Need Advice......and a big thank you in advance

[Rickmc]

I never thought I would see the day I was writing to a forum. But anyway,...
I have never been that active as a person, I was always a musician. So what that lead to was Smoking and Drinking a lot. Well, a few months ago I decided that I had had enough. So, 6 months ago, I quit drinking and have not even looked at a beer since then. 1 month ago, I had my last cigarette. And god willing, they are both the last ones I have ever had. But I need something more. Here is my issue,

I am 37 Years old
5"10
and I weigh 215lbs

Now according to the charts for my height I should be at 170lbs. Personally, I think that is way to skinny for me. I would love to just see 190 again!

I just have no idea where to start. I ill start by saying that I hate gyms. I dont know why. For some reason I think I am always being watched and judged (ya, I know...Like Im that important?) I know it is in my head, but that is the way it is I guess. I really WAnt to Lose the weight, I WANT to get healthy, I WANT to be able to go hiking etc etc etc.

I have a beautiful wife and three great kids. I want to be able to spend the rest of my life with them and having a great time. and Not getting angry because I am over tired, and not feeling like I just don't have the energy. I am tired of feeling like this. Some people have suggested to me that I try the P90X others have suggested the Spartacus training. I just don't know where to start. I suppose walking is a good choice, but I want to build a little muscle mass as well. I want to feel and look good again. and as of right now, I just don't. So, I figured I would give this forum a try and see if anyone has a "Beginners Guide to the Unhealthy?" Maybe a "Try a sit up to start?" ha ha I don't know....It's like looking at the top of a mountain dying to get there, but you just have no way to get there....because your not sure you have the right tools to bring?....if that makes sense at all?......anyway, sorry for the ranting, but I guess thats my way of saying....Hi, My name is Rick.....anyone have any advice?

Thanks in advance.......Rick

 

[Steve]

Hi Rick. Welcome to the community. I think I can help out a bit. The 30,000 foot high view is this - you're changing your body and health for the better, you've kicked some nasty habits (congrats by the way) and now you want to focus on looking good naked.



Sticking with very general lines of thinking, you need to lose some fat and maintain the muscle your currently have. You're not going for the bodybuilder look I imagine. So maintaining what you have would probably serve your goal. If you add a little more than you have, so be it and all the better.

Knowing that these are the two variables you need to focus on (losing fat and maintaining/building muscle, it becomes pretty simple, on paper, to figure out what to do.

On the fat loss side of things, you need to be expending more energy than your body needs - get yourself into a calorie deficit as it's often called. In theory, this deficit can be established entirely be eating less food than your body needs. Ideally though, the deficit is established by some combination of diet and exercise.

So do you need to count calories? Not necessarily. I think it'd be a good idea at first - give you a good feel of portion sizes, energy density of various foods, habits that are screwing you up, etc. But again, it's not necessary.

Very generally speaking, typical "junk food" is much more energy/calorie dense than typical "health food." Which means that per volume, junk food has more calories in it than health food. By default, if you were to cut out all junk food and replace it with health food, you'd likely reduce your calorie intake and create your deficit. Granted, you don't need to be so rigid and nix every pleasure from your life... I'm must making a point.

Some guidelines to help you adhere to a healthier eating style might look something like:

1. Have some plan when it comes to your weekly nutrition. I have my clients prep their foods in advance which entails precooking meats, breaking out foods into reasonable serving sizes in baggies, etc. This way it's simply a matter of grabbing and going. It's a lot less painful than trying to make healthy decisions in the heat of the moment - there's a lot of unhealthy foods vying for your attention in our culture/media!

3. Stick to whole natural foods for the majority of your diet - majority being the operative word. Don’t be so rigid that one bite of cake causes so much guilt it turns into an entire cake. No food on its own merit is “good” or “bad.”

4. Eat protein (preferably from lean sources) at every meal. Good sources of protein include (but aren’t limited to) chicken breast, turkey breast, pork tenderloin, lean ground beef, lean cuts of steak such as top round, venison, fish, seafood, eggs, dairy, and protein powder.

5. Consume 2-4 servings of fruit per day.

6. Consume 4-6 servings of fibrous vegetables per day. They’ll provide loads of nutrition and satiety without a massive caloric punch.

I could go on, but you get the point. Most of us knows exactly how we *should* eat. The hard part is establishing an environment and mindset that promotes healthy behaviors and habits.

If you feel you can't go it without counting calories, than you need to figure out your total daily calorie needs first. There are a bunch of ways you can estimate this. My suggestion is to keep it simple. If you're going to start exercising most days of the week, something like 14 calories per pound is a reasonable estimate.

This would put you at 3000ish cals per day. If you think you're more sedentary or that you're not going to exercise that much, cut it down to 12 or 13 cals/day. It's not rocket science. Once we have a reasonable estimate of your daily expenditure, you can set your calorie intake at a level below this to trigger your deficit.

I'm a fan of deficits of 25% or thereabouts, which would put your daily calorie target at 2250 or so.

One part many people screw up is the idea that once the above math is worked out, they expect it to work flawlessly. They forget that we're working with a lot of estimates here and there's some individuality at play here as well. So it's not the selection of your starting calorie intake that matters so much. Rather it's the process you adhere to afterwords.

That process should entail:

1. Track your measurements, weight, body fat, pictures, etc every 2-4 weeks. Use what you have available. Most everyone can easily pick up a soft tape measure (I like the one called the myo tape, which you can find on amazon) and a camera.

2. Based on the trend you’re seeing with your tracking, adjust your intake accordingly. This doesn't mean that if things go in the wrong direction one day, or even a week, that you panic. It means that you focus on the longer term trends. Expect that adjustments will have to be made. And make them logically based on what's happening with the metrics from #1.

3. Rinse and repeat steps 2-4 until you a) reach your goal or b) your goals change.

Now all of this and we still didn't talk about exercise. Let me preface this by saying it's important to not bite off more than you can swallow. It might be wise to get your nutrition under wraps first. The last thing you want to do is shoot yourself in the foot by making life a living hell by forcing too much change at once.

But the above nutrition stuff will take care of the fat loss side of things for the most part. To aid in the establishment of a deficit, you might consider 3-5 sessions of "cardio" per week. Start slow. Walking is a great form of exercise. Hiking is fantastic... I'm an avid hiker/backpacker myself. Focus on things that you enjoy and that keep you moving for extended periods of time (20-60 minutes).

On the muscle preservation/building side of things, generally speaking, resistance training is the king. You hate gyms for illogical reasons in my opinion. It'd be great if you could overcome those misconceptions you have. If you can't though, you can easily do stuff from the comfort of your home. As you mentioned, P90X is an option. Besides the train, Tony, being a total screwball, it's a half decent program considering it's a mass-marketed, hyped up, prepackaged product.

You could also consider investing in some equipment assuming you have the space and funds and do your own programming. Might seem daunting at first, but hang with the right people on the right forums and you'll learn quickly. I could help you out with suggestions in terms of equipment selection if you choose this route.

In many areas, there are small, private facilities that offer private personal training. That might be something for you to consider as well.

I don't want to dive into the details of resistance training and program design here as I likely already threw too much at you. Hopefully this gives you a good idea about things though and if you have questions, feel free to ask!

 

[Scott_Jones]

A good option is a program called Turbulence Training. It is specifically geared toward busy individuals who can't spend half their life in a gym. The goals are building strength and losing fat.