Man-Beast to Marathon

codon2004

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I've decided to start my own diary... I've been posting on here for a bit, but not in this section. Here's my story...

I was always overweight growing up. My dad is overweight, my mom is somewhat overweight. I have 3 older brothers, and none of them are overweight, though one was as a child, like me. Growing up, I always played sports and was a pretty active kid, but the diet was so bad that I always kept some extra weight on. I mean, even as a teenager, I didn't give any thought to downing half a dozen Cokes a day. But then high school came, and I got interested in track and field, and girls. With the combination of the two, the weight came off. I was a competitive runner in the 1600 meter distance, while also competing in discus and shotput. An odd combination of events if you're familiar with track and field. I was able to do it because, even at my skinniest, I was still 6-2, and about 200 pounds. Some people claim to be big-boned, but I really am. When I was 200 pounds, my mother was threatening to bring me to a hospital because I was so skinny (she was overreacting really though). The crazy thing is, I never changed my diet. I obtained that physical fitness because I was working out like a madman training for track and field, but my diet was still pretty bad. Then I went to college. I stopped working out because I was too busy with partying and drinking. Now that I'm health-conscious, I shudder to think what my daily caloric intake was like then. How much is in 8 beers, a large pizza, and 10 buffalo wings... because that was an average dinner. And this continued through college and into young bachelor life. A few years ago, I met my fiance, and she tried to clean me up, but she's had her own weight issues, and we only ended up gaining more weight together. This February I went to the doctor, and was 411 pounds.

I decided to change my life at the beginning of this June. My fiance and I had both been looking into getting lapband surgery during the early part of this year. Because of some medical complications, she was able to get it done before me. She had the surgery a couple months ago. Between pre-surgery dieting and post-surgery life, she has gone from a high of 221 pounds to a current weight of 181 and is still dropping. But I have her beat.

When my fiance went on her pre-surgery diet at the beginning of June, I decided to join her in a lifestyle change. It's not the same to pig out by yourself. I started playing basketball daily, and more recently I've been going to the gym everyday. At the end of March, I was laid off from my job. I still intended to get lapband, but as the medical bills started piling up I decided this was stupid. If I want to do this right I have to do it myself. I've recently cancelled all my appointments and I will not be getting surgery. I don't need a safety net. I'm dominating this on my own. Over the past two months, I've felt so much better. I can feel my old self reemerging. I plan to be looking pretty good for our wedding in May of 2010.

I've been losing weight pretty fast... maybe faster than would be recommended. But when you're 411 pounds, it's impossible to keep that weight on while living a reasonable lifestyle. If I ate 3500 calories a day, I'd be back to living to eat rather than eating to live. I can't find a way to take in that many calories without eating foods that would provide too much fat, sodium, etc. I'm not worrying about it though... as I go down, I know this is going to get harder, the weight loss will slow down and I'll need to make adjustments. When I put my mind to it, there's nothing I can't do. That's why I intend to run the Boston Marathon for my 30th birthday, in April of 2012. That gives me about another year and a half to get the rest of the weight off, and the remainder of the time to get back into top end running shape. I'm going to get there.

I've kept a daily log of my weight on my computer, I won't post the whole thing but here's a summary to get started.

6/10/09: 389.2
6/17/09: 380.8
6/24/09: 379.4
7/1/09: 373.6
7/11/09: 364.2
718/09: 358.0
7/25/09: 352.2
8/1/09: 346.0
8/8/09: 339.0
 
Wow! Your story is amazing... and it sounds like you're doing really well so far! I think it's great that you decided to lose weight without the surgery.
 
340 today. Up 1 pound. I don't worry about the day to day fluctuations too much, so long as I have a good trend pattern going. With working out twice yesterday, I think I burned more calories in those workouts than I took in during the day, forget all the other calories my body needs. I'm sure I'll go down again within the next few days.

