well my mom is on a diet as well so it may be easier for me. I asked her to buy fruit to snack on through out the day instead of the regular crackers and cheese. We are making sweet mashed potatoes instead of regular mashed potatoes.
Other than that I'm going to try to have will power and just have one serving of everything. Try to have my plate look somewhat like it normally would lean meat, veggies and startch. Since my mom is on a diet as well we really aren't doing a big desert.
It may be eaiser for me since there are 2 of us dieting and there are only 4 of us total for TG dinner. Make sure the people you are eating with know your on a diet and will support you. Maybe bring your own healthier dish with you if your going to someone elses.
This may also seem counter intuitive, but try to have something high in fiber with some protien in it about 2 hours before you eat dinner to make sure that your not starving when you go to sit down. THis will hopefully prevent you from eating everything infront of you.
I know its going to be hard but we can get through it!