So... I'm new here or whatever.

Phillip1

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Before I started asking questions in other threads, i thought it only polite to introduce myself here and to tell anyone who cares a little bit about me.

On July 28th of this year I weighed 325 pounds. I stand around 5ft 10inches... you get the idea. Not the picture of health. I looked terrible, I felt terrible, I didn't want to die. So I decided to alter my lifestyle. You have to understand, it's hard work getting to 325. I mean, that's a lot of damage. For dinner at night I might have a frozen pizza (all of it), chips of some sort (probably the whole bag, and those are big bags), polish it off with a pint of ice cream, and oh yeah, let's not forgetting downing who knows how much soda. That was just dinner. Other than that, I'd eat out of vending machines during the day. Me and the Fast Food industry were tight, we hung out a lot. The dudes from my local pizza joints knew me by the sound of my voice. I'd place my order, they'd say "Okay Phill, see ya in a bit!" Depressing. I didn't excercise... I didn't do anything. I was too embarassed to even go to the doctor. So then I turned 30, and decided to change.

I quit everything. No fast food. No snack foods. No pizza (frozen or otherwise), no sugary delicious ice cream. No eating out at all, for 3 months. No drinking alcohol. Instead I started eating diet frozen foods (smart ones, Healthy Choice, Lean Cuisine). I went to the gym 5 days a week, 30 minutes of cardio / 30 minutes of weight circuit training. What do you know, I began to lose weight... fast. This was addicting. Soon I enjoyed stepping on the scale more than I used to enjoy that frozen pizza. Seeing my hard work pay off was awesome. Of course it wasn't easy. At first I would literally lay in my bed at night and think about running out to a gas station and picking up some chips. I would sit at work (I work in televsion), and watch all these commercials for fast food. Man, did I want Fried Chicken, or a roast beef sandwhich, but I never did it. My friends wanted me to go out and grab a few drinks, I had to say no. It was tough, but I knew that once I was out I would drink. I couldn't be trusted. Oh yeah, and when I drink... I eat the most terrible things possible. So I successfully gave it all up, and after a while I didn't want the bad stuff anymore. I had transitioned, I had left it all behind me. It's rare that I ever even think of fast food or chips anymore. Well, I still think about chips sometimes, but I'm over fast food.

After a while, I got sick of the Frozen Dinners, and started preparing food myself. Always congnizant of exactly what I was putting in my body. I measured everything. Mostly I began eating Lean Meats, Whole Grains, and Fruit... but never in excess of 1200 calories a day. Never.

Today I weight 259 pounds. I've lost 66 pounds. I can't even wear my old clothes, and though I still hate the way I look, I feel sooooo much better. My doctor says besides the extra weight I'm otherwise healthy, so that's a good. Things are going well, except. I was 259 pounds last Monday. The Monday before that I was like 260. Something's happened. I've stopped losing. When I initially began all this my mindset was that weight was just a number, I wanted to look and feel good. I wanted to be healthy. However, the weight loss is what gets me excited. It's my reward for all the sacrifice. When I see I've lost, I can't even describe that feeling, it's amazing. Now I'm not losing. I'm frustrated, because I'm killing myself in the gym, and my eating habits are solid and accounted for. That's why I'm here. I'm trying to figure out what's going on. I'm still big, there's still fat to lose. Why am I not losing it? There's a definite caloric deficit. Anyway, that's probably for other forums. I just wanted to introduce myself here, and say great job to everyone else who's decided to change their lives. Later.

Phillip
 
welcome!

Welcome to the forum. Weightloss and a get healthy journey is not an easy one. But few wonderful things in life are easy. I have been on my own weightloss journey too. I did the typical yoyo diet for many years. Now my goal is to help others on their journey to health and wellness.
I recently became a Beachbody Coach. Beachbody is the company that puts out P90, P90x, Turbo Jam, SLim in 6, and many more dvds, supplements and equipment. I am also a certified personal trainer and group fitness instructor.
You'll get there..just keep moving forward! Have a great holiday!
Jen
 
Hi and congratulations for getting to where you are today, what you have achieved is wonderful! As far as your slowing weight loss, I believe you have probably hit a 'plateau'. This was taught to me in my slimming class. A few weeks (or even maybe a month or two!) could pass and there would be no or very little weight loss. For this reason, the heavier the persons were, the more calories they were allowed so that when they hit a 'plateau' they could drop a hundred or so calories without worrying about health consequences. I am eating 1,900 cals a day and I have lost 5 lbs this week and thats with a maccie D thown in! (Although I did do some exercise this week which I haven't done for over a year!) When I hit that plateau I intend to drop a hundred and so on. Of course, you state that you ate 1,200 and never moved from that ever, so its a little tougher on you and I don't suggest you eat any less than you are doing now!! Certainly that is a low number of daily cals for a man anyway! My suggestion is you review what you are eating and see if you can make any alterations/changes to your diet that might spur the weight loss to continue. Some people find that eating a little more fruit or salad per day spurred the weight loss again as the body realises that it is NOT starving and doesn't have to keep on hanging to the fat.

In any case I am pretty sure that if you continue with a healthier lifestyle, you will eventually drop to your ideal weight, so best of luck my friend!!
 
Thanks for the welcome. TurbokickJen, I'm actually familiar with the beachbody line. I work in television, and used to have to watch infomercials all the time. I actually own the original Power 90, that's a great workout; the circuit training I do is sort of based in part from Tony's weight training program. Since I go to the gym now, though, I have more options when working those muscle groups, and I'm able to supplement the workout a bit.