Now I'm off to the gym again. Gonna keep it to once today. Then a fabulous trip to Christmas Tree Shop with my fiance. :banghead:
 
Your story is truely amazing! You seem incredibly motivated & I'm sure you will be able to achieve whatever you set your mind to. It defiantly does help having a significant other who is aiming for a more healthy life style. My boyfriend & I are in this together too! Although he is trying to gain muscle more than lose fat... it's still nice to see him going to the gym everyday bc it makes me want to go too.

Have you tried recording your food intake and workouts? That has really helped me & if you record on here you can get a lot of feed back!
 
At first I was recording my food intake, but I stopped pretty early on. I've never been an overly adventurous eater... when gaining all my weight, I wasn't eating a wide variety of things, just a lot of them. I still don't eat a huge variety just because I'm a bit of a picky eater. At this point, I pretty much know the calories/fat grams/sodium of everything I eat, and can keep a running tally in my head throughout the day. I make sure to get my fruits and veggies, and my meals are usually one of maybe a dozen or so things I like and am able to make well and quickly. My workouts are pretty consistent too. 45 minutes on the treadmill, brisk walking with varying degrees of incline. Every other day I do some lifting work too.
 
Weighed in at 339.6 this morning. Hovering around the same mark for a few days now. It always seems to go this way. I lose in bunches for a few days at a time, and then I level out for a few days. Now I'm trying to get myself motivated to go to the gym. I hate going in the morning, but I have a full day ahead so it's the only time I really have.

Ate lunch at The Ninety-Nine yesterday. This used to mean buffalo wings, a burger, fries, and beer. Now I make good decisions. Shrimp skewers and rice. And diet coke. I don't even drink soda at home anymore, but I feel bad ordering water at a restaurant... when you lead off your meal with two waters, you know your waitress is just saying "FML".
 
Dropped to 337.2 today.

Yesterday was a good day, because I had to deal with hunger, but did it successfully. We were out all day, and I found myself at about 2:30 PM having not eaten anything since I had had a shake for breakfast. This is the kind of situation where I used to end up wolfing down fast food. But instead, we stopped for lunch and I got a salad with lite italian dressing, and then salmon with rice. Since my lifestyle change, I've been eating more often throughout the day, just eating less and better... I try to stay ahead of hunger. Just remember, when you're really hungry, eating anything will take that hunger and craving away, it doesn't have to be something bad.
 
hey man i just wanted to chime in. I wasn't quite as heavy, but i was a heaby guy a couple years ago. i lost about 50 lbs just from cutting fast food and soday, and this year was my finale. lose 130 or bust! actually lose 130, or finish up to 130 next year lol. but i seem to be on track with my goal thus far. If you need any suggestion or anything about what i'm doing vs what youa re doing and such, feel free to ask. heck, if i slow down too much before my goal, i may be in here to talk to you! good luck and keep it up man.
 
Thanks man. It hasn't happened yet, but I'm anticipating that I'm going to hit some serious roadblock along the way where I start to get stuck. At that point it's nice to know there are people around here who have been up at least close to as I high as I was, and have made it down. Thanks for the support!

Just back from the gym. Added in a few minutes of running at 6.0 mph at the end. Now I just gotta stretch those few minutes out to a few hours and I'll be marathon ready in no time! Or something.
 
Up to 338.2 today.

Off to a job interview now. I hate going to job interviews because I know there's probably at least a 50% chance I won't even want the job. If it doesn't seem like something I'm into, I'll just start pronouncing job as "jorb" and claim that I can bring the company "immunity from prosecution" as well as "general awesomeness" and "loads of hash".
 
Weighed in at 337.2 this morning. Still sort of hovering around the same area, but I think I'll be dropping soon.

My friend hosted his big annual wiffeball game and cookout today... one of the events I look forward to each summer. Got in quite a workout in the 93 degree heat. And I displayed will power at the cookout. Brought turkey breast burgers I had made and had leftover. A much healthier alternative to the popular fare at this cookout... the infamous bacon burger dog. That's a hot dog stacked on top of a burger, topped off with bacon, and preferably finished off with cheese. What more could you do to make a food bad for you? Why not just dip it in chocolate and then fry it. As I recall from last year though, they are delicious.
 
