thank you all so much! Well, I say I would like to lose 14 more lbs, but that is just a number, If I am happy with the way I look at 135, 130, etc. then I will stop losing. I would like to lose a little bit more in my upper arms before I start toning them. I dont' want to turn the fat into muscle and be all bulky, lol. I want to do the same with my inner thighs. Pregnancy gave my stomach and hips stretched skin which makes me look bigger around there, not neccesarily when I'm standing but it's bad when I 'm sitting down and I'm trying to figure out how to get rid of that. After I am down to the approximate size that I want to be I'm going to start working on toning everything up. I'm doing some strength training exercises right now, but mostly aerobics to burn the fat away. Afterwards I'll probably get a membership to a gym so I can work on the machines. I look pretty good in clothes, but I want to look great in a bikini! lol. Thank you for the comments that my daughter looks like me. I like to hear that because she is so beautiful

oh, btw mehdi, I am young, lol. I'm 19 and will be 20 in 2 months