Carlarific, I'm pretty sure I messed up when I dropped my calories so low. I just... I wanted to lose the weight fast, and when I did the math (calories in/calories out) I figured to be losing at least a pound a day (based on 3500 cals=1lb). I did lose weight that fast, for a while. I convinced myself that as long as I kept building muscle, that my metabolism would remain high and I'd continue to naturally use 3000+ calories a day. Of course things started to slow, but that was okay I could live with 3-5 pounds a week, then of course the plateau that brought me here. So now it would be unhealthy to drop any more calories per day and I'm stuck. If I could go back, I guess I'd try to do things the right way, shoot for 2 pounds a week and eat closer to 2000 calories to begin with. Then I could've gradually tapered off. According to most of the handy internet calculators I should be eating a lot more at my current weight... I'm afraid though. I don't want to up my calories, I don't want to put any weight back on. I'm frustrated right now, but putting weight back on would literally devastate me. I'm really struggling with this decision.

So, even though I'm not really sure what to do about this yet, I have decided to try and stay in the gym longer. I feel like when I'm at the gym I already push myself hard, but maybe if I just add another hour it'll make the difference. I guess we'll see. I'll continue to update in the coming weeks.
 
hey phillip!

hey phillip, just wanna say it was very nice reading about you and your journey with weight loss. I am currently on my own weightloss journey as well! 2 monthes ago, I was 250 pounds with 35 percent body fat. but now i am 223 pounds with 26 percent body fat. I am continuing my journey, so good luck to you, i know you can do it!!

I think that the most important thing is to stop counting the number of calories that you are taking. Because everyone's metabolism is different so the amount of calories each person need is also different. just pay attention to what you are putting into your body and don't starve yourself! that is the worse you can do!!

what i did is that i eat low GI foods or I mix low GI foods with medium GI foods, and i eat 3 meals a day with snacks in between. I drink lots of fluids and exercise moderately each day. I pay more attention to the amount of body fat I lose, instead of the weight i lose. I try to gain more muscle in my body because that will speed up my metabolism.

Hope this can help you in your journey!
 
right, so... update. i've now lost over 100 pounds since last august. awsome. super happy about the whole thing.

i've posted in some other forums that i started followin the Body For Life plan. That program gave me a pretty good base to work off of.

3 days a week I do about 50 minutes of weight training, followed by 30 minutes of high intensity cardio. 3 days a week I do between an hour and an hour and a half of cardio. then i take one day off. I've built a lot of muscle. I'm feeling pretty strong really. The coolest thing for me, though, is the cardio. I run. I mean... I freaking run. I start at 4 m/h for two minutes, then 5 m/h for a minute, 6 m/h for a minute, 7 m/h for a minute, 8 m/h for a minute, then back to 5 m/h and build back up again. i repeat that 4 times then after the 4th 8m/h I up the speed to 9m/h. then i drop back down to 4m/h for a minute, then i cool down for a couple minutes, and if I'm feeling strong i just start building up to 10 m/h and just run as hard as i can. then slown down. then stop. that's usually about 30 minutes. if it's a cardio day, i follow this with a similar type of build up on an eliptical machine, using levels (not speed). you have to understand, i can still remember my first day in the gym, when i got on the eliptical, at level 0 the most i could muster was 17 minutes. then i thought i might die. now, i can run. it's a cool feeling.

so reaching the hundred was pretty cool, but I've still got a ways to go. I'm curious how I'll look at 185 lbs. will i be satisfied? or will i decide there's still work to be done. i swear, even i don't know.

at work, people are consitently amazed at the difference in my appearance. there's always somebody who wants to talk about how I've done what I've done, and to be honest I don't really get tired of talking about it. it's a good feeling knowing that other people can see a real difference.

it hasn't all been sugar and rainbows or what have you. a couple weeks back I started feeling just completely drained, mentally exhausted. there are days where i'm just so freaking sick of taking inventory of every single thing that i eat. if i peak over my calorie intake by just a little i end up really hating myself for it. it sucks. it's not like i'm sitting around eating cake, or anything, but if i go over my limit i feel like i'm quitting on myself. part of me really wants to just eat food without thinking about it. i mean, i know the difference between good food and bad food now. it's not like i'm gonna start eating doritos or anything. i just want to be able to eat three squares and not worry about the exact calorie amount, because i know what a proper portion size is, and i know about the value of certain foods. but i'm just not ready. i'm too terrified that i won't continue to lose weight, and it's already become increasingly difficult to shed pounds. which is frustrating really, since i'm still trying to drop another 30 to 40 pounds.

anyway, at the end of the day i'm sticking with it. reading other people's stories here has helped. maybe i'll post some before and after picks or something. i don't feel like i've earned that yet, though, since i'm not at my goal. we'll see.

alright, i'd say that's enough of an update. to anybody reading this, keep up the good work. to those just getting started, I'd love to tell you it gets easier... and it does, a bit anyway. but more than anything it's incredibly satisfying, and any sacrifice you make in order to reach your goals is completely worth it.

later.
 
So, even though I'm not really sure what to do about this yet, I have decided to try and stay in the gym longer. I feel like when I'm at the gym I already push myself hard, but maybe if I just add another hour it'll make the difference. I guess we'll see. I'll continue to update in the coming weeks.

So, if you're going to stay in the gym longer, UP YOUR CALORIES!! More food = more energy to burn the fat in your workouts.

Edit: Maybe I should read the whole thing before I respond... :D
 
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