Wedding dress help

Hello, I am new to the forums, I may post an intro later on in the correct area. Although, I am not sure if this is the correct spot to post this question :D If not, I apologize for my newbness.

I have a question of inch loss. I know that every person is different, but I am just looking for a best guess. I will provide as much information as I can think of feel free to ask anything you can think of that will help.

Teenage years I could eat 3000 to 5000 calories a day and not gain a pound. In high school, I wanted to join the airforce and fly. According to them, I needed to gain 15 pounds to fly for my height (ironically I am now at that weight). I won't bore you with all that I ate, I will just tell you that I would eat half a pizza for a late night snack and the other half for a pre breakfast snack. Seriously, it was a lot of food. I lost 5 pounds after 6 weeks of that.

Early 20's I still ate crap and never worked out, but I did have jobs where I was walking all day. i maintained the size and weight I was at 14 until I was 26. Even through an 8 month period where I ate potato chips, salsa and icecream all day and watched 16 hours of tv a day. My only exercise was laundry.

Then the late 20's hit. I still have the high metabolism that I had before. However, I started adding beer and white bread to my daily diet. I went from a job where I was on my feet walking all day (serving) to a job where I sit in a nice desk all day. I make more money and that means I can afford those nice sauces on my shrimp and more expensive (heavier) beer. I have gained about 10-15 pounds in the last year.

If you ask anyone other than my immediate family, they will tell you I am underweight. This is due to the fact that I have skinny arms, calfs and my face doesn't show the weight gain. Even with this weight gain, I have only gained an inch on my chest. However, I can not get my pants that I wore 13 months ago over the mid point in my thighs. It seems that I have gained all of my weight in my lower body. My family of course has seen me in a bathing suit and can tell the weight gain.

I would like to lose that 10-15 pounds I have gained. I believe I am on the right path with making healthy food choices and working out. I lost 4 pounds in the last three weeks and I have kept it off. I can already tell a difference in my waist.

My dilemma: I am getting married in 6 months. I would like to be 12 pounds lighter or at least be in shape and firmed up by June for my final fitting of my dress. If I continue to lose 1-2 pounds a week I will be at my goal, no problem. But am I going to lose the weight all over, or will it usually fall off the place that it went to first? I've never tried to lose weight before, so I am not sure how that works. I can't lose more than an inch in my chest area. My dress will be too big. I can however lose as much as I want in my hips, thighs, and waist and no one will be able to tell. I know some women complain that they always lose the weight up top first. Is this always the case? I only gained an inch up there.

Next question is, what's the best thigh and butt exercise I can do to firm up and lose fat? Is walking and the steps the best way still?

Thanks in advance for the help. Sorry, it was a long post. I thought if I supplied my history that it would help you guys make good guesses.
 
But am I going to lose the weight all over, or will it usually fall off the place that it went to first? I've never tried to lose weight before, so I am not sure how that works. I can't lose more than an inch in my chest area. My dress will be too big. I can however lose as much as I want in my hips, thighs, and waist and no one will be able to tell. I know some women complain that they always lose the weight up top first. Is this always the case? I only gained an inch up there.

Unfortunately, you can't pick and choose where you want to lose weight. It just happens. Hell, if I could choose where the weight would come off, I wouldn't have man breasts or a Homer Simpson belly.
 
Like Chef said, unfortunately, you can't choose where you lose weight from. Every person is different, so where a lot of other women lose weight in their bust area, you may not, but then again you might. If you only gained an inch there when you gained weight, you might only lose an inch there when you lose weight. It's just something you cannot control.

Either way, sticking to your diet and exercise the goal of losing 10-15 lbs in six months is definately an attainable goal. I'm sure you'll look great for your wedding!

Good luck on your weight loss journey :)
 
Thanks for the replies. I talked to my future sister-in-law and she said the same. We now have a backup plan if I do lose weight up there.

Update is, I am pretty sure that I am losing weight in my waist and not much up top. The last couple days, I have noticed my pants fitting really loose. Today I can almost slide them off without unbuttoning them. But my bras are stll fitting the same.

So, wish me luck. But there's always padding for up top :D
 
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