weight gain/divorce

tefeather

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I am recently divorced. The last 18 months have been really hard on me. I have been going through depression, and i guess to make me feel better i have been eating a lot. Candy especially. I never use to eat candy, sweets. I use to exercise alot.
I am making way through the depression and i have started to excercise again. But I know the food part is mental. When i am alone, i keep telling myself if i eat no one will no. But i do. I fell guilty and extremely fat, and embarrassed. I could sit down and eat a whole bag of candy, 16 ounce, and keep telling myself that no one will notice if i put a few pounds on. What they won't see me do, they won't find out about.
How do i get past this, how do i refocus?
 
How do i get past this, how do i refocus?

YOu have to tell yourself that you're going to do it.. .no one can make you do anything that you aren't ready to do...

you could start by not buying the 16 oucne bags of candy - there's nothing wrong wtih sweets - get a single serving package and enjoy and savor it...

Moderation...

and if you're feeling bad about getting divorced - get out and do something fun for yourself...
 
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