My families unusual response to weight loss

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DUNLAPCHS

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This may sound like an odd question, but since loisng weight, my wife seems not happy or proud but angry with me. It may be jealousy or something else. Anybody else have a similar problem? How do you handle it? Help me out, PLEASE!
 
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She could be worried that you may go elsewhere. that you are loosing weight to be with another person or to get another person.
Or even if you arnt that you may end up thinking that you can do better once you get down in weight.

Make sure you reassure her how much shes the person for you.
I had a similar problem with my hubby at first but now hes great.
 
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Well your wife could be worried or jealous of other women looking at you, or if she is also out of shape she might be jealous of your progress and mad at herself for not being able to achieve the same. You should sit her down and talk with her, reassure her that it's for your health and that you still love her and theres a reason why you married her instead of staying single and chasing college girls.
 
Is your wife overweight per chance? If she is then there may be some jelousy that you have lost so much and she hasnt (even if she hasnt asked or said anything).

People are weird - emotions even more so.
If i were you i would just go and ask her outright what the problem is.
 
Have you gotten her involved with your weight loss, or offered her the chance to be involved?
 
Husband: I'm going to get in shape and feel better about myself and look better for my wife whom I love.
Wife: He's having a midlife crisis and is having an affair with a younger more attractive woman and will leave me

I can't explain the thought process that goes thru some women's head - but it is there sometimes... Talk to her - not about her behavior itself (ie don't point fingers - like why are you acting all jealous) but how you're feeling :D
 
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