“Right Here, Right Now”: The Adventures of Fat_Girl_Slim.

Fat_Girl_Slim

New member
Ok so, I have introduced myself in the newbies forum. Now it's time for the nitty-gritty bitties:

-- How much weight do you want to lose?
Current weight = 160lbs.
Goal weight = 135, though I would be ecstatic to see 140, a number I haven’t seen in years. I am 5ft 3in, though most people think I am taller.
To lose = 25. It might not sound like much, but I have been fighting with those 25 pounds for a long, long time and I am tired, tired, tired of it, I can tell you. I am 43 years of age and the pounds have been creeping up in increments of ten every decade. I don’t want to be 170lbs by the time that I am 50.

-- What is the timeframe for reaching your target weight?
My goal is 1st July 2008 = 6 months. That’s one pound per week. I couldn’t be more reasonable than that. I know I can lose weight; the really important (and hardest) part for me is keeping it off. Having said that, I am strangely optimistic this time.

-- How do you want to accomplish your goal (what methods do you want to use)?
I have tried so many things over the years. I am a chronic, serial yo-yo dieter. I’ve done WW four times. Counted points. Counted calories. Tried OA. Read all the books. Years ago I did silly stuff like grapefruit and cabbage diets. The only method that seems to work is doing FitDay (religiously), though I rarely manage to keep it up beyond a month or so. I resurrected my account, and I have been tracking my calories every day for about a week now.

1. Food
From what I have gleaned through the various threads I have read here, about 1400 calories per day is what I need to do achieve my goal.
This is what helps me:
-- Cut down (or out) bread. About one slice per day is all I can tolerate. Any more makes me so bloated, I look like I am pregnant again.
-- Cut down (or out) sugar. Hardly rocket science but the less sugar I eat, the fewer cravings I have. Plus it is impossible to keep to 1400 calories per day with a couple of chocolate bars in the mix, even though I love chocolate and can’t imagine life without it.
-- Fill up on vegetables (also hardly rocket science, but it really works for me).
-- Bringing a packed lunch to work.
-- Restrict late-night snacking – it’s a killer for me. It’s usually all I want to do when the kids are in bed, as a reward, and it’s the hardest part of the day for me, foodwise.

2. Exercise
This is what helps me:
Doing something almost every day; I find that three times per week is a minimum, but five is better.
I cycle to and from work (only five miles in total, but better than driving).
I love yoga, but find it very difficult to discipline myself to practice at home. I need the classes.
I have been a member of a gym, on and off, for years. During my fit periods, I have loved it. During my fat periods, I have hated it.
Right now I have another year and a half in college (as well as my job and looking after three kids), so I find it particularly hard to fit in any gym visits at all. I let my membership lapse about a year ago, so the only option for me right now is to do a 30-minute walk each day – I would be really happy with that.

-- Who or what can support you in reaching your goal?
-- Thankfully, my dear husband is very supportive and really likes when I am eating well and looking after myself. We encourage each other. I don't like to involve my kids as I am terrified they will grow up with the same hang-ups about weight as I did.
-- My friends and extended family are always supportive, but I have been such a yo-yo over the past few years, I get embarrassed admitting that I am back ‘on a diet’ again.
-- You good people. Hint - I am greatly encouraged by lots of p-r-a-i-s-e.

-- How realistic is your goal?
Very, I think. I have set myself and failed so many times. I usually get to about a 5 or 6 pound weight loss, delighted with myself when my clothes start getting looser. Then either I slowly drift back into my old habits, or I use some outside stressful situation as an excuse for not being able to keep it up.

-- When will you start?
I started counting calories again a week ago (28 December 2007), when I signed up here. I have lost two pounds already, though I suspect that is due to the lovely new scales I bought today.
I am currently working, night and day, on an assignment for college, which is due in next week. When that is done, I will start to exercise again.
 
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Had a great start to my day today, by stocking up on loads of lovely organic vegetables and eating well. Then I visited a friend tonight and we ate a pile of leftover Christmas chocolate - >sigh!<

Normally I would use that as an excuse to fall off the wagon but not now. I will start again tomorrow.

Here's a special public note for you, T2 Trucker: you have given me bad rep twice now for having an avatar that you don't like. First you said "your avatar is negative". Then you said: "your avatar sucks". I get the message, ok? The avatar is a joke. So please stop harassing me. I'm here for me, not you.
 
Great job jumpin' on the wagon, Slim!

I know the perils of leftover Christmas goodies. I've indulged in a little leftover dark chocolate twice this week already.

Congrats for not letting it discourage you!
 
So, I had a way better day today (it's 8pm here, eating finished for the day..., though I'll probably have a cup of green tea later).

