Time to finally do this!

BMG101786

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Hey all.

My name is Brian, I am a 20 year old college student and I've had a problem with obesity since I was about 14 years old. I have always denied the fact that I was overweight because I have always felt in good health. In the past couple years I have encountered a reaccuring problem with my ankles and knees. The pressure I put on them on a daily basis is becoming too much and I am constantly prone to sprains and twists.

It was last week when I decided it was time to make a life change, not just go on a 'diet', I am still young and if I get in good health I feel like I can really live my life more completely.

A little about me and my eating habits:

My weight right now is somewhere around 430 lbs. :eek2:

I feel like I do carry that much weight better than most that size, but that doesn't make me feel better about myself. I actually could very well weigh more than that at this point because it has been a couple months since I've weighed in and I definately have not been LOSING any.

On a daily basis I eat A LOT. And I also tend to eat foods that are easy, affordable, and greasy... As I said, I'm a student, so that's easy enough. I don't want to even START to get in to what I used to eat on daily basis because the list goes on and on... I can say though that I've estimated at times in upwards of 8000-10000 calories.

I basically get no excercise. during the school year I walk to class Monday-Thursday and between classes, but things don't get much more intense than that. I am also active in the theatre and get some random excercise when working and doing theatre.

I am ready to lose this weight. I have tried dieting before and once on Atkins I lost about 20 lbs in three weeks with no excercise. I have realized that if I can commit to this, I can probably drop the weight fairly quickly.

The hard part with me is that commitment. I use food as a tool to keep me from being bored. It's the only coping mechanism I really know for any problem I have. I most of all use it for comfort. And, I love food. Part of the challenge in this diet is for me to eat good food. If I'm eating bad food, I just won't be able to do this. Luckily I like to cook so I hope to find ways to cook healthy but great food.

My initial plan is to lose 120 lbs. I am 6'3 and at 300 lbs, I am still very much overweight, but it is a goal that I think is reasonable at this point. As I said though, this is a life change and not a diet, so I am hoping to continue to lose until I am down at a healthy maintainable weight.

I have read so many different methods for weight loss and have sort of drawn the conclusion that healthy foods, excercise, and nutrition is the key.

I know most of you will tell me to count calories and be really specific with my regiment, but I have trouble commiting to things like counting calories, so my initial plan for this diet is to eat when I'm hungry, but lower portions than usual, and only certain foods. At this point I feel like any drastic change in diet and excercise should have a positive effect considering what I do now. I feel challenged also because when it comes to fruits and vegetables there are few I REALLY enjoy.

My food list is as follows:
Only water for drink (No pop, no juice, no milk)
Bananas
Apples
Celery
Egg Whites
Low-Fat Cheese
Low-Fat Yogurt
Fat Free Turkey
99% Fat Free Ham
American Cheese
Low fat cheddar cheese
Onion
Green Pepper
Mixed Greens
Low Fat Ranch Dressing
Low Fat Mayonnaise
Healthy Choice White Bread
Salsa
Turkey Bacon
Steak fajita Pieces
Pretzels
Peanut Butter
Applesauce
Pears
Lean full chicken breasts

My Excercise plan is this:
I have already started with 100 situps and 50 pushups a night. I bought a pass today to a place to workout, and beginning tomorrow I plan to work out 4 times a week for at least an hour. This will consist of heavy cardio either biking or eliptical. I will still continue to do my pushups and situps every evening.

Obviously, when weight starts to come off I plan on mixing in weight training with my workout plan.

Yes I am in college, and yes I do occasionally drink. I have decided to only drink on Friday and Saturday nights and try to keep with clear liquors, but I know that will be a struggle. I have also thrown in the opportunity to have one cheat dinner a week, also on the weekend, provided that I worked out that day and will work out the next morning.


I am excited for the challenge to lose this weight but I am also very nervous and have already had many challenges and temptations. I love Food Network and tonight I was watching a special on an American Pizza Festival and was ready to order a pizza and was really having a struggle, but instead ate a few pretzel sticks and came here to write an introduction to the forum. These first few weeks are going to be challenging and I need all the encouragement and tips I can get.

