I woke up one day and said to myself "I'm sick of being fat." At my heaviest, I felt that I was the past the point of no return, so I didn't even TRY to start. I felt like I was in too deep.
By the time my husband deployed this past September, I had already taken off some weight without trying...by simply getting off of the depo-shot. BUT, I still had a long way to go. I thought "I will never have a better opportunity to do this." So I did it! In September/Octoberish I cracked down and started counting calories. I counted a lot on freedieting.com with their calorie and BMI calculators. I did not exercise at ALL until January.
The biggest thing? I looked at it like a life-style change. I was realistic. I always wanted to take diet pills for a quick fix. Or something that I didn't have to WORK at. But I needed to get REAL with myself.
I did not take diet pills. I did not starve myself. I drank a LOT of water (that's pretty much all I drink with a here-and-there exception of Crystal Light.) I ate my french fries if I wanted to, but not right away. The first month or two, I took it very seriously. When I started to understand myself, and the way I worked, I allowed myself that splurge. But that took a while. I learned that I could not even BUY chips, soda, brownie mix. Simply because...I would eat it. I learned to think before I put things in my mouth.
I could go on and on forever, but a couple pointers:
* EDUCATE YOURSELF! I have spent HOURS AND HOURS online researching on freedieting.com and fitnessmagazine.com
* FIND HEALTHY ALTERNATIVES! I like "crunch". I bought rice cakes. I like "sweet". I'll eat yogurt. (you get the point...)
* BABY STEPS! I set a SMALL goal. In September, my goal was to lose 20 lbs by Christmas Day. On Christmas Day, my next goal was to be below 200 lbs (about another 25 lbs.) by Memorial Day. I'm 4 lbs away from that second one now! So, small goals is a key.
* BE REALISTIC! I submitted to my cravings when I felt them, but only in moderation. If I had that brownie, I watched the rest of the day. I gave a little here and took a little there. Again, just being realistic.
* FIND SUPPORT! I found someone I could go to to celebrate with. We all need the encouragement. You deserve to feel good about yourself when you accomplish such HUGE things!
I'm sure there are many more tips, but I'll leave it at that. And THAT....is how I came this far. And that is how I will go further. I'm so excited

And SO happy I found this website!!!