Breakfast
2 boiled eggs (lovely organic ones, from a farm)
1 thick slice wholewheat soda bread with LF butter
Coffee
Water

Lunch
1 pear
Handful whole almonds
Water

Dinner
Stir fry: mangetout (snow peas), red and orange (bell) peppers, carrot, fennel, onion, garlic, ginger, fresh red chilli, diced tofu, half cup cooked rice, sugar-free teriyaki.
Cold, cooked beetroot
Water
Coffee
1 Stroopwafel

1400 calories.

I stepped on the scale this morning and it read 155lbs. That's a five pound loss in two days, which I don't trust, so I'm not going to get too excited yet. My weight often fluctuates wildly over the week (and month), mostly due to fluid retention, but sometimes I think it's bloating that comes with eating a lot of bread or sugar. If I have a couple of days with no sugar, the weight drops dramatically, then evens out.

Still no exercise as I am still working on a big college assignment, every minute I'm not with the kids. I will be finished next Friday and normal living can resume. My body is so starved of exercise, especially after Christmas. My belly is still sitting on my knees as I type.
 
Had a great start to my day today, by stocking up on loads of lovely organic vegetables and eating well. Then I visited a friend tonight and we ate a pile of leftover Christmas chocolate - >sigh!<

Normally I would use that as an excuse to fall off the wagon but not now. I will start again tomorrow.

Here's a special public note for you, T2 Trucker: you have given me bad rep twice now for having an avatar that you don't like. First you said "your avatar is negative". Then you said: "your avatar sucks". I get the message, ok? The avatar is a joke. So please stop harassing me. I'm here for me, not you.
Hey you had a bad day with the chocalate no worries.... just try not to have two in a row and keep moving forward....
 
Thanks, hbl. Previously, if I had just one bad day, I'd just throw the whole lot up in the air and give up. Not gonna do that anymore.
 
Thanks, hbl. Previously, if I had just one bad day, I'd just throw the whole lot up in the air and give up. Not gonna do that anymore.
Yea we have all been there. It's too easy to give up and start eating what we want and when we want. I have gotten fed up so many times. Just stick to your guns and keep at it...
 
Hi! I'm Jessa. Sounds like you are off to a good start!! I agree totally that in the past I would let a bad day make me give up. It's great that you're combatting that attitude and pushing forward! Your food journal looks great! I am at a similar goal range. Mine is to stay between 1200-1400. Our current weight and goal weight are similar too.

Have a great day!!
 
Hey you had a bad day with the chocalate no worries.... just try not to have two in a row and keep moving forward....

So, I've had two good days in a row and I am jolly pleased with myself.

Today:

Breakfast
Muesli
Sprinkle of ground flaxseed, pumpkin seed and goji berries
Soy milk
A little plain yoghurt
1 chopped kiwi
Coffee

Lots of water

Lunch
Grilled chicken breast
1 cup steamed mixed vegetables
Half stroopwafel
Green Tea

Dinner
Baked salmon
Steamed celery, fennel, mangetout
1 cup homemade mashed potato
Coffee

Total 1400 calories - it's 8pm and I am done for the day.
Exercise - though it's not much, walked the kids to school, then got back on my bicycle and cycled to and from work (5 miles total) which felt good. Everyone in the office is eating healthy food, lots of nuts and salads about and all the Christmas chocolate has vanished!
 
A pretty good day today, too.

Breakfast
Muesli
Sprinkle of ground flaxseed, pumpkin seed and goji berries
Soy milk
A little plain yoghurt
1 chopped kiwi
Coffee

Snack
Pear
Coffee

Lunch
Cold baked salmon leftover from last night, with a little mayo
3 Rye crackerbreads
Chopped Beetroot in plain yoghurt
Green Tea

Snack
Apple
Handful whole almonds

Dinner
M&S 'Count on Us' Chicken pasta dinner
1.5 cup steamed mixed vegetables
Water

Haven't had a chance to count up calories yet, but I guess it's about 1400 or 1500. Exercise - same as yesterday: walked the kids to school, then got on my bicycle and cycled to and from work (5 miles total).

Exhausted today because I stayed up until 2am writing my college assignment. Had to drag myself out of bed this morning, and the kids too. They are only two days back at school and it's non-stop moaning.
But, weighed myself today and - 154.8 - means I have lost 5 pounds this week. This is not a normal weight loss for me and I wouldn't expect (or want) to do that every week. I could never sustain it if I did. But it's nice to get me on my way, all the same.
 
Man, all you peeps cycling back and forth from places like school and work must be burning SO many calories and actually getting yourselves around while saving gas, too...I want a bike so bad!

I feel ya on the staying up late for exams thing. Apparently I am incapable of writing a paper until 3AM on the morning that it's due...:D

Unexpected weight loss is always nice when you're working hard! Congrats!!!
 
Thanks, mav. Where I live, the traffic is so bad that it's actually quicker to get around the place on a bicycle. The car sits outside my house all day.

