I keep hearing about having shorter goals but the only goal for me is to have a six or 8 pack that's it really. I can see the difference and it motivates me to continue..
Well, having the goal is only half the problem, setting you path to get there is another issue in itself.
It's like taking a road trip. You can say you want to go to Vegas, but you wouldn't just get in your car and start driving. You'd have to get maps/directions on how to get there. You need to know what needs to be done to get that 6 pack. You have to know what kind of changes you need to make to your diet and what kind of exercise to do to lose the weight and then how to tone up after you've done that. Don't think you are going to click the banner at the top of the page, pay them a few bucks for a magic pill and 4 weeks later look like you've been working out your whole life. It just doesn't work that way. These "quick fixes" just pray on people who want to lose weight fast. The only way to lost weight fast is liposuction and/or gastric-bypass surgery, which is not recommended.
As I said before, and I'm not saying you are lazy or going to slack off, but setting a shorter time span you want to accomplish your goals does help. Most people, if they give themselves a year to do something, they will say, oh I got 12 months to do this, I don't have to worry about it now. I've got 6 months, I don't have to worry about this now and come around the last month or two, they are going crazy cause they haven't started yet. Again, not saying you are like this, this is just the norm for many people.
I set my goal for 4 months from now to go from 200 to 160-170 depending on how much it takes to get the weight off my midsection and show my abs again. I have them, I just need to lose the weight they are hiding behind. I'm having a slow start cause I just have been lazy for the past year and not gone to the gym and my diet is suffering right now cause I don't have money to spend on healthy food due to bills and the holiday coming up. I wanna take my GF to Woldwood for vacation again this year and I want to look good this time, so I've set a shorter goal.
All this aside, at the end of the day, if this is what you really feel is the time span you want to give yourself, that's fine, you have to do it however you feel most comfortable. If you are not happy with what you are doing or how you are doing it, you'll probably stop working towards your goal.
You have to keep in mind, whatever you do, you must continue to do. Dieting only works while you are dieting. Once you are done and have lost the weight and gone back to the "old ways" you will begin to regain the weight. Don't think of this as a diet, think of it as a life change because, in fear of sounding redundant, you have to stick with it forever.
I wish you the best of luck Somedude.
- Lettuce