 8 hours at my job) about 3-4 times a week. In the past 6 months I have been gaining weight. I am currently around 128, which doesn't seem like much, but the only time I ever went over 122 was when I was pregnant. Now I am steadily reaching new points on the scale and wondering what's been going on. A few things I should mention:
1. I tend to undereat and then binge on sweets. Before you're like 'a-ha!' I should say that I'd been doing it ever since I remember and it never affected my weight; in the past few months I've been trying to meet my calorie goals and eat healthier, therefore minimizing the nighttime snack binges. I try to eat around 1800 calories a day, I struggle with protein, but try to get close to 'enough'. Most days I still fall under my goal. I had to consciously start eating more because I was always cold and had severe hair loss due to anemia and not enough protein in my diet.
2. I am often bloated and constipated; I drink a lot of water and do not use salt;
3. My measurements have gone up as well; I am worried because although I've always had strong muscly legs, the inches never went up. I did go up in the resistance on the elliptical recently, in the spirit of 'you bulk up first and then the muscles burn the fat', but I also read a ton of articles debunking it and saying that I may need to go no-or-low- resistance to slim the legs down and just do cardio. I can't run because of my bad knees.
4. My stomach is also expanding. I use the MFP food log and I always round up the calories, to make sure I don't log too few. I cannot make myself eat less than 1800 because I don't want to end up with an eating disorder again.

Please help! What do I do? I have finally got the courage to do the InBody test tomorrow; I am freaking out because I know the weight will be so much higher than all my previous ones. I want to know if everything I put on was fat? Last time I did InBody it basically said I was perfect- didn't need to lose weight or gain any muscle. And I loved that weight.
 
Hey @spicegirl

I think one of the problems is that your metabolism is slowing down. Most people's metabolism slows down as they age.
Anyway, your BMI shows that you have a normal weight. So don't freak out. It's good you noticed the changes and are willing to act.

I believe that the best solution to all your problems is to develop the habit to eat regularly. A daily meal schedule that can look like this: Breakfast, Snack 1, Lunch, Snack 2, Dinner. 3 hours in between each meal it's ideal. In this way, you'll keep your body always nourished.

If you love sweets, eat them in the morning and no more during the day. Doing this, your body has all day at disposal to burn those calories, because you're active in the daytime, compared with eating sweets in the evening and then going to sleep.

Also, to help to release fat, don't do cardio. Do HIIT (high-intensity interval training)
 
Hey @spicegirl

I think one of the problems is that your metabolism is slowing down. Most people's metabolism slows down as they age.
Anyway, your BMI shows that you have a normal weight. So don't freak out. It's good you noticed the changes and are willing to act.

I believe that the best solution to all your problems is to develop the habit to eat regularly. A daily meal schedule that can look like this: Breakfast, Snack 1, Lunch, Snack 2, Dinner. 3 hours in between each meal it's ideal. In this way, you'll keep your body always nourished.

If you love sweets, eat them in the morning and no more during the day. Doing this, your body has all day at disposal to burn those calories, because you're active in the daytime, compared with eating sweets in the evening and then going to sleep.

Also, to help to release fat, don't do cardio. Do HIIT (high-intensity interval training)
Thanks Valentin. I usually do HIIT - I think that's the reason my muscle has gotten rather large. I did the InBody test yesterday and sure enough - I am at at least 104% muscle for each body part. I will try no intensity cardio for a few weeks and see what happens.
 
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