It's crap about the late night thing, isn't it. Despite all my best efforts, I always end up doing a couple of seriously late nights before I have to hand in a paper.
 
Today:

Breakfast
Muesli
Sprinkle of ground flaxseed, pumpkin seed and goji berries
Soy milk
A little plain yoghurt
1 chopped kiwi
Coffee

Snack
Apple

Lunch
3 large rye crackers
Small tin of chili tuna
2 small crackers
Small lump of blue cheese
Earl grey tea

Snack
Cafe latte
5 squares chocolate

Dinner
Beef and bean chili - about half cup
Lentil dal - about half cup
Salad of rocket, tomato and half avocado, lemon juice and balsamic vinegar
Roobosch tea

About 1500 calories - might have a yoghurt later before bed.

40 minutes cycling (in the rain, bah!)

After a few days of no refined sugar, I ate 5 squares of chocolate this afternoon, accompanied by a latte. It was a not very satisfying treat and I felt dizzy a while afterwards, amazingly.

Then my belly swelled up for about three hours.
 
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Thanks, xobriegurlox.

So, I have had a seriously busy couple of days, working, travelling and doing assignment, but still managed to eat well. This is a major, major plus for me. (and I am finished my college assignment - yay!) Previously, as soon as the stress hits, I always abandoned all my good intentions. So I am very pleased with myself:

Yesterday

Breakfast
Muesli with soy milk and kiwi (all out of yoghurt)
Coffee

Snack
Apple
Rhubarb Yoghurt

Lunch
W.wheat bagel with tomato pesto, red peppers, rocket leaves and avocado
Green tea

Dinner
Cup W.wheat pasta with homemade bolognaise
Cup homemade bean goulash
Salad with rocket, tomato, avocado, drizzle olive oil and balsamic

Today
(Was fasting in the morning, for blood tests, so no proper breakfast, but it all evened out in the end)

Breakfast/lunch
Tuna sandwich on w.wheat bread
coffee

Lunch/Dinner
Thai chicken wrap
500ml Diet Coke
Chopped apple and grapes

Later
Green Tea
3 Rye crackers with hummus
Large fruit salad (pineapple, blueberries, red and black grapes, kiwi, banana) with dollop of plain yoghurt
 
After a few days of no refined sugar, I ate 5 squares of chocolate this afternoon, accompanied by a latte. It was a not very satisfying treat and I felt dizzy a while afterwards, amazingly.

It's amazing how once you've gone off processed foods for awhile, they don't make you feel nearly as good as they used to when you eat them again...I ate some dark chocolate a few days back and it made me feel positively ill.

Great job sticking to your convictions and resisting temptation in the face of stress! :D
 
So I had a really awful week, or I thought I did anyway. This is typical for me... lose 6 or 7 pounds and the clothes feel a little looser, then gradually slide off the wagon.

I stopped counting calories about a week ago (I find the FitDay exhausting, beyond about 2 or 3 weeks, still it's good for getting me started) and, just because I did, I reckoned I had put back on the precious few pounds I lost.

Not so: weighed myself today and saw 154.4 on the scale, which is a tiny loss, but no gain. I have been eating pretty well overall, lots of fruit and veg, but had a couple of hefty sugar days on top. One day, stuck in training sessions all day from work, I ate three chocolate danish pastries. Another day I wolfed down a 100g bar of chocolate with my afternoon coffee. I had desserts on a couple of days. It seemed really bad but in hindsight I suppose it wasn't that awful and I should just move on.

Does anyone have any suggestions for what to eat on for my mid-afternoon sugar craving? I work until 6pm and, almost like clockwork, by the time I hit about 4pm all I want is a giant feed of chocolate. An apple gets me by, but tastes miserable and makes me feel so deprived.
 
So, really annoyingly, but not surprisingly, I have put back on two pounds. Resulting from a combination of kind of crappy eating last week, too much chocolate, plus the time of the month. Back to 156.2. :cry:

When I used to go to WW, I never, ever reached my goal weight. I always put back on at least two pounds during that week of the month - that wasn't the only reason I didn't reach the goal weight (if only it was that easy...) but it was a constant set back and I used it as an excuse to give up, several times.

I dug out the yoga DVDs that I bought about four months ago and never used. Last night I did about half an hour of Yogilates and half an hour of a fab Shiva Rea one. This morning was the first time I have had a morning off work when the kids are in school, and I went for a 5 mile walk in the wind and the rain - it was great and my legs are hanging off me. Today I have to get back to counting calories again, because I can't trust myself without counting at the moment. I wish I could. Maybe some day.

I wonder do folks here who have lost piles of weight over a long time still count calories a year or two later?
 
Hey your doing great so far. Don't let the 2 pounds discourage you, be encouraged that you understand what your weight gain triggers are and will learn to work around them.

Going for a walk in the rain and cold takes commitment, so BIG PROPS to you!!!!!!!
 
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