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mirjam1

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Hi there,
I am new to this forum and found it while searching for weight loss advice. I have recently decided time had really come to take my overweight serious and get to work on losing it. It feels like I have been dieting all my life which probably sounds familiar to many of you, and even though I have had some great success in the past, losing many many kilos, it all came back over time.

Anyways, I am now set on reaching a healthy weight and not giving up before I get there, and hope to find helpful information in this forum!

btw, I am a 35 year young woman, living in Spain (I should probably make better use of the mediterranean diet LOL ) and because of my line of work my activity level is way too low. I have a total of 35 kilos to lose, 1 is gone already, and hopefully reach my goal next year :)

greetings to all of you!
 
Hey there!

Welcome! I am with ya! I am so ready to get these extras off and keep them off! We can do it! I think you will find alot of very helpful info and people within this forum! Are you doing any type of special eating program or just trying it the traditional, healthy way? :) What about excercise? Planning on doing any outside of your work schedule! That surely is one good thing about excercise....you never want to do it, but you NEVER regret doing it!! Keep me updated! I think the more support and acocuntability that you have the easier it is!

Happy loosing!

Megan
 
I know what you mean about being on a diet all the time. I too have just joined hoping that this will be the time that finally sinks in and everything comes together. Good Job on the Kilo so far. Keep at it!
 
Hi and welcome...

Yeah, can definitely relate to always dieting and yo-yoing, This place is awesome, there is so much support, information, and inspirational stories, diaries, and photos. I just wanted to say hey and welcome aboard... We all can do this, just keep the faith, and already you are seeking help which shows how serious you are. Best of luck to you!!!:seeya:

Natasha
 
Hey there!

Welcome! I am with ya! I am so ready to get these extras off and keep them off! We can do it! I think you will find alot of very helpful info and people within this forum! Are you doing any type of special eating program or just trying it the traditional, healthy way? :) What about excercise? Planning on doing any outside of your work schedule! That surely is one good thing about excercise....you never want to do it, but you NEVER regret doing it!! Keep me updated! I think the more support and acocuntability that you have the easier it is!

Happy loosing!

Megan

Hi Megan!
thank you for your response :)
I think you are right about the accountability and boy have I set myself up to be accountable LOL, I told my mother (she needs to lose weight as well, so we "agreed" that we were going to lose 10 kilos before new years eve, I told my friends and my boyfriend who is very supportive, but in the right way, without bullying, without blaming or being on my tail the whole time, plus I went even further, I set up my own web to be accountable online and track my whole weight loss venture ROFL

Since I have been yo-yo-ing a lot over, well, my whole life, I made the decision NOT to diet anymore. Atleast not go on any restrictive diet. The day I decided not to go on any diet anymore, was actually the moment where my weight stopped spiralling out of control. 5 years ago, I weighed a heafty 140 kilos, I now am at 112 but feel I have been at that weight for way too long now and that I should take action to go all the way back to a healthy weight.

This is part of the problem as well, as I figured out talking to my mom the other day. Having lost close to 30 kilos already, I think at one point I must have been feeling so great about the weightloss already, and feeling so much healthier that I just did not bother to continue, like an unconscious decision I made that I was already happy about the way I felt. (hope that makes sense)

So I am slowly starting to find ways to implement more activity in my daily schedule, I work at home on the computer, which is a big part of my problem, having to sit the majority of the day, but now I am going to see it as part of the solution, being able to set up my day myself and implement more activity.

As far as the food goes, instead of counting calories and the lot, I am trying to eat more regularly, have a good breakfast and eat smaller portions throughout the day. I am also looking for ways to prepare my food in a healthier way, I threw out my deepfryer and replaced it for a machine that sort of fries without using oil, but still makes food give that crispy taste and am working on recipes to prepare my favorite foods healthier. Like for example, living on my own, I like to prepare foods in bigger quantities and then portion freeze it. This way I always have a fast healthy option available to me, which will help me control cravings.

I made an awesome "chinese fried rice" the other day. I used wholegrain rice and plenty of veggies in it, replaced the pork for shrimps and chicken and only used a little bit of extra virgin olive oil instead of the loads of butter I would use to prepare it in the past.

I was schooled to be a professional chef, changed my line of work years ago, but now getting back to feel the joy of cooking again, so I will be experimenting a lot there.

So that is the basic plan LOL, most important is to stay on track ;)

cheers to you!
Mirjam
 
I know what you mean about being on a diet all the time. I too have just joined hoping that this will be the time that finally sinks in and everything comes together. Good Job on the Kilo so far. Keep at it!

hi txnikita :)
LOL yeah, I too hope if all comes together now
like I mentioned in my response to Megan, after having lost a lot of weight the a while ago, there is now a switch I needed to turn and acknowledge that eventhough losing 30 kilos was great, I am not at the endpoint yet. LOL
 
Yeah, can definitely relate to always dieting and yo-yoing, This place is awesome, there is so much support, information, and inspirational stories, diaries, and photos. I just wanted to say hey and welcome aboard... We all can do this, just keep the faith, and already you are seeking help which shows how serious you are. Best of luck to you!!!:seeya:

Natasha

Hey Natasha!
thank you for the warm welcome, LOL always wondering how come it is especially the overweight people who seem to know so much about food, calories, diets and the lot. And yeah, pretty serious about going back to a healthy weight again, certainly noticing it gets harder the older you are, so I better get working on it right now instead of in another couple of years LOL

See you around :)
 
Hey!
I,too, have struggled with weight my whole life! Go you - on creating a place online to track your weight loss! That should be way motivating in itself. Do you have a link or is it private? I actually created an online weight loss supoprt group(with weekly online chats) and a local weekly weight loss support group as well. If that doesn't keep me on track I don't know what the heck can!!! :)

I know what you mean about kinda subconsciously deciding you were okay at that weight and stopped the plan. I've done that a couple times. For me, I start wuestioning myself. Why am I dieting? I love myself the way I am. Etc. Etc. Yada Yada. Ive tried reading reasons I want to loose every morning. Didnt work. So, this time around I made a poster of reasons(in bright colors-I might add lol) and put it on my fridge! It's bound to do the trick, right?
I think getting rid of the deep fryer was the BEST thing ever could have done! lol. I don't eat a lot of deep fired foods. And I actually try to cook for the week on Sunday or Monday. That way I don't have a reason to eat unhealthy fast food. It saves money too! Yah! Sweets are my down fall! I love em! They say the first step is admiting you have the problem! Hehe. I have cute back alot and don't eat them much anymore. On occassion, I do though. Better than dialy, though, I guess.
Sounds like you are making some really great, healthy, changes in your life. I think that along with a whole lotta support is the key to weight loss success! Seems to me like you are doing great hus far! I know you will only keep it up! Especially if you visit the forums often! They are so helpful, sometimes when you need it the most!
Great Work! Keep me updated and as always... Happy Loosing!
 
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