Down to 335.8 this morning.

Spent the day visiting with my family. Again able to avoid the pitfalls... went out to dinner at a seafood place on the water and avoided all the fried stuff. Stuck with broiled scallops, baked potato, and corn. A little high in carbs I guess, but nothing unreasonable. The best part about seeing my family is playing with my nieces and nephews. I'm the cool uncle because while everyone else is sipping wine or whatever, I'm running around with the kids. With getting married and eventually kids of my own on the horizon, it'll be nice to get this weight off so I'm not always this sore after playtime.
 
That's why I intend to run the Boston Marathon for my 30th birthday, in April of 2012.

That's exciting, don't forget though that you have to qualify for entry into Boston with a finish of 3:10:00 or better in another marathon.

Good luck to you! There's nothing more enjoyable than a long-distance run. (well...almost nothing...)
 
Forgot to check in for a while. Down to 333.8 as of this past morning.

Found over the past few days that I needed to turn up the intensity on my workout. I felt maybe it was getting a little easy, and those heartbeat monitor handles don't lie I guess. I checked myself and was about 10-15 bpm below target. So today I figured out a new program with a bit higher intensity and the heart rate went back up. Thank goodness for technology like that... and for air conditioned gyms. Been in the 90's everyday for like a week. Unfortunately had to attend a funeral this morning and was thinking they'd have to start a new ditch for me the way I was sweating.
 
Hello codon,

Great Work on the loss so far!! Amazing. Keep it up! You Can Do it!! :)
:seeya:
 
Down to 331.6 today.

Yesterday I bought a couple pairs of pants, and I didn't have to go to a big and tall store, which is nice. Clothes getting too big is a good thing, but also really sucks. I liked my clothes. I even bought a couple things about a month or so back, and they're getting to be a little big. For the most part though I'm trying to wear a lot of clothes I did even at my heaviest, and just tightening the belt. I'm not going to splurge on a whole new wardrobe until I start looking ridiculous... why waste the money if I'm just going to shrink out of the new clothes too?
 
Haven't updated this in a while. Weighed in at 324.6 today.

Going to a wedding tonight. Was at the rehearsal dinner for it on Wednesday night and all the food was so unhealthy. I really had to pick around to get something reasonable. And tonight I hear there will be an absurd amount of food. Following the formal dinner there will be other food stations set up, including a mashed potato station. Seriously? That's necessary? I think this whole thing was set up as a plot to try to make me gain weight. It'll be tough laying off all the bad foods, as well as the booze tonight, but I've gotten used to it recently.
 
Weighed in at 321.6 today. Officially at 75 pounds lost since I started tracking my weight daily.

People are really starting to notice now, which is nice. I get a lot of "you look great"s, or sometimes people talking about it with my fiance when I'm not around since they think it would embarrass me I guess. I need new underwear. When I'm running on the treadmill, my shorts stay up because they have ties, but my boxers start to fall down underneath, and I usually choose to stop running rather than look like a creep running with my hands in my pants.
 
Weighed in at 310.8 this morning.

Boxed up A LOT of clothes that don't fit anymore last night. Will bring them to Goodwill. Are there any people THAT FAT who are also that needy though? At some point, I imagine most people would chose being able to keep clothes on their backs over eating McDonalds when the money gets tight. Some of those clothes are big enough that they must have significant value simply for the material in them. Use some of my old sweatshirts to make tents for refugee camps in Sudan.

Down 86+ pounds so far... since June 1... halfway there pretty much.
 
That's.... an astonishing amount of weight loss is such a short time.

I'm only losing at less than half that rate - I'm envious. :)
Seriously, welll done, and I hope things continue to go well for you.

How many calories do you eat in a day? Just curious.


Oh, and having read your previous journal posts, I now really want one of those bacon buger dogs....
 
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