Really Mad and Hurt

J

Jacobaboba

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Hey gguys, I was really pissed of today when i was talking on aim. I was talking to the friend of a really pretty girl i liked and i thought she liked me too. So i told the girls friend to asker if she liked me. So se talks to her and the pretty girl i like says"yeah, i saw him from far away and thought he was hot, but when i got closer i changed my mind." That really pisses me off which is why i am here trying to get some help n my fitness. I feel if i am better fit that she will lie me better.
 
The type of girls who will like you better if you're more fit, aren't the type of girls I'd recommend seeing. It sounds like a load of bs, but there is ALWAYS someone out there who is bigger, stronger, and more fit. So what happens if she's with you and sees him?
 
mreik is right. If someone only likes you for your appearance and will not like you otherwise then they are probably not a keeper. It will be hard to maintain such a relationship, because what happens if you are unable to keep your body in shape 100% of the time? Does that mean that for the rest of your relationship you will have to invest time and energy into keeping fit just for her satisfaction?

I believe that getting fit and staying that way is important, but mostly for your own benefit. If you want to achieve something, do it for your own personal goals, not for someone else's satisfaction. Besides you will have more motivation and sense of accomplishment if you're getting in shape for yourself.

Good luck and take care.
 
They have already summed it up better than I could. The girl I've been seeing lately is great, she likes me for who I am, has no problem with my body, but encourages me in my fitness pursuit since it makes me happy. It really works out better when you're doing it for yourself, and not others...
 
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