I have provided an honest (longwinded) and concise introduction because I would really appreciate words of encouragement, concern, and tips concerning my diet and excercise plan.

I love reading these boards and I feel as if they will be a vital and working part in this journey.

-Brian
 
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Good Luck Brother!~

good luck man i wish you the best and yes ur right it is very hard, and im no student but i work night shift and live about 30 miles from where i work so i pretty much have time to sleep and then get up take ashower and head to work therefore no time to prepare healthy meals for me thoughout the night or anything and the people i work with well 2 of the are skinny and the other one is old and fat and she dont care WHAT she eats cause she eats a box of cookies a night along with our FAST food that we always eat .........but u know im not quite 430 lbs im @ 270 right now and yet its still hard cause when we run we run as far as we can and then get disappointed in ourselves cause we couldnt go as far as we would have hoped we could and things....but look add me to your friends list or whatever and i have myspace .....and i gotta alot of weight to lose as well and would like to do it pretty quick cause im goin to the police academy here in a few weeks and any weight lost and any improvements in my physical ability would be nothing but a step forward for me! ..........so im right here with ya man i dont have any close friends that wanna diet or need to diet for that matter so i dont have a workout partner to the extent that i needa workout....but good luck and look brother your gonna slide u no and yes itll be dissappointing after you eat 4 slices of that pizza ..."yes it tasted good, but now i feel bad cause ive blown my whole diet" NO!!!! jus shrug it off and go for a good healthy run/walk kinda appologize to your body u know then walk it off and pick up where u left off !!! and go through here and look at all of the before and after pictures those have inspired me the most some of these people have REALLY changed and not one of them is for the worst .......i mean they look better feel better and most of all there OVERALL health is better....thas all were shooting for !! better health happier life....and whatever you consider happiness is your business .....ima lose weight cause i wanna go to the beach and take my shirt off and not feel shy or embarresed ....now to the next guy that may not be an issue but i wanna be comfortable in my own skin for a change!!! so good luck and keep us updated and i will as well!! ........happy losing!:cool:
 
Do check out the nutrition forum for some sensible guidelines - the stickied threads will give ou some ideas.. and also set yourself up an account at or one of the many free food journal sites out there.. .just looking at your food list - what really got my attention is the amount of sodium in some of those items... fat free/reduced fat products don't necessarily mean healthier - what generally gets shoved in there is a whole lot of sodium... fat isn't an evil thing...

Welocme to the forum - and do start up a diary - it's a great place to get support and to keep track of your successes and challenges...
 
First of all welcome. I think you've made a positive step by starting a diary. I'm going to bet that the changes you've mentioned will show you results in the beginning since you have a substantial amount to lose. but soon you will need to make more dramatic changes (as far as diet goes).

As a person with bored/emotional eating habits I must say that it is important to be clear and honest about what you are eating and what you put into your body. Maybe you are different but when I do the "one cheat day a week" thing I gain 3-4 lbs that take me the rest of the week to lose again. I finally realized that its just not worth it. Now I have slipped and I just try to put it past me and get on with my healthy habits.

The best advice I can give you is this:

1. Figure out why you overeat: here is a good thread on this subject http://weight-loss.fitness.com/news-please-read/6117-fear-thin.html

2. Start off by changing daily eating/exercise choices that will benefit your health. For example: Its 10am and you are feeling hungry, breakfast was a couple hours ago and its not quite lunch time, Should you go for the Orange or the Doritos?

3. Make an honest effort to exercise regularly (your plan sounds great!)

4. Be honest with yourself, if you are slipping pick yourself back up and don't let it beat you. Remain strong, and see your challenge through.

I'm looking forward to seeing your progress, Good for you for making a change.
 
Hey you! Welcome and good luck! =) I'm glad you figured this all out at 20years old, it's never too late to start, but better to start young